# Penis size or Height- what matters more to women

**URL:** https://boards.straightdope.com/t/penis-size-or-height-what-matters-more-to-women/837861
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion
**Created:** [July 30, 2019, 5:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/penis-size-or-height-what-matters-more-to-women/837861 "2019-07-30T05:31:34Z")
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### Author: ![shocky2002](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/6a8cbe/32.png) [@shocky2002](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/shocky2002)
#### Post date: [July 30, 2019, 5:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/penis-size-or-height-what-matters-more-to-women/837861/1 "2019-07-30T05:31:34Z")

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Let’s say, 5’7 with an 8 inch penis versus 6’4 with a 4 inch penis. For guys who would you rather be, and for ladies who would you rather date?

Trying to settle a debate. I think the answer is penis size more important

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### Author: ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)
#### Post date: [July 30, 2019, 5:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/penis-size-or-height-what-matters-more-to-women/837861/2 "2019-07-30T05:58:11Z")

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Nope

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### Author: ![Aspidistra](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/aspidistra/32/3894_2.png) [@Aspidistra](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Aspidistra)
#### Post date: [July 30, 2019, 6:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/penis-size-or-height-what-matters-more-to-women/837861/3 "2019-07-30T06:04:01Z")

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Which of those values are meant to be the “good” ones, again?

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### Author: ![Velocity](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/velocity/32/18006_2.png) [@Velocity](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Velocity)
#### Post date: [July 30, 2019, 6:28am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/penis-size-or-height-what-matters-more-to-women/837861/4 "2019-07-30T06:28:42Z")

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I’d far rather be the 6’4 guy. Especially since penis size isn’t exactly something you can advertise, whereas your height is instantly visible.

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### Author: ![Aspidistra](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/aspidistra/32/3894_2.png) [@Aspidistra](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Aspidistra)
#### Post date: [July 30, 2019, 6:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/penis-size-or-height-what-matters-more-to-women/837861/5 "2019-07-30T06:57:13Z")

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> [@Velocity](#):
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> I’d far rather be the 6’4 guy. Especially since penis size isn’t exactly something you can advertise, whereas your height is instantly visible.

Well you’d get paid more at work, so there’s that

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### Author: ![gkster](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gkster/32/14107_2.png) [@gkster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gkster)
#### Post date: [July 30, 2019, 7:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/penis-size-or-height-what-matters-more-to-women/837861/6 "2019-07-30T07:07:07Z")

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> [@Beckdawrek](#):
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> Nope

Seconded. Nope, nope.

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### Author: ![PookahMacPhellimey](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/pookahmacphellimey/32/3175_2.png) [@PookahMacPhellimey](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/PookahMacPhellimey)
#### Post date: [July 30, 2019, 7:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/penis-size-or-height-what-matters-more-to-women/837861/7 "2019-07-30T07:55:05Z")

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I’d have to go with the large penis as I don’t really like tall men and penis size is indifferent to me. This is an honest answer.

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### Author: ![snfaulkner](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/snfaulkner/32/433_2.png) [@snfaulkner](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/snfaulkner)
#### Post date: [July 30, 2019, 8:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/penis-size-or-height-what-matters-more-to-women/837861/8 "2019-07-30T08:00:53Z")

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Signed up today with 1 post, huh?

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### Author: ![shocky2002](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/6a8cbe/32.png) [@shocky2002](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/shocky2002)
#### Post date: [July 30, 2019, 8:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/penis-size-or-height-what-matters-more-to-women/837861/9 "2019-07-30T08:37:33Z")

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> [@PookahMacPhellimey](#):
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> I’d have to go with the large penis as I don’t really like tall men and penis size is indifferent to me. This is an honest answer.

Wait… you’re taking the big dick despite being ‘indiffernt’ to penis size… huh

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### Author: ![Broomstick](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/broomstick/32/246_2.png) [@Broomstick](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Broomstick)
#### Post date: [July 30, 2019, 8:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/penis-size-or-height-what-matters-more-to-women/837861/10 "2019-07-30T08:40:36Z")

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> [@shocky2002](#):
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> Let’s say, 5’7 with an 8 inch penis versus 6’4 with a 4 inch penis. For guys who would you rather be, and for ladies who would you rather date?
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> Trying to settle a debate. I think the answer is penis size more important

Obviously, you are male.

Another “nope” here.

