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I do not mean to insult America generally, since as a Canadian neighbour I like the country and its people and visit it regularly.
But since you ask what puzzles me about contemporary American culture, it is the implication in so many US TV programs and movies that racism in contemporary American society is an extremely rare phenomenon.
Very rarely, a character is depicted as a racist and is firmly and irrevocably condemned by everyone around him.
With the notable exception of Archie Bunker, most US popular culture gives us the impression that 99.9% of Americans are completely colour-blind and non-racist. They accept blacks and other non-whites freely and easily, and are perfectly comfortable with inter-racial sex and marriage.
Take the program Roseanne. This lower-middle-class family living in the industrial rust belt was totally free of not only racism but homophobia as well!
Now, my own experience of Americans is that while most of them are NOT what I would define as racist, perhaps one American in five holds opinions that I would definitely qualify as racially prejudiced.
And I am NOT talking about southern whites, necessarily. Most of my experience is with whites in Boston and New England. For example, I have frequently heard vicious and unbearable jokes about blacks from “Boston Irish” types at a party who had a few drinks in them.
On Cape Cod, I met a family who were ready to have an apoplexy because their daughter married a black Haitian. I would point out that the man is educated, has a decent income, and is a good father and husband. To be fair, the family is slowly working on changing their attitudes. They ARE making an effort.
But if that family were in a US TV program, they would no more notice the colour of the man than they would notice the number of consonants in his name.
Perhaps American culture is trying to set a good example, to show Americans how they SHOULD be. But the trouble is that your culture also gives complacent whites the idea that racism is something that is almost 100% banished from America. Yeah, right! :dubious:
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Yeah but who wants to see shows where some racist jeerk spouts off about this group or that group. Boy, there’s feel-good entertainment for you. Some cable shows will give you that grit, but the major networks whose major concern is ratings/ad revenues is not going to throw in a racist character for realisms sake in ashow that’s not about racism.
As to complacency, my main and as far as I’m concerned only responsibility is to 1. not be racist myself, and 2, ensure that my children are not raised to be racist. It starts at home. Are you suggesting its my responsibility to get in someone’s face (and risk bodily injury) if they exhibit racist tendencies? So long as I have a family to raise and be responsible for, that’s not happening!

). She has one black and one white parent. So why is she a “black” actress? Why is she an “African-American”? Obviously, half of her is European-American.