# Oklahoma man says wife's death was sex fantasy accident **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [December 28, 2010, 6:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/oklahoma-man-says-wifes-death-was-sex-fantasy-accident/565630 "2010-12-28T18:29:22Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 13\ **Page:** 4
**Author:** ![ducati](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/cc9497/32.png) [@ducati](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ducati)\ **Post date:** [December 29, 2010, 7:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/oklahoma-man-says-wifes-death-was-sex-fantasy-accident/565630/61 "2010-12-29T19:56:15Z")
While introducing firearms into the bedroom is not my cup of tea, I must say I have met and engaged a number of seemingly average women (moms, teachers, travel agents, etc.) who were absolute freaks behind closed doors with some hardcore fantasies ranging from choking to rape fantasies and more. I haven’t checked Rule 34, but I suspect someone out there likes a little gunplay with their foreplay. You just can’t tell about people, ya know? Whatever trips your trigger…😛 ---
**Author:** ![msmith537](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/d9b06d/32.png) [@msmith537](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/msmith537)\ **Post date:** [December 29, 2010, 7:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/oklahoma-man-says-wifes-death-was-sex-fantasy-accident/565630/62 "2010-12-29T19:56:51Z")
> [@runner pat](#): > > Imagine the awkward conversation when he starts dating again. Becoming someone’s prison bitch is always sort of awkward. > [@carnivorousplant](#): > > As opposed to the LA gun culture, or the Chicago gun culture? > > 🙂 I suppose it depends on whether it was a shotgun, a gat held sideways or an olde tyme Thomson submachinegun. No place for hidin’ baby! No place to run! You pull the trigger of my Looooove guuuuuun! > [@Lemur866](#): > > Yeah, pointing a gun at someone and pulling the trigger is so insanely reckless that it almost doesn’t matter whether you believe the gun is loaded or it isn’t. It’s like the distinction between intentionally driving your car through a busy intersection with your eyes closed or your eyes open. It matters from a legal perspective. ---
**Author:** ![ducati](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/cc9497/32.png) [@ducati](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ducati)\ **Post date:** [December 29, 2010, 7:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/oklahoma-man-says-wifes-death-was-sex-fantasy-accident/565630/63 "2010-12-29T19:58:53Z")
> [@carnivorousplant](#): > > As opposed to the LA gun culture, or the Chicago gun culture? > > 🙂 Yo, Florida - Represent! ---
**Author:** ![running\_coach](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/running_coach/32/15836_2.png) [@running\_coach](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/running_coach)\ **Post date:** [December 29, 2010, 8:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/oklahoma-man-says-wifes-death-was-sex-fantasy-accident/565630/64 "2010-12-29T20:08:28Z")
Here’s one [from April.](http://www.newser.com/story/85910/man-shoots-girlfriend-after-drunken-gun-foreplay.html) Bang! :eek: \ **Author:** ![Jennmonkye](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/278dde/32.png) [@Jennmonkye](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jennmonkye)\ **Post date:** [December 29, 2010, 8:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/oklahoma-man-says-wifes-death-was-sex-fantasy-accident/565630/65 "2010-12-29T20:11:21Z") > [@carnivorousplant](#): > > As opposed to the LA gun culture, or the Chicago gun culture? > > 🙂 Believe me…there was plenty of culture to be had, guns or no guns, growing up in the south in my family. But to clarify my own experience…shotguns abounded with no store-bought meat to be found in the deep freeze 🙂 I don’t think I ever saw a handgun until I was an adult (other than on television). ---
**Author:** ![VinylTurnip](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/b2d939/32.png) [@VinylTurnip](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/VinylTurnip)\ **Post date:** [December 29, 2010, 8:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/oklahoma-man-says-wifes-death-was-sex-fantasy-accident/565630/66 "2010-12-29T20:27:40Z")
> [@Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](#): > > Maybe “fire” was just a bad _choice_ for a safe word. Maybe something less suggestive, like “_ **PULL!** _” ? ---
**Author:** ![running\_coach](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/running_coach/32/15836_2.png) [@running\_coach](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/running_coach)\ **Post date:** [December 29, 2010, 8:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/oklahoma-man-says-wifes-death-was-sex-fantasy-accident/565630/67 "2010-12-29T20:36:32Z")
This is a guy who when he brings a magazine to bed, it’s not for reading. I wonder if you can buy Hopppe’s scented K-Y. ---
**Author:** ![ducati](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/cc9497/32.png) [@ducati](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ducati)\ **Post date:** [December 29, 2010, 9:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/oklahoma-man-says-wifes-death-was-sex-fantasy-accident/565630/68 "2010-12-29T21:16:17Z")
Mmmmmm, gun lube. ---
**Author:** ![Boyo\_Jim](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/87869e/32.png) [@Boyo\_Jim](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Boyo_Jim)\ **Post date:** [December 29, 2010, 9:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/oklahoma-man-says-wifes-death-was-sex-fantasy-accident/565630/69 "2010-12-29T21:36:14Z")
> [@Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](#): > > Maybe “fire” was just a bad _choice_ for a safe word. That didn’t help, but the worst thing was the safe word in their previous sexcapade – “reload”. She was pretending to be Sarah Palin. ---
**Author:** ![outlierrn](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/outlierrn/32/3005_2.png) [@outlierrn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/outlierrn)\ **Post date:** [December 30, 2010, 6:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/oklahoma-man-says-wifes-death-was-sex-fantasy-accident/565630/70 "2010-12-30T06:36:10Z")
Hey, whatever blows your head off. ---
**Author:** ![Cicero](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cicero/32/3594_2.png) [@Cicero](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cicero)\ **Post date:** [December 30, 2010, 9:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/oklahoma-man-says-wifes-death-was-sex-fantasy-accident/565630/71 "2010-12-30T09:19:23Z")
What a blast! And does this remind you of Michael Hutchence of INXS? And his lovely wife (Paula Yates) who said “He was probably only masturbating.” I think if I was married to her I would top myself as well. ---
**Author:** ![running\_coach](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/running_coach/32/15836_2.png) [@running\_coach](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/running_coach)\ **Post date:** [January 8, 2011, 2:54am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/oklahoma-man-says-wifes-death-was-sex-fantasy-accident/565630/72 "2011-01-08T02:54:08Z")
**Oklahoma Sex Shooting:Reloaded.** He’s been charged with [manslaughter.](http://www.news9.com/Global/story.asp?S=13805270) > [@](#): > > Oklahoma County District Attorney Michael Fields said Sedille “created an unreasonable risk and probability of death or great bodily harm” when he put the gun to Rebecca Sedille’s forehead. > > If convicted, Sedille could be sentenced to at least four years in prison. ---
**Author:** ![Chef\_Troy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/85f322/32.png) [@Chef\_Troy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chef_Troy)\ **Post date:** [January 8, 2011, 11:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/oklahoma-man-says-wifes-death-was-sex-fantasy-accident/565630/73 "2011-01-08T23:11:23Z")
Maybe she just said she thought muzzles were sexy and he misunderstood. Maybe he said “I’m gonna shoot!” and SHE misunderstood. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/oklahoma-man-says-wifes-death-was-sex-fantasy-accident/565630.md?page=3)