# Phone Sex - was it good for you? **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [November 24, 1999, 11:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phone-sex-was-it-good-for-you/11719 "1999-11-24T23:37:00Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 12\ **Page:** 3
**Author:** ![handy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/b5a626/32.png) [@handy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/handy)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 1999, 3:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phone-sex-was-it-good-for-you/11719/41 "1999-11-27T15:17:00Z")
tracer, its easier for a woman, they can type with both hands if they put a vibrator on their lap. But then again, I never tried net or phone sex either, as I don’t believe in having sex with a public utility. ---
**Author:** ![tracer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tracer/32/20578_2.png) [@tracer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tracer)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 1999, 1:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phone-sex-was-it-good-for-you/11719/42 "1999-11-28T01:24:00Z")
… especially if your phone is on a party line. ---
**Author:** ![handy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/b5a626/32.png) [@handy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/handy)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 1999, 3:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phone-sex-was-it-good-for-you/11719/43 "1999-11-28T15:54:00Z")
I work on computers & nothing more gross than to have to work on someone’s computer who’s addicted to Net sex. Those keyboards, oh, gross. ---
**Author:** ![kellibelli](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/e480ec/32.png) [@kellibelli](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kellibelli)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 1999, 8:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phone-sex-was-it-good-for-you/11719/44 "1999-11-28T20:03:00Z")
Guanolad…I have done it a few times, but **I** was the giver. Hmmm…I wonder what the long distance rates are from Canada to Australia… There can be something very satisfying about hearing a man cum just from the sound of your voice. Very satisfying. ---
**Author:** ![Satan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e9bcb4/32.png) [@Satan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Satan)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 1999, 7:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phone-sex-was-it-good-for-you/11719/45 "1999-11-29T07:02:00Z")
kellibelli It works for guys too. I remember when I waas chatting with a girl from Boise once (nobody here), and I wrote something that she kinda liked. I said something like, I’ll call you and finish you off. She dared me. So I called her, and though she had never done that before, next thing I knew, my voice and words and imagination enabled me to pop her fiber optic cherry. I must admit that knowing where her hands and fingers were, and knowing that I was the one who led her to this place she had never been, was a huge turn-on. * * * Yer pal, Satan ---
**Author:** ![GuanoLad](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guanolad/32/42_2.png) [@GuanoLad](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GuanoLad)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 1999, 8:30am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phone-sex-was-it-good-for-you/11719/46 "1999-11-29T08:30:00Z")
Satan hits the nail on the head! That’s the drawcard for me too. It is a huge turn-on to know that it truly is just with voice and semntiment that can get someone over the edge… Kellibelli - you’re on. If you’re willing, I’m willing! 🙂 * * * -PIGEONMAN- Hero For A New Millennium! [The Legend Of PigeonMan](http://www.hotkey.net.au/~guanolad/pigeonman/) - updates every Wed & Sat. If I can be bothered. ---
**Author:** ![Atrael](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/6a8cbe/32.png) [@Atrael](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Atrael)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 1999, 4:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phone-sex-was-it-good-for-you/11719/47 "1999-11-30T16:07:00Z")
(sigh)…I’m going to hate myself for answering this. Yes, I’ve had phone sex… Yes, I’ve called a profesional service (sounds better that way 😉 ) I’ve only done it a few times with someone I already know, because, well…they’re usually close enough that I can go and get the real thing. I use only one service…they are less expensive than most, at least give the illusion of being real people…as to why?..I guess it’s just another form of fantasizing…I can ask her to do anything I want…and it’s a selfish sort of thing too. I don’t really have to worry about pleasuring her. Although one of my favorite things in real life is to lay next to my SO and whisper fantasies in her ear while I use my fingers on her…she loves that… 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![kellibelli](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/e480ec/32.png) [@kellibelli](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kellibelli)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 1999, 10:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phone-sex-was-it-good-for-you/11719/48 "1999-11-30T22:11:00Z")
Christ! This place is giving me the worst case of ‘feminineblue balls’! Atrael, YOU are the worst! Satan, you arent much better. \ Friggin’ men… sayin’ sexy stuff…not fair…anit gettin’any…grrrrr ---
**Author:** ![Stella\_Fantasia](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/74df32/32.png) [@Stella\_Fantasia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Stella_Fantasia)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 1999, 10:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phone-sex-was-it-good-for-you/11719/49 "1999-11-30T22:21:00Z")
I thought it was gross, but maybe that’s because it wasn’t really my idea. See, at the time I lived in Detroit & my SO lived in Baltimore…we were talking on the phone, & he got horny & jerked off while we were on the phone. I didn’t enjoy it for a couple of reasons…it sort of grossed me out, plus it made think about how much I wanted to be there with him in person. It made me sad a LOT more than it made me horny. ---
**Author:** ![Drain\_Bead](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e47774/32.png) [@Drain\_Bead](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Drain_Bead)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 1999, 10:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phone-sex-was-it-good-for-you/11719/50 "1999-11-30T22:45:00Z")
I like it. I’d like it a lot better if I could actually do it well, but when I get turned on past a certain point, my brain turns off, and I’m not very articulate. Maybe I just need practice… ---
**Author:** ![Imthecowgodmoo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/58f4c7/32.png) [@Imthecowgodmoo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Imthecowgodmoo)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 1999, 10:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phone-sex-was-it-good-for-you/11719/51 "1999-11-30T22:47:00Z")
When I would go over to my friend Greg’s house back in the 7th grade, we would randomly pick naughty 1-800 numbers and see what they’d say before we had to pay… but never would continue with it cuz we’d get freaked out that his dad would find out and kill us. Still never done the phone sex thing. I find the imagination to be a very useful _hand_ in getting oneself off. * * * “I may be crazy, but at least I’m not as crazy as you.”-- Calvin and Hobbes (\_\_) `\/-------\ `| |-----| | …c.c…c.c… ---
**Author:** ![Purple\_Toenails](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/779978/32.png) [@Purple\_Toenails](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Purple_Toenails)\ **Post date:** [December 5, 1999, 3:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phone-sex-was-it-good-for-you/11719/52 "1999-12-05T15:19:00Z")
Having just experienced it,in fact i’m still recovering…it’s not as good as the real thing but it’s one hell of a substitute,especially if you love and know that person! \ * * * Please forgive me i’m English! [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phone-sex-was-it-good-for-you/11719.md?page=2)