# People still here! **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [July 7, 2012, 4:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/people-still-here/627527 "2012-07-07T16:17:14Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 15\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![MizGrand](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/cdc98d/32.png) [@MizGrand](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MizGrand)\ **Post date:** [July 8, 2012, 2:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/people-still-here/627527/21 "2012-07-08T14:17:14Z")
> [@keturah](#): > > You’re back! How’s your husband? He’s doing great. Past is all under the bridge. Married now for 19 years this coming Tuesday. Thanks for asking! ---
**Author:** ![MizGrand](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/cdc98d/32.png) [@MizGrand](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MizGrand)\ **Post date:** [July 8, 2012, 2:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/people-still-here/627527/22 "2012-07-08T14:18:23Z")
> [@Cat\_Whisperer](#): > > I thought I recognized the username. Yes, how is your husband? Still cheating on him with the guy down the street, and mocking him on the internet for being a clueless idiot? Very not nice. Shame on you. Do you think that if I dig hard enough I wouldn’t find something that you might be ashamed of? Please let it go and move into the present. I’d really appreciate it. ---
**Author:** ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)\ **Post date:** [July 8, 2012, 4:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/people-still-here/627527/23 "2012-07-08T16:12:27Z")
You’re right - what goes on between a husband and wife is private. ---
**Author:** ![Guinastasia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guinastasia/32/5751_2.png) [@Guinastasia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Guinastasia)\ **Post date:** [July 8, 2012, 5:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/people-still-here/627527/24 "2012-07-08T17:22:14Z")
> [@Cat\_Whisperer](#): > > You’re right - what goes on between a husband and wife is private. Which is why you don’t spew it all over the internet. **lorene** , the people in those threads didn’t _brag_ about it, and go on and on about how justified it was. And then whine about their privacy. ---
**Author:** ![CarnalK](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/carnalk/32/486_2.png) [@CarnalK](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CarnalK)\ **Post date:** [July 8, 2012, 5:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/people-still-here/627527/25 "2012-07-08T17:42:04Z")
> [@Cat\_Whisperer](#): > > You’re right - what goes on between a husband and wife is private. Any reason, five years later with her husband having forgiven her, that you feel the need to be the shame police? ---
**Author:** ![Guinastasia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guinastasia/32/5751_2.png) [@Guinastasia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Guinastasia)\ **Post date:** [July 8, 2012, 5:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/people-still-here/627527/26 "2012-07-08T17:52:41Z")
I’d like to say though good for **MizGrand** if she got things sorted out. And hopefully she knows now that what goes on the internet is no longer private. But that’s why people were reacting differently to different stories to affairs. ---
**Author:** ![lorene](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/65b543/32.png) [@lorene](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lorene)\ **Post date:** [July 8, 2012, 6:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/people-still-here/627527/27 "2012-07-08T18:50:25Z")
> [@Guinastasia](#): > > I’d like to say though good for **MizGrand** if she got things sorted out. And hopefully she knows now that what goes on the internet is no longer private. > > But that’s why people were reacting differently to different stories to affairs. Yes, **Guin** , I realize that. I just figured that people gave her enough shit about it 5 years ago, 4 years ago, and 3 years ago. Can you please let me know when the statute of limitations runs out, because I think I missed that memo. ---
**Author:** ![hajario](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/hajario/32/171_2.png) [@hajario](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/hajario)\ **Post date:** [July 8, 2012, 7:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/people-still-here/627527/28 "2012-07-08T19:16:05Z")
> [@Guinastasia](#): > > I’d like to say though good for **MizGrand** if she got things sorted out. And hopefully she knows now that what goes on the internet is no longer private. And now, no matter how this thread goes, you have your bases covered. ---
**Author:** ![Guinastasia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guinastasia/32/5751_2.png) [@Guinastasia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Guinastasia)\ **Post date:** [July 8, 2012, 10:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/people-still-here/627527/29 "2012-07-08T22:11:29Z")
> [@hajario](#): > > And now, no matter how this thread goes, you have your bases covered. Oh please. I don’t give a shit what happens in this thread. But someone asked about the difference – I answered. If that’s trying to “cover my bases”, so be it. There, now you’re all set. ---
**Author:** ![twickster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ec9cab/32.png) [@twickster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/twickster)\ **Post date:** [July 8, 2012, 10:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/people-still-here/627527/30 "2012-07-08T22:58:03Z")
People, we’ve gotten seriously off-topic here. If you want to debate how you determine your own attitudes about whether/when/why/how/who to forgive/forget people who have posted about cheating on their SO’s, please start a new thread. **twickster** , MPSIMS moderator ---
**Author:** ![Autolycus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/22d042/32.png) [@Autolycus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Autolycus)\ **Post date:** [July 8, 2012, 11:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/people-still-here/627527/31 "2012-07-08T23:40:44Z")
With that said, please enjoy your stay! ---
**Author:** ![Chimera](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/8e8cbc/32.png) [@Chimera](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chimera)\ **Post date:** [July 9, 2012, 12:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/people-still-here/627527/32 "2012-07-09T00:36:54Z")
So… All in all not that much different than when you left, then. ---
**Author:** ![Cheshire\_Human](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/5f8ce5/32.png) [@Cheshire\_Human](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cheshire_Human)\ **Post date:** [July 9, 2012, 12:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/people-still-here/627527/33 "2012-07-09T00:57:55Z")
> [@Cat\_Whisperer](#): > > I thought I recognized the username. Yes, how is your husband? Still cheating on him with the guy down the street, and mocking him on the internet for being a clueless idiot? > [@Cat\_Whisperer](#): > > You’re right - what goes on between a husband and wife is private. [5](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showpost.php?p=8449504&postcount=1) [years](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showpost.php?p=8449576&postcount=10) [ago:](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showpost.php?p=8449647&postcount=21) > [@](#): > > Okay, maybe banning is too strong, but she’s playing us like a fucking fiddle here, and it’s making me madder than I’ve ever been here before. Maybe I’m the one who needs to take a step back. Don’t you think it’s time you actually _tried_ that? 5 years is an awfully long time to hold that grudge. ---
**Author:** ![twickster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ec9cab/32.png) [@twickster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/twickster)\ **Post date:** [July 9, 2012, 3:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/people-still-here/627527/34 "2012-07-09T03:17:39Z")
> [@Cheshire\_Human](#): > > [5](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showpost.php?p=8449504&postcount=1) [years](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showpost.php?p=8449576&postcount=10) [ago:](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showpost.php?p=8449647&postcount=21) > Don’t you think it’s time you actually _tried_ that? 5 years is an awfully long time to hold that grudge. **Cheshire Human** , apparently you missed my mod note. Let me repeat it. > [@twickster](#): > > People, we’ve gotten seriously off-topic here. > > If you want to debate how you determine your own attitudes about whether/when/why/how/who to forgive/forget people who have posted about cheating on their SO’s, please start a new thread. > > **twickster** , MPSIMS moderator I’ll admit that I failed to mention commenting on each other’s grudges or lack thereof – those are also off-topic. If you have a problem with another poster, take it to the Pit. **twickster** , MPSIMS moderator ---
**Author:** ![Cinnamon\_Imp](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/58956e/32.png) [@Cinnamon\_Imp](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cinnamon_Imp)\ **Post date:** [July 9, 2012, 7:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/people-still-here/627527/35 "2012-07-09T07:29:19Z")
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