# Nobody is Ugly! **URL:** \ **Category:** The BBQ Pit\ **Created:** [July 24, 2015, 6:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nobody-is-ugly/726084 "2015-07-24T18:12:51Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![HandsomeGorilla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/ed655f/32.png) [@HandsomeGorilla](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/HandsomeGorilla)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2015, 6:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nobody-is-ugly/726084/21 "2015-07-24T18:56:42Z")
Stop whining! ---
**Author:** ![HandsomeGorilla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/ed655f/32.png) [@HandsomeGorilla](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/HandsomeGorilla)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2015, 6:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nobody-is-ugly/726084/22 "2015-07-24T18:58:16Z")
Suck it up! Everyone’s life sucks! Move on! ---
**Author:** ![Living\_Well\_Is\_Best\_Revenge](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/6bbea6/32.png) [@Living\_Well\_Is\_Best\_Revenge](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Living_Well_Is_Best_Revenge)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2015, 6:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nobody-is-ugly/726084/23 "2015-07-24T18:59:12Z")
God you are tedious. Your problem isn’t your looks. It’s your horrible personality. ---
**Author:** ![HandsomeGorilla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/ed655f/32.png) [@HandsomeGorilla](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/HandsomeGorilla)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2015, 7:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nobody-is-ugly/726084/24 "2015-07-24T19:01:53Z")
Your personality is the problem! ---
**Author:** ![HandsomeGorilla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/ed655f/32.png) [@HandsomeGorilla](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/HandsomeGorilla)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2015, 7:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nobody-is-ugly/726084/25 "2015-07-24T19:04:17Z")
> [@Living\_Well\_Is\_Best\_Revenge](#): > > God you are tedious. Your problem isn’t your looks. It’s your horrible personality. Buzzword! (By the way I’m still waiting for someone to accurately define the personality that women find attractive.) ---
**Author:** ![Emiliana](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/f0a364/32.png) [@Emiliana](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Emiliana)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2015, 7:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nobody-is-ugly/726084/26 "2015-07-24T19:04:42Z")
> [@HandsomeGorilla](#): > > Your personality is the problem! What is it that you hope to achieve by posting here? ---
**Author:** ![Macca26](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/13edae/32.png) [@Macca26](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Macca26)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2015, 7:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nobody-is-ugly/726084/27 "2015-07-24T19:06:08Z")
We’re about on par here with the people who _need_ others to like them and give them constant validation in order to continue living their life. Of course nobody wants to have anything to do with people like you once they realize that’s all you are. Become a self-actualized human being that sees worth in yourself and the rest of humanity will follow suit. If you can’t recognize your own worth you might as well not even be human (that is not an implication that you should die, but rather that you haven’t reached a stage of development that allows you to mingle with the rest of us on equal terms). ---
**Author:** ![TriPolar](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tripolar/32/3008_2.png) [@TriPolar](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TriPolar)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2015, 7:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nobody-is-ugly/726084/28 "2015-07-24T19:07:37Z")
You can’t tell an ugly person just by looking at them. ---
**Author:** ![HandsomeGorilla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/ed655f/32.png) [@HandsomeGorilla](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/HandsomeGorilla)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2015, 7:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nobody-is-ugly/726084/29 "2015-07-24T19:10:19Z")
> [@Emiliana](#): > > What is it that you hope to achieve by posting here? Why must there be a prerequisite to post here, or any other forum for that matter? Stop with the nonsense. ---
**Author:** ![Mithras](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f04885/32.png) [@Mithras](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mithras)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2015, 7:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nobody-is-ugly/726084/30 "2015-07-24T19:11:08Z")
Have you thought about getting a face tattoo? If you’re as ugly as you say you are, anything you do to your face can do nothing but help. I guess, alternatively, you could grow a beard but that’s just a half-measure and we all know what happens when you go for one of those. ---
**Author:** ![Habeed](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/a587f6/32.png) [@Habeed](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Habeed)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2015, 7:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nobody-is-ugly/726084/31 "2015-07-24T19:11:36Z")
> [@HandsomeGorilla](#): > > Work on your career! Earn more money! The women will come flocking to you then…hurr durrr. This one’s true - if you’re able to pay for it, you get it. The other stuff obviously depends on factors that are partially outside your control (your personality as an adult isn’t very flexible, you can’t make yourself taller or change your facial bone structure or change your age, etc) ---
