I know a lot of people in the USA, some of them in NYC, so this probably had more of an impact on me than on most people here in the UK.
I’d been on the computer, but not on the internet, and went down to the kitchen to get some lunch. The radio was on, BBC Radio 4, and I wasn’t really listening. They were talking about the first impact on the WTC. I thought it was a radio drama or something at first, and then the second impact happened. Suddenly I realised that this was for real, that this was really happening.
By the time reports started filtering in about the Pentagon attack (only very sketchy details at the time), I was getting extremely anxious and not particularly thinking straight. I rang my parents, asked Dad if he’d heard anything - he hadn’t - and told him what I knew so far. He said he’d put the TV on immediately, and hung up. I’d not thought of the TV - I was so confused that I’d imagined it would only be on the radio.
So I turned on the TV. Mum rang back, and asked if I’d heard anything about these attacks. They’d obviously been so caught up in it that she’d forgotten that I’d phoned them.
After a few minutes, I dashed upstairs to the computer and checked for messages, wondering how people I knew in NYC and Washington and PA were, particularly NYC. They’d mostly checked in, and were OK, so I went back downstairs and started cleaning and tidying the house.
The reason for the housework is that it was my son’s 8th birthday, and he was due to come home from school shortly. I put up balloons and banners and all that stuff, ready for his arrival, then checked the internet again.
When he arrived home, with his Mum and younger sister, I’d turned off the TV and the radio, and I quickly whispered into his Mum’s ear that we shouldn’t mention this - today was his birthday, and let him enjoy it. She nodded, and there was no mention of the attacks until he was tucked up in bed several hours later. My parents and various friends, who’d come over to help celebrate the birthday, did the same. It was difficult, but we managed to laugh and smile and pretend that everything was OK.
Once he was in bed, I checked the Net again, and everyone I knew who might have been affected was fine, at least as fine as they could be. Then I sat down with my (then) wife and explained to her the ramifications of the attacks - she’s not very well-versed in international politics, and had never heard of ObL, didn’t know anything about GWB, but now wanted to know. Unfortunately, the predictions I then made have turned out to be largely correct. But let’s not go there, at least in this thread.