# No, I'm not an antisocial bitch -- I just loathe \*YOU\* **URL:** \ **Category:** The BBQ Pit\ **Created:** [October 19, 2004, 12:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-im-not-an-antisocial-bitch-i-just-loathe-you/269938 "2004-10-19T00:14:31Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 14\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![BiblioCat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/ed8c4c/32.png) [@BiblioCat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BiblioCat)\ **Post date:** [October 19, 2004, 12:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-im-not-an-antisocial-bitch-i-just-loathe-you/269938/21 "2004-10-19T12:10:12Z")
> [@StarvingButStrong](#): > > from stealing money by hurrying to occupy restaurant tables/booths before the waitress can clear them, … What is this one? Sitting down and stealing her tip before the tale is cleared? That’s something to be proud of? _That’s_ really low. And good for you for doing the right thing, **SBS**. ---
**Author:** ![Cheesesteak](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cheesesteak/32/3694_2.png) [@Cheesesteak](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cheesesteak)\ **Post date:** [October 19, 2004, 12:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-im-not-an-antisocial-bitch-i-just-loathe-you/269938/22 "2004-10-19T12:55:51Z")
> [@BiblioCat](#): > > What is this one? Sitting down and stealing her tip before the tale is cleared? That’s something to be proud of? > _That’s_ really low. Yes, and apparently, the waitress NEVER notices that the table where people rushed in quickly before it could be cleared had no tip… Yes, they never notice, and would never put something unsavory in their food, nope, never happens. Oh, and good on you for reporting them. People like that deserve jail. ---
**Author:** ![NurseCarmen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/5daacb/32.png) [@NurseCarmen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/NurseCarmen)\ **Post date:** [October 19, 2004, 12:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-im-not-an-antisocial-bitch-i-just-loathe-you/269938/23 "2004-10-19T12:59:19Z")
You rock **SBS** , I really really hope you follow through with this. We expect an update! ---
**Author:** ![norinew](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/eb9ed0/32.png) [@norinew](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/norinew)\ **Post date:** [October 19, 2004, 2:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-im-not-an-antisocial-bitch-i-just-loathe-you/269938/24 "2004-10-19T14:56:21Z")
Not only is **Starving** doing the right thing by reporting it, but I, for one, am _glad_ she was so upfront about it. Give the little slime a chance to stew for a while; losing a little sleep might do her some good. ---
**Author:** ![joemama24\_98](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/ce7236/32.png) [@joemama24\_98](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/joemama24_98)\ **Post date:** [October 19, 2004, 3:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-im-not-an-antisocial-bitch-i-just-loathe-you/269938/25 "2004-10-19T15:13:57Z")
REPORT HER! please? Just for me? She’s making the damn system more expensive for everyone else. Plus, you may be entitled to whistleblower money… ---
**Author:** ![Merijeek](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f05b48/32.png) [@Merijeek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Merijeek)\ **Post date:** [October 19, 2004, 3:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-im-not-an-antisocial-bitch-i-just-loathe-you/269938/26 "2004-10-19T15:20:28Z")
> [@Metacom](#): > > Report her to SS, please. What she did is disgusting (and if she didn’t do it, bragging about it is almost equally disgusting). Eh, from people I’ve know, she did it. She just didn’t do it quite as awesomely successfully as she claims she did. I knew someone who would walk into a book store, grab a book off of a front display, put her driver’s license in it like a bookmark, and then proceed to the counter to exchange it for another book. She figured that if she ever got busted she could play the Crazy Card (on disability for various mental problems) to get out of it. Some people are just like that. What are ya gonna do? -Joe ---