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### Author: ![Helena330](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/helena330/32/531_2.png) [@Helena330](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Helena330)
#### Post date: [July 30, 2019, 8:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/penis-size-or-height-what-matters-more-to-women/837861/11 "2019-07-30T08:41:17Z")

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5’7" with a 4" penis is fine if he’s smart and makes me laugh. Anything’s fine if he’s smart and makes me laugh.

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### Author: ![Helena330](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/helena330/32/531_2.png) [@Helena330](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Helena330)
#### Post date: [July 30, 2019, 8:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/penis-size-or-height-what-matters-more-to-women/837861/12 "2019-07-30T08:45:32Z")

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> [@shocky2002](#):
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> Wait… you’re taking the big dick despite being ‘indiffernt’ to penis size… huh

No, she took the guy that’s 5’7" because she doesn’t like tall guys. The penis was irrelevant. Really, insecure men think penis size is more important to women than it is.

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### Author: ![don\_t\_ask](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e68b1a/32.png) [@don\_t\_ask](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/don_t_ask)
#### Post date: [July 30, 2019, 8:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/penis-size-or-height-what-matters-more-to-women/837861/13 "2019-07-30T08:46:15Z")

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> [@Helena330](#):
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> 5’7" with a 4" penis is fine if he’s smart and makes me laugh. Anything’s fine if he’s smart and makes me laugh.

So what if he is smart and there is just something funny about his penis?

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### Author: ![Helena330](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/helena330/32/531_2.png) [@Helena330](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Helena330)
#### Post date: [July 30, 2019, 8:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/penis-size-or-height-what-matters-more-to-women/837861/14 "2019-07-30T08:55:22Z")

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> [@don\_t\_ask](#):
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> So what if he is smart and there is just something funny about his penis?

If it makes me laugh, no problem. He might not take too kindly to that, however. 😃

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### Author: ![shocky2002](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/6a8cbe/32.png) [@shocky2002](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/shocky2002)
#### Post date: [July 30, 2019, 9:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/penis-size-or-height-what-matters-more-to-women/837861/15 "2019-07-30T09:09:22Z")

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> [@Helena330](#):
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> No, she took the guy that’s 5’7" because she doesn’t like tall guys. The penis was irrelevant. Really, insecure men think penis size is more important to women than it is.

Fair enough. Am a bit surprised to see no one finding the smaller penis to be a disqualifying trait so far.

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### Author: ![shocky2002](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/6a8cbe/32.png) [@shocky2002](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/shocky2002)
#### Post date: [July 30, 2019, 9:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/penis-size-or-height-what-matters-more-to-women/837861/16 "2019-07-30T09:27:53Z")

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FYI I fully expect both to be a disqualifying trait to most women. This is just to test the waters on which would be less ‘bad’ if you will.

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### Author: ![Kobal2](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kobal2/32/20_2.png) [@Kobal2](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kobal2)
#### Post date: [July 30, 2019, 9:35am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/penis-size-or-height-what-matters-more-to-women/837861/17 "2019-07-30T09:35:19Z")

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> [@Helena330](#):
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> 5’7" with a 4" penis is fine if he’s smart and makes me laugh. Anything’s fine if he’s smart and makes me laugh.

I’m funny-lookin’ and my penis is clearly smarter than I am ; how do I rate ?

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### Author: ![Aspidistra](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/aspidistra/32/3894_2.png) [@Aspidistra](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Aspidistra)
#### Post date: [July 30, 2019, 9:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/penis-size-or-height-what-matters-more-to-women/837861/18 "2019-07-30T09:41:34Z")

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The average woman is 5’4" - why on earth would being 3 inches taller be “disqualifying”?

Hell, _ **I** _ don’t find it disqualifying, and I’m a freaking beanpole

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### Author: ![Filbert](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/filbert/32/3433_2.png) [@Filbert](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Filbert)
#### Post date: [July 30, 2019, 9:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/penis-size-or-height-what-matters-more-to-women/837861/19 "2019-07-30T09:45:35Z")

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Being a huge dick is disqualifying, having one is an irrelevance.

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### Author: ![shocky2002](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/6a8cbe/32.png) [@shocky2002](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/shocky2002)
#### Post date: [July 30, 2019, 10:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/penis-size-or-height-what-matters-more-to-women/837861/20 "2019-07-30T10:05:06Z")

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> [@Aspidistra](#):
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> The average woman is 5’4" - why on earth would being 3 inches taller be “disqualifying”?
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> Hell, _ **I** _ don’t find it disqualifying, and I’m a freaking beanpole

Have known women to hvae the “heels” requirement… 5’4’ becomes 5’8 in heels…

What about the size then?

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