**Author:** ![Missy2U](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/3bc359/32.png) [@Missy2U](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Missy2U)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2015, 7:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nobody-is-ugly/726084/32 "2015-07-24T19:12:37Z")
> [@HandsomeGorilla](#): > > Buzzword! > > **(By the way I’m still waiting for someone to accurately define the personality that women find attractive.)** (Bolding mine) I’m going to go out on a limb here and say that one personality trait would be not being a tedious, whiny, one trick pony. But then again, I could be way wrong. ---
**Author:** ![HandsomeGorilla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/ed655f/32.png) [@HandsomeGorilla](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/HandsomeGorilla)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2015, 7:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nobody-is-ugly/726084/33 "2015-07-24T19:15:16Z")
> [@Macca26](#): > > We’re about on par here with the people who _need_ others to like them and give them constant validation in order to continue living their life. Its funny you say this because it’s exactly what your life revolves around and you’re too embarrassed to admit it. Instead you want to go on a holier than thou tangent and pretend that “self-actualisation” means anything to anyone. People like you get off on putting others down socially and laughing at others misfortunes. ---
**Author:** ![HandsomeGorilla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/ed655f/32.png) [@HandsomeGorilla](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/HandsomeGorilla)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2015, 7:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nobody-is-ugly/726084/34 "2015-07-24T19:17:24Z")
> [@Missy2U](#): > > (Bolding mine) I’m going to go out on a limb here and say that one personality trait would be not being a tedious, whiny, one trick pony. But then again, I could be way wrong. Again take a look around you…most people who are like this have a partner. ---
**Author:** ![HandsomeGorilla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/ed655f/32.png) [@HandsomeGorilla](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/HandsomeGorilla)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2015, 7:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nobody-is-ugly/726084/35 "2015-07-24T19:18:54Z")
> [@Habeed](#): > > This one’s true - if you’re able to pay for it, you get it. The other stuff obviously depends on factors that are partially outside your control (your personality as an adult isn’t very flexible, you can’t make yourself taller or change your facial bone structure or change your age, etc) Just be rich! ---
**Author:** ![joyfool](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/df788c/32.png) [@joyfool](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/joyfool)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2015, 7:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nobody-is-ugly/726084/36 "2015-07-24T19:21:41Z")
> [@monstro](#): > > Get a life! \< snort \> ---
**Author:** ![joyfool](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/df788c/32.png) [@joyfool](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/joyfool)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2015, 7:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nobody-is-ugly/726084/37 "2015-07-24T19:23:12Z")
> [@HandsomeGorilla](#): > > Disagreeing =/= whining But I’m sure in your case, there’s an exception. > [@Living\_Well\_Is\_Best\_Revenge](#): > > God you are tedious. Your problem isn’t your looks. It’s your horrible personality. I think he should hook up with the big headed chick, then all will be right in the angsty me-verse. ---
**Author:** ![Missy2U](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/3bc359/32.png) [@Missy2U](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Missy2U)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2015, 7:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nobody-is-ugly/726084/38 "2015-07-24T19:23:18Z")
> [@HandsomeGorilla](#): > > Again take a look around you…most people who are like this have a partner. I beg to differ - most people who are tedious, whiny, one trick ponies are not found with partners - their habitat seems to be message boards asking why everyone is SO MEAN and how they don’t HAVE a partner. In a tedious, whiny, one trick pony way. Over and over and over again, in thread after thread. ---
**Author:** ![HandsomeGorilla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/ed655f/32.png) [@HandsomeGorilla](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/HandsomeGorilla)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2015, 7:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nobody-is-ugly/726084/39 "2015-07-24T19:26:11Z")
> [@Missy2U](#): > > I beg to differ - most people who are tedious, whiny, one trick ponies are not found with partners - their habitat seems to be message boards asking why everyone is SO MEAN and how they don’t HAVE a partner. In a tedious, whiny, one trick pony way. Over and over and over again, in thread after thread. I bet they have never touched message boards. ---
**Author:** ![Missy2U](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/3bc359/32.png) [@Missy2U](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Missy2U)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2015, 7:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nobody-is-ugly/726084/40 "2015-07-24T19:27:54Z")
> [@HandsomeGorilla](#): > > I bet they have never touched message boards. Well we know at least ONE of them has. :rolleyes: [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nobody-is-ugly/726084.md?page=1) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/nobody-is-ugly/726084.md?page=3)