# Notice Me!? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [November 26, 2002, 12:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/notice-me/138796 "2002-11-26T00:51:36Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![curiouschick](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/7feea3/32.png) [@curiouschick](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/curiouschick)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2002, 1:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/notice-me/138796/21 "2002-11-29T01:24:33Z")
Well, its kind of an interesting whole story. he is one of my brothers friends but i have really liked him for a long time. i little while ago i said somethign about maybe hanging out osmeitme and then we would make plans and stuff but they never really happened. then we talked and he said that he just thoguht it would be wierd because im his friends sister you know. so then i just didnt say anythign else about it and i hadnt seen him for a while not to talk anyways, so then he started like goign out of his way to tlak to me and stuff and then the other day eh was just like hey we shoudl hang out soemtime. so i dont know what made him change his mind. ---
**Author:** ![Muad\_Dib](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/35a633/32.png) [@Muad\_Dib](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Muad_Dib)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2002, 3:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/notice-me/138796/22 "2002-11-29T03:18:43Z")
How old are you? ---
**Author:** ![Spit](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/76d3ee/32.png) [@Spit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spit)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2002, 7:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/notice-me/138796/23 "2002-11-29T07:34:32Z")
Ahhhh…Young love. It’s like…The coolest. ---
**Author:** ![Kyomara](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/8edcca/32.png) [@Kyomara](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kyomara)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2002, 7:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/notice-me/138796/24 "2002-11-29T07:39:49Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by curiouschick \* > \*\*so i dont know what made him change his mind. \*\* What difference does it make? He’s clearly interested. Sieze the opportunity! ---
**Author:** ![MeanOldLady](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/meanoldlady/32/10737_2.png) [@MeanOldLady](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MeanOldLady)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2002, 10:54am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/notice-me/138796/25 "2002-11-29T10:54:12Z")
Show cleavage. Verily, verily I swear unto you **nothing** is more effective. Forget charm, personality, sharing interests, bla bla bla. Nothing gets 'em better then bOObs. K, but seriously, talking to him, getting in good and all that increase your chances. Which is not to say looking good (i.e. boobage) is not important. …But of course, you’ve already reeled him in so it doesn’t matter anymore. Probably wore a low cut top. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![mozureb](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/13edae/32.png) [@mozureb](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/mozureb)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2002, 2:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/notice-me/138796/26 "2002-11-29T14:03:56Z")
get interested in the things he is interested in ---
**Author:** ![jjimm](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/ba8739/32.png) [@jjimm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jjimm)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2002, 2:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/notice-me/138796/27 "2002-11-29T14:07:21Z")
Stand very close to him and ‘accidentally’ rub your boobs on his arm. ---
**Author:** ![mozureb](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/13edae/32.png) [@mozureb](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/mozureb)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2002, 2:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/notice-me/138796/28 "2002-11-29T14:10:14Z")
gets my attention ---
**Author:** ![curiouschick](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/7feea3/32.png) [@curiouschick](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/curiouschick)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2002, 2:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/notice-me/138796/29 "2002-11-30T02:26:05Z")
thanks i’ll have to try those things. lol but i am 17 (18 next month)🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Tigers2B1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/9fc29f/32.png) [@Tigers2B1](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tigers2B1)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2002, 3:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/notice-me/138796/30 "2002-11-30T03:19:16Z")
Stare at him until he notices. Then continue to stare at him until he asks you what you’re doing. You can answer “nothing” or anything else you want. Continue to stare at him even after that. ---
**Author:** ![Tony\_Montana](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/278dde/32.png) [@Tony\_Montana](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tony_Montana)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2002, 4:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/notice-me/138796/31 "2002-11-30T04:22:04Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Tigers2B1 \* > \*\*Stare at him until he notices. Then continue to stare at him until he asks you what you’re doing. You can answer “nothing” or anything else you want. Continue to stare at him even after that. \*\* /hi jack Ahh the stare, I hate the stare. I get the stare sometimes when I am driving (girls walking) I stare back. (btw my friends notice also: " hey looks like you have a fan" "hey she was looking at you"etc.) yet when I try to introduce myself or say “hello” I get the cold shoulder.My friend said “must be the car” ,hmm must be I suppose… ---
**Author:** ![Arnold\_Winkelried](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Arnold\_Winkelried](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Arnold_Winkelried)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2002, 5:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/notice-me/138796/32 "2002-11-30T05:24:32Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by twickster47 \* > Are you allowed to ask an administratior, Hey, how _you_ doin’? All of Cecil’s prize minions must take a vow of chastity and unremitting devotion to the Straight Dope. ---
**Author:** ![Tigers2B1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/9fc29f/32.png) [@Tigers2B1](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tigers2B1)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2002, 6:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/notice-me/138796/33 "2002-11-30T06:33:24Z")
**Tony Montana** I, like you, have a problem with women staring in my direction. My problem is that they do it whether I’m tooling around town in my mint condition '73 Corvette or on my bike in tight shorts with my shirt off. I just can’t figure whether it’s the bike or the car. ---
**Author:** ![Tony\_Montana](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/278dde/32.png) [@Tony\_Montana](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tony_Montana)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2002, 6:53am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/notice-me/138796/34 "2002-11-30T06:53:47Z")
**Tigers2b1** in _my_ case I dont think it (the look/stare) _means anything_ other than maybe “cool car,take me for a ride?” I’d _like_ it to be “cool car,take me now!”… ---
**Author:** ![GuanoLad](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guanolad/32/42_2.png) [@GuanoLad](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GuanoLad)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2002, 10:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/notice-me/138796/35 "2002-11-30T10:21:32Z")
How do you get guys to notice a girl? Guys notice EVERY girl. And they’re all thinking “I wish I was with that girl.” So it isn’t difficult. For girls, that is. (For guys it’s a 24 hr nightmare) ---
**Author:** ![twickster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ec9cab/32.png) [@twickster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/twickster)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2002, 2:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/notice-me/138796/36 "2002-11-30T14:22:14Z")
> [@](#): > > All of Cecil’s prize minions must take a vow of chastity and unremitting devotion to the Straight Dope Sigh… ---
**Author:** ![kase](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/a5b964/32.png) [@kase](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kase)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2002, 9:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/notice-me/138796/37 "2002-11-30T21:27:13Z")
laugh at his jokes. ---
**Author:** ![Super\_Gnat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e274bd/32.png) [@Super\_Gnat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Super_Gnat)\ **Post date:** [December 1, 2002, 2:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/notice-me/138796/38 "2002-12-01T02:27:27Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by curiouschick \* > \*\*thanks i’ll have to try those things. lol but i am 17 (18 next month)🙂 \*\* Really? Me too! What day? Alas, I have no advice to offer about how to get guys to notice you. Except every bf I’ve had I was friends with before (and sometimes after, too). ---
**Author:** ![MeanOldLady](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/meanoldlady/32/10737_2.png) [@MeanOldLady](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MeanOldLady)\ **Post date:** [December 1, 2002, 10:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/notice-me/138796/39 "2002-12-01T10:29:32Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by käse \* > \*\*laugh at his jokes. \*\* …even if they’re not funny. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Silentgoldfish](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e36b37/32.png) [@Silentgoldfish](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Silentgoldfish)\ **Post date:** [December 1, 2002, 11:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/notice-me/138796/40 "2002-12-01T11:55:25Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by MeanOldLady \* > \*\*…even if they’re not funny. 😉 \*\* Especially if they’re not funny! 🙂 [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/notice-me/138796.md?page=1) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/notice-me/138796.md?page=3)