**Author:** ![Troy\_McClure\_SF](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/troy_mcclure_sf/32/4150_2.png) [@Troy\_McClure\_SF](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Troy_McClure_SF)\ **Post date:** [October 19, 2004, 6:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-im-not-an-antisocial-bitch-i-just-loathe-you/269938/27 "2004-10-19T18:26:23Z")
> [@Merijeek](#): > > I knew someone who would walk into a book store, grab a book off of a front display, put her driver’s license in it like a bookmark, and then proceed to the counter to exchange it for another book. She figured that if she ever got busted she could play the Crazy Card (on disability for various mental problems) to get out of it. Ah, the “Uncle Leo” manuever. Jerry’s Uncle Leo on _Seinfeld_ would go into bookstores, steal books, and if caught, would yell, “I’m an old man! I’m confused, I have no idea where I am!” ---
**Author:** ![hajario](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/hajario/32/171_2.png) [@hajario](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/hajario)\ **Post date:** [October 19, 2004, 7:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-im-not-an-antisocial-bitch-i-just-loathe-you/269938/28 "2004-10-19T19:18:05Z")
Bravo, **Starving**! Haj ---
**Author:** ![Miller](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/miller/32/481_2.png) [@Miller](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Miller)\ **Post date:** [October 19, 2004, 8:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-im-not-an-antisocial-bitch-i-just-loathe-you/269938/29 "2004-10-19T20:35:08Z")
> [@Merijeek](#): > > Some people are just like that. What are ya gonna do? Pummel them with a tire iron? ---
**Author:** ![Zebra](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/c0e974/32.png) [@Zebra](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Zebra)\ **Post date:** [October 19, 2004, 8:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-im-not-an-antisocial-bitch-i-just-loathe-you/269938/30 "2004-10-19T20:52:58Z")
I’m going to beat you with a crowbar, untill you go away. ---
**Author:** ![Excalibre](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/898d66/32.png) [@Excalibre](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Excalibre)\ **Post date:** [October 20, 2004, 12:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-im-not-an-antisocial-bitch-i-just-loathe-you/269938/31 "2004-10-20T12:57:02Z")
Good for you. With any luck, that worthless bitch WILL go to jail; some people can’t possibly develop the decency (or even enlightened self-interest) to act in an acceptable manner, but at very least we can make it much harder for them to scam the system. People like her are making it harder and harder for those who really need help from the government. Let us know how it turns out. ---
**Author:** ![Futile\_Gesture](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/f05b48/32.png) [@Futile\_Gesture](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Futile_Gesture)\ **Post date:** [October 20, 2004, 2:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-im-not-an-antisocial-bitch-i-just-loathe-you/269938/32 "2004-10-20T14:29:17Z")
I’ve met people like her. The whole “telling complete strangers” part is just a mechanism to allow her to pretend what she was doing was ok… If I say smart people do it, then it’s ok. Society likes and rewards smart people. If I talk about it like it was nothing to keep quiet about, then it’s ok. And if people don’t say anything then I can pretend everyone does it, so it’s ok. Once that delusion express starts rolling it can get carried away. It takes someone like **StarvingButStrong** before it hits the buffers and encounters reality. ---
**Author:** ![Sean\_Factotum](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/50afbb/32.png) [@Sean\_Factotum](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sean_Factotum)\ **Post date:** [October 20, 2004, 3:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-im-not-an-antisocial-bitch-i-just-loathe-you/269938/33 "2004-10-20T15:06:01Z")
**starving** I like your style. And you probably won’t need to even know her mother’s name. Having Ms Fagin’s name should be good enough for any gov’t agency to figure this one out. I know that I’m on some SSA forms for both my parents. ---
**Author:** ![photopat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/e95f7d/32.png) [@photopat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/photopat)\ **Post date:** [October 20, 2004, 4:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-im-not-an-antisocial-bitch-i-just-loathe-you/269938/34 "2004-10-20T16:37:20Z")
Bravo **Starving**. I’m eager to find out what happens next. Please report her to both SS and the boss. This bitch is the kind of person who makes things harder and more expensive for everybody else. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/no-im-not-an-antisocial-bitch-i-just-loathe-you/269938.md?page=1)