# Parasite - great movie or no?  (SPOILERS WELCOME)

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**Created:** [January 20, 2020, 9:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/parasite-great-movie-or-no-spoilers-welcome/846721 "2020-01-20T21:13:47Z")\
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**Author:** ![KneadToKnow](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kneadtoknow/32/3999_2.png) [@KneadToKnow](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/KneadToKnow)\
**Post date:** [February 11, 2020, 10:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/parasite-great-movie-or-no-spoilers-welcome/846721/21 "2020-02-11T22:52:22Z")

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> [@Mahaloth](#):
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> What was your best picture of the year?

Considering that I only saw half the nominees, my choice would have been _Once Upon a Time … In Hollywood_.

My actual expectation had been that _1917_, which I have not yet seen, would win.

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**Author:** ![SlackerInc](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/slackerinc/32/275_2.png) [@SlackerInc](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SlackerInc)\
**Post date:** [February 24, 2020, 11:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/parasite-great-movie-or-no-spoilers-welcome/846721/22 "2020-02-24T23:12:09Z")

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I ranked this movie third of my favorites of 2019. In what is probably an all-time first, all three of them were actually nominated for Best Picture (the other two being _Marriage Story_ and _Once Upon a Time in Hollywood_). Cinematically it is masterful. I did have a couple problems with the plot, which I will get to in a moment.

> [@Dinsdale](#):
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> The scene where they got drunk in the living room struck me as especially un-calculating for a very calculating family.

For sure. They were not only using up very expensive liquor but breaking bottles. What was their plan? Were they really going to use their hard-won gains to replace that stuff?

There are certainly poor families that are as dysfunctional and shortsighted as to do something that foolish when given such an opportunity. But they would not be the same families who would be able to pull off this operation to begin with. That is a fundamental paradox of this movie: people who are that dirt poor generally do not have the wherewithal to be so competent; and people who are so smart and competent are rarely going to be that poor on into middle age (I’m not saying there aren’t very smart people in the working class, but why couldn’t the father and mother get chauffeur or housekeeper-level jobs previously?) At least not in the US: maybe it’s different in South Korea.

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**Author:** ![PastTense](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/pasttense/32/14550_2.png) [@PastTense](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/PastTense)\
**Post date:** [December 27, 2023, 7:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/parasite-great-movie-or-no-spoilers-welcome/846721/23 "2023-12-27T07:14:19Z")

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> They refused to provide further details including whether they had determined Lee killed himself. But South Korean media outlets including Yonhap news agency said that Lee’s family earlier Wednesday reported to police that he left home after leaving a message similar to a suicide note.

> **[South Korean actor Lee Sun-kyun of Oscar-winning film 'Parasite' is found dead](https://apnews.com/article/actor-lee-sun-kyun-parasite-unconscious-south-korea-2faacd7290f5b84b6a996705d8351cdf)**
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> Lee Sun-kyun, a popular South Korean actor best known for his role in the Oscar-winning movie “Parasite,” has been found dead in a car in Seoul, authorities say, after weeks of an intense police investigation into his alleged drug use.

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**Author:** ![Eric1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/3bc359/32.png) [@Eric1](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Eric1)\
**Post date:** [December 27, 2023, 9:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/parasite-great-movie-or-no-spoilers-welcome/846721/24 "2023-12-27T09:32:11Z")

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Man that is sad. I liked Lee Sun–Kyun’s breadth of roles and he has such a lovely family. I thought his drug allegations were overblown too but that’s from perspective of my locale here.

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**Author:** ![Banquet\_Bear](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/banquet_bear/32/373_2.png) [@Banquet\_Bear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Banquet_Bear)\
**Post date:** [December 27, 2023, 11:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/parasite-great-movie-or-no-spoilers-welcome/846721/25 "2023-12-27T11:02:38Z")

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> [@Eric1](#):
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> I liked Lee Sun–Kyun’s breadth of roles and he has such a lovely family.

…my favourite role of his was in My Mister. Beautiful show. Beautiful music. Beautiful performance. I’m quietly devastated.

From the show:

Grown Ups

> **[\[나의 아저씨\] OST Part2. Sondia - 어른 (여러분도 누군가에게 모두 '좋은 어른'이 되시길...) 나의 아저씨 16화](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ll4QIbU1kv4%2F)**
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> tvN 수목드라마 흔한 남자의 특별한 이름 ＜나의 아저씨＞ 그동안 사랑해주신 시청자분들께 진심으로 감사드립니다.각자의 방법으로 삶의 무게를 무던히 버텨내고 있는 아저씨 삼형제와 거칠고 차갑게 살아온 20대 여성이 서로의 삶을 통해 치유되는 과정에 대한 이야기 나의 아저씨 최신 클립...

Dear Moon

> **[Jehwi (제휘) - Dear Moon 나의 아저씨 OST Part 4 / My Mister OST Part 4](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VW_I3PtW0Sk%2F)**
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> Jehwi (제휘) - Dear Moon 나의 아저씨 OST Part 4 / My Mister OST Part 4PLEASE DO NOT REUPLOAD\*English subtitles are now available.(Please click on 'CC' button or act...

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**Author:** ![Banquet\_Bear](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/banquet_bear/32/373_2.png) [@Banquet\_Bear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Banquet_Bear)\
**Post date:** [December 27, 2023, 11:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/parasite-great-movie-or-no-spoilers-welcome/846721/26 "2023-12-27T11:24:23Z")

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…just watched one of my favourite scenes, these words meant so much to me at the time. RIP Lee Sun–Kyun.

> [@](#):
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> "In moments when you wish you were dead.
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> Live.
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> You are a good person.
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> Don’t give up.
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> Just by having someone to cheer you on like that
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> You can _breathe_ again."

[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fjZ6tPHfLC8/](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fjZ6tPHfLC8/)

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**Author:** ![PastTense](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/pasttense/32/14550_2.png) [@PastTense](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/PastTense)\
**Post date:** [January 12, 2024, 5:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/parasite-great-movie-or-no-spoilers-welcome/846721/27 "2024-01-12T17:15:40Z")

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> **[Bong Joon-ho Leads Protest Against Korean Police and Media Following Suicide...](https://variety.com/2024/global/news/bong-joon-ho-leads-protest-lee-sun-kyun-death-1235869696/)**
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> 'Parasite' director Bong Joon-ho led a protest against Korean police and media following the death of actor Lee Sun-kyun.

The issue being that sensationalist media coverage was a significant factor in his suicide.

> Police have denied that they were negligent or that they indulged in unusual maneuvers that exposed Lee to scrutiny. But speakers on Friday were highly critical of police procedures.
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> “His three police appearances, from the simple reagent test to the negative test, were broadcast live to the media. Recordings of his incriminating statements were released to the media and public, and he made the tragic choice to end his life after a third 19-hour police summons,” said Bong.

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**Post date:** [January 15, 2024, 10:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/parasite-great-movie-or-no-spoilers-welcome/846721/28 "2024-01-15T10:17:05Z")

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I thought it was a ridiculous movie, and didn’t sit through till the end. I failed to see anything entertaining. The characters were ridiculous as was the ‘plot’, for lack of a better word. I’m glad others found something to enjoy, but def not my cup of tea.

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