Pepperlandgirl, it sounds to me like you’re saying that we shouldn’t be objecting to abortion unless we are personally prepared to sto adopt these children, or to stop these millions from dying each year.
No offense, but that sounds remarkably like saying “Unless you are willing to personally take care of my wife, you have no business complaining that I abuse her” of “Unless you are personally prepared to adopt my children, don’t you dare complain that I’m not treating them right!” Dr. Francis Beckwith discusses this fallacy more thoroughly in this article, under the sub-section titled “Why Don’t Pro-Lifers Adopt the Babies They Don’t Want Aborted?”
Besides which, I think you’re laboring under a grave misconception. Do pro-lifers take care of babies that might otherwise be aborted? In fact, there are over three thousand such organizations across the nation. Do these agencies provide mentoring programs, or help the young parents stay in school? Many of them do. In fact, I’ve been involved with almost a dozen such organizations, all of which had programs to help these parents in various ways.
Do these agencies teach birth control? Natural birth control, certainly, and they routinely go to schools to teach about abstinence. Now you might not personally agree with that particular approach, but you can by no means accuse them of being apathetic, and failing to warn the children about the dangers of getting pregnant.
Yes, you’ll often hear Planned Parenthood and the like claim that pro-lifers do nothing for the children after they have been born. Such statements are simply false, and are uttered out of either ignorance or outright malice.