My son is a John. (His Hebrew name is Yochanan.) My husband and I were very happy to give him an ordinary name in the face of the “cre8tiv” trend, but he was actually named after one of my oldest childhood friends who passed away when we were 34. I was still in touch with his parents, and asked their permission before I named my son. They have always been like an extra set of grandparents to the boychik, with gifts on his birthday and Hanukkah, and generally making a fuss over him, which he likes.
We call him Johnny, and he did once ask me if he could be something else when he grows up, and I told him he could be whatever he wanted, but if he meant just “John,” we could start calling him that now. He asked if there were any grown-up nicknames for John, and I told him some people go by Jack, so he has decided to go by Jack when he gets to high school.
His middle name is Daniel.
I don’t care if he wants to be Jack Daniel, as long as he goes into it it with his eyes open.
We have an unusual last name, so I think he is well-served by a common first name.
Our last name begins with an Mac, even though it’s not a Celtic name, it’s Jewish (think of the Chanukah story). Son will probably get called “Mac” at some point in his life, especially if he ever joins the military. If he likes that, and wants to be called that on a regular basis, that’s fine.
If he ever wants to change his name, I suppose I’d live with it, but I hope he’d at least wait until the first Johnny’s parents are deceased (he’d probably have the sense to do that, as he likes them). Except if he wants to change it to Christian. That would make me cry.
I like my name, with the caveat that I wish my parents had not spelled my middle name with a “Ch.” It’s like the Ch in Chanukah, which is a sound that doesn’t even exist in English. I wish my parents had spelled it with just an H. I have thought about changing it, but I’m not sure I could get used to writing it. In spite of not liking it because it’s difficult for other people, it’s not difficult for me.