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Wow, it’s really great that your folks are putting you up while you kill off the debt.
One thing I discovered is that it’s extremely easy to underestimate the amount you spend on food, especially these days. I originally budgeted $100/week for food for one person (me). Eating out once a week after work, plus going to the company caf for lunch blew through that real fast.
As part of a group, you should have more of a chance for trading off tasks such as cooking, and doing them more efficiently in bulk. Having to do everything by oneself is one of the greatest disadvantages of living alone.
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Yeah, we are very lucky that they are willing to give us a hand and a roof. I suppose it beats hearing about perpetual money dilemmas, watching us flounder and bailing us out every couple of years. They are good people and have an obvious interest in our success as well. 
It is easy to underestimate your food spending, especially when you’re eating out. We hardly ever ate out as a family, but when I was employed, I would spend $7-10 daily for lunch. So stupid…and I paid the price for it: wasted upwards of $40/wk on one meal/day and gained 20 pounds. :smack:
But I’m a pretty savvy grocery shopper and can easily feed a family of 3 on $450/mo, even though we are all addicted to $7 cheese (oh, how I miss it!). I was shocked to find out how much public assistance gives out for monthly groceries on top of food bank chits. It’s way more than I need, so I must be doing something right. The crappy thing is that I couldn’t buy TP and shampoo with it. Eating out, however, just kills the food budget, so for the time being, it’s just not an option. We just have to get better about fixing lunches to take with. That’s my weakness, I need a decent lunch when I’m working or I’m just miserable.
I’m kinda curious to see how feeding four adults and a kid works out. I’ve never done that before and it sounds like a lot of food. Well, at least we’ll have help. My husband and I both cook, although my dinners tend to be a bit more elaborate involving, you know, more than one dish. 