# "Own that Guy in 60 Days: A Practical Guide to Love for the 21st Century Woman" Advice worth taking? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [January 29, 2015, 3:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/own-that-guy-in-60-days-a-practical-guide-to-love-for-the-21st-century-woman-advice-worth-taking/711228 "2015-01-29T15:33:36Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 3
**Author:** ![Stringbean](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d6d6ee/32.png) [@Stringbean](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Stringbean)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2015, 10:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/own-that-guy-in-60-days-a-practical-guide-to-love-for-the-21st-century-woman-advice-worth-taking/711228/41 "2015-01-30T22:09:58Z")
> [@DigitalC](#): > > If a man is the kind of sexist asshole that judges women on her previous sexual history finding out after one date that he isn’t worth it is the best possible result. Both women and men are allowed to pass judgement on others based on their sexual histories. It isn’t sexist. Women aren’t entitled to critical immunity. ---
**Author:** ![Count\_Blucher](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/c5a1d2/32.png) [@Count\_Blucher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Count_Blucher)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2015, 11:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/own-that-guy-in-60-days-a-practical-guide-to-love-for-the-21st-century-woman-advice-worth-taking/711228/42 "2015-01-30T23:18:43Z")
> [@Senegoid](#): > > The way to a man’s heart is through his urethra! > [@Velocity](#): > > That sounds like some horribly risky surgical procedure. Not for the surgeon. …did you honestly expect the woman demanding this option would offer anesthesia? Doubtful. #HappyValentinesDay ---
**Author:** ![actualliberalnotoneofthose](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/e79b87/32.png) [@actualliberalnotoneofthose](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/actualliberalnotoneofthose)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2015, 11:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/own-that-guy-in-60-days-a-practical-guide-to-love-for-the-21st-century-woman-advice-worth-taking/711228/43 "2015-01-30T23:19:08Z")
I wouldn’t mind finding some women like this. I sure won’t be marrying them, though. ---
**Author:** ![Jophiel](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jophiel/32/66_2.png) [@Jophiel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jophiel)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2015, 11:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/own-that-guy-in-60-days-a-practical-guide-to-love-for-the-21st-century-woman-advice-worth-taking/711228/44 "2015-01-30T23:31:02Z")
> [@DigitalC](#): > > If a man is the kind of sexist asshole that judges women on her previous sexual history finding out after one date that he isn’t worth it is the best possible result. On the other hand, if someone is a terrible person then that’s exactly what I’d like to know _before_ sleeping with them as part of a mission to gain their love. ---
**Author:** ![Hector\_St\_Clare](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/b5ac83/32.png) [@Hector\_St\_Clare](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hector_St_Clare)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2015, 11:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/own-that-guy-in-60-days-a-practical-guide-to-love-for-the-21st-century-woman-advice-worth-taking/711228/45 "2015-01-30T23:50:48Z")
> [@Velocity](#): > > If a woman has sex with a man on the first date, he’ll probably wonder how many other men she’s also had sex with. Probably. So what? Do you care? ---
**Author:** ![Jophiel](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jophiel/32/66_2.png) [@Jophiel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jophiel)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2015, 12:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/own-that-guy-in-60-days-a-practical-guide-to-love-for-the-21st-century-woman-advice-worth-taking/711228/46 "2015-01-31T00:33:33Z")
> [@Hector\_St\_Clare](#): > > Probably. So what? Do you care? They might. Outrage aside, different people actually have different opinions about sex and commitment. Seems to make sense that you’d want to find someone whose views were compatible with your own, though I’m not sure that hopping into bed is the best way to find out. ---
**Author:** ![Nava](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/da6949/32.png) [@Nava](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nava)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2015, 4:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/own-that-guy-in-60-days-a-practical-guide-to-love-for-the-21st-century-woman-advice-worth-taking/711228/47 "2015-01-31T04:58:26Z")
> [@Shodan](#): > > I doubt most men would object to a woman taking the initiative in forming a relationship. Having her decide that we are going to be in a relationship, come what might, makes me worry about coming home to find my rabbit being boiled. Don’t worry, honey, I’d totally fry him. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/own-that-guy-in-60-days-a-practical-guide-to-love-for-the-21st-century-woman-advice-worth-taking/711228.md?page=2)