A car pulled up next to me at a stoplight yesterday. Someone in the back seat rolled the window down and started pitching out double handfuls of fast-food garbage.
I hate people.
Sorry, if I had an infant, I wouldn’t leave him sit in the car while I run across the lot to return my cart. They do have employees at the grocery who periodically go out and collect carts from the lot. It’s not the grave injustice some of you are making it out to be.
However, I do not have an infant, and I almost always put my cart in the corral. I can’t remember the last time I didn’t.
I just don’t understand this.
How is it that much more work or that bad to carry your baby (not that you have one) 
with you back to the cart corral? If the weather was not detrimental to the baby to and from the store - why is that extra minute to return the cart too much?
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No, I’m pretty sure that’s regular old aggresive.
It’s just pretending to be nice when you know your intention is to humiliate people.
Now, I’m not saying people couldn’t use some manners. But if I was walking towards a door you got to first, you opened and held open, I might nod. I might smile. Or I might be so worried about my kid at home with explosive diahhrea and wondering where the Pedialyte is stocked that I don’t acknowledge you, especially if I’m one of several people walking through the door you chose to open.
I might not be returning my cart because someone else is waiting for my parking spot and the good I can do getting out of the way is greater than the harm I cause by making a cart boy do his job. (City parking lots, not many spaces, bad traffic jams result.)
I might be using my cell-phone to check with the hospital that my infant in intensive care is still breathing in the few moments I have to pick up a dozen eggs and some milk.
If you’re going to be nice, be nice. Don’t be nice expecting accolades for it. It pretty much negates your sacrifice.
(And, FTR, I’m a shopping cart putter-awayer, reaching of high things for short people, garbage cleaner, do-gooder myself. I just don’t expect anyone else to acknowledge or change because of it.)
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Look, do you want our kids clean, not screaming and well-behaved and well-disciplined (as evidenced by other gripes in this thread) or do you want the damn cart put away every time? It’s not always possible to do both. Kids have their own agendas. Sometimes that extra minute is the minute a temper tantrum starts, and then we’re ragged on for having a screaming kid in the middle of the parking lot! There’s no winning, sometimes.
The grave injustice is in the $500 dent in the side of my car because someone carelessly left a cart in the parking lot which allowed the wind to roll it into my car door.
From the retailers perspective, I’m sure that they could use that labor that they now use to send people out to the parking lot periodically to clean up after their patrons for a more productive task.
No, it’s not a federal offense but it’s clearly inconsiderate of others. There’s just no logical reason to not put your cart away after you use it.
Oops, I forgot to quote Indygrrl’s post above that I was responding too. :smack:
Had an odd reversal situation a few days ago. Luckilly it didn’t turn out too badly.
I was pulling into a parking lot at the supermarket, and noticed a close, open spot. After I pulled in, and got out of the car, a guy pulled up behind me and said, “I can’t believe you just did that!”
“Did what?” I querried.
“I was waiting for that space, and you whipped around me and took it!”
I think he was expecting to start a fight, because when I said, “Oh, jeez, I didn’t see you. I can give you the space if you like?” He just seemed stunned. After about a moment or three of indecision while I stood by the driver’s side door, he just shook his head, and said, “No, that’s all right.”
We crossed paths in the store. He studiously avoided eye contact. I still felt bad, but at least I tried to be nice and give the guy options!
People like you piss me off even more than the people being pitted in this thread. What you do is neither nice nor passive, and I am surprised you have not gotten yourself into trouble with this attitude.
While the behavior described in this thread is rude, this is in fact the most obnoxious and self-absorbed of all.
Now I am not the type to leave carts in the lot, etc, but if I did something that you felt needed to be “corrected”, and you called me out on it in this fashion, you’d get quite an earful back from me, as it seems you are the one looking for attention.