I was helping my 19 year-old daughter search for an apartment (Seattle area). All the bigger places asked for both our ID’s prior to showing us any units. I had seen the earlier thread here and was therefore neither surprised nor offended. In my younger days, I don’t recall every being asked.
Could it also be that the person and agency showing you around have to prove that they’ve shown people around?
So, are you selling your wife short, or do you have a rapey look about ya?
Well, I did shake hands with a girl once.