Dog owners…grrrrr
A club I belong to has been around for decades. Within 3 years of its formation, the executive commitee banned dogs from most official club activities because of all the trouble they caused. Things were fine for decades and even though the executive commitee makeup changed numerous times (with many of those folks being dog owners/likers themselves), the ban always stayed.
Then, a few years ago, an executive member that had a dog started bringing it. Others started bringing theirs despite the ban. Some people grumbled about the rules being broken. So then the ban was officially lifted (and pardons given out perhaps?). Then dogs became a regular thing. Then we started having “dog problems”. One person/dog in particular was really bad. Nearly constant complaints about that owner/dog. So, rather than just requiring “well behaved” dogs, a list of rules were finally drawn up. Nothing complicated. Stuff like must have current tag, be on leash in most circumstances, not allowed around food areas during social functions. No excessive barking or agressive behavior. Not allowed on trips if a trip leader declared a trip a “no dog trip”.
Now that we had a reasonable list of reasonable rules we figured all would be well. I mean these are all smart, responsible adults right? In particular, we hoped the bad dog owner would now fly right. But guess what? The bad owner only got marginally better but was still totally unacceptable.
But even worse IMO, were the other 4 or so owners who brought dogs on a regular basis. Even after all the complaining and the drawing up of rules, they didn’t improve any either! Because, I guess, those rules were drawn up for those other bad owners/dogs, not them and their special dog.
It was maddening. Dogs still not on leashes. Dogs still around food, stealing food, and leaving dumps around food. Dogs just leaving dumps where they shouldnt period. Dogs at recreational areas where dogs aren’t allowed by law. Dogs brought on trips where dogs were specifically excluded. Dogs being obnoxious, aggressive, and bitting folks (fortunately just cloth punctures). Dogs getting lost and having to be searched for. Dogs almost getting run over. Owners yelling at their dogs to behave with no results, just continual irritating yelling in addition to the bad dog behavior. Service dogs in training at no dogs allowed places without their identifying “clothing”. And probably another thing or two I am forgetting at the moment.
We had rules that were NOT being followed. And, if you even politely reminded folks about the rules, they either were generally offended and sometimes downright pissy about it. Its was about one year of dogs unofficially allowed. Then they were officially allowed but just required to be “well behaved” for about another year. Then about a year of specific dog rules. Things never got better. People never learned or didnt care despite having plenty of time and warnings to get up to speed.
Damn dog owners. And I say that as a dog owner and lover myself.