# Not right now

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/not-right-now/991029>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [October 3, 2023, 1:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/not-right-now/991029 "2023-10-03T01:38:09Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 7\
**Page:** 4

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**Author:** ![LSLGuy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lslguy/32/5813_2.png) [@LSLGuy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LSLGuy)\
**Post date:** [October 12, 2023, 12:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/not-right-now/991029/61 "2023-10-12T00:57:27Z")

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Yaay you!

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**Author:** ![SuntanLotion](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/suntanlotion/32/16165_2.png) [@SuntanLotion](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SuntanLotion)\
**Post date:** [October 13, 2023, 2:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/not-right-now/991029/62 "2023-10-13T02:23:30Z")

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Its different. Yesterday, his friend dropped us off at the mall. Today I told him I have an appointment at 2 tomorrow, and they going to be driving me. He calls every day. Its like I’m being treated nicely and I’m not used to it.

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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [October 13, 2023, 2:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/not-right-now/991029/63 "2023-10-13T02:27:06Z")

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I knew it. I just knew it  
Girl you are amazing. Amnesia and all😊

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**Author:** ![SuntanLotion](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/suntanlotion/32/16165_2.png) [@SuntanLotion](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SuntanLotion)\
**Post date:** [October 17, 2023, 1:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/not-right-now/991029/64 "2023-10-17T13:27:46Z")

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Beeen with him 7 days. Hes spent the last 2 nights. Calls me honey, etc. Tells cashier Im his girl. Says I need spanked.still hasnt kissed me. Wtf

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**Author:** ![SuntanLotion](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/suntanlotion/32/16165_2.png) [@SuntanLotion](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SuntanLotion)\
**Post date:** [October 17, 2023, 2:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/not-right-now/991029/65 "2023-10-17T14:16:54Z")

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Last night he puts the lights off, puts a looonng business video on his phone and squishes next to me, plays with my hair. Am I expected to make a move? It does not come naturally to me, especially at the beginning. Sigh.

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**Author:** ![Kimstu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/ecd19e/32.png) [@Kimstu](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kimstu)\
**Post date:** [October 18, 2023, 7:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/not-right-now/991029/66 "2023-10-18T07:38:11Z")

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Hmm, SL, that sounds like a level of personal interaction that a virtual roomful of random strangers on the internet has no business giving (remote) advice about. Remain safe and have fun!

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**Author:** ![SuntanLotion](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/suntanlotion/32/16165_2.png) [@SuntanLotion](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SuntanLotion)\
**Post date:** [October 18, 2023, 1:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/not-right-now/991029/67 "2023-10-18T13:33:11Z")

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You are correct. Let the thread die.

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