# Phrases/terms that aggravate the hell out of you

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**Category:** The BBQ Pit\
**Created:** [October 26, 2020, 2:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phrases-terms-that-aggravate-the-hell-out-of-you/923894 "2020-10-26T02:04:45Z")\
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**Author:** ![Ludovic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/7ab992/32.png) [@Ludovic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ludovic)\
**Post date:** [November 13, 2020, 6:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phrases-terms-that-aggravate-the-hell-out-of-you/923894/281 "2020-11-13T18:40:11Z")

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It might also be influenced by the “nowcast” which was a glittery way of saying “current weather conditions.” So they might have used “futurecast” so people wouldn’t confuse it with the “nowcast”.

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I tend to always go by pastcasts.

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**Author:** ![kaylasdad99](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kaylasdad99/32/3398_2.png) [@kaylasdad99](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kaylasdad99)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2020, 12:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phrases-terms-that-aggravate-the-hell-out-of-you/923894/283 "2020-11-15T00:07:42Z")

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“Futurecasts” should all have flying cars, and advice about whether you should take your jet pack to work.

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**Author:** ![wolfpup](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/wolfpup/32/10618_2.png) [@wolfpup](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/wolfpup)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2020, 5:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phrases-terms-that-aggravate-the-hell-out-of-you/923894/284 "2020-11-15T17:08:40Z")

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> [@kaylasdad99](#):
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> “Futurecasts” should all have flying cars, and advice about whether you should take your jet pack to work. &nbsp;

That would be a “nowcast”. 😉

[https://www.cnn.com/videos/business/2020/11/01/flying-car-first-flight-lon-orig.cnn?iid=homepage\_video\_zone-outbrain](https://www.cnn.com/videos/business/2020/11/01/flying-car-first-flight-lon-orig.cnn?iid=homepage_video_zone-outbrain)

[https://www.cnn.com/videos/business/2020/09/29/paramedics-jet-suit-gravity-lon-orig-mrg.cnn?iid=homepage\_video\_zone-outbrain](https://www.cnn.com/videos/business/2020/09/29/paramedics-jet-suit-gravity-lon-orig-mrg.cnn?iid=homepage_video_zone-outbrain)

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**Post date:** [November 15, 2020, 5:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phrases-terms-that-aggravate-the-hell-out-of-you/923894/285 "2020-11-15T17:40:06Z")

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Hey - I feel you.

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**Post date:** [November 15, 2020, 5:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phrases-terms-that-aggravate-the-hell-out-of-you/923894/286 "2020-11-15T17:41:21Z")

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> [@tripthicket](#):
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> As a veteran, ‘Thank you for your service.’ A meaningless phrase. Bitch, you don’t know me or what I did or didn’t do during my service. It’s all subjective anyway (contrast spitting on returning Vietnam soldiers vs the frickin’ yellow ribbons everywhere for the first Gulf war). You wanna feel good, buy a kitten. You wanna show appreciation for my service, tell your representatives to take better care of the veterans they voted to put in harm’s way for dubious purposes.

Amen.

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**Author:** ![Siam\_Sam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d78d45/32.png) [@Siam\_Sam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Siam_Sam)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2020, 8:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phrases-terms-that-aggravate-the-hell-out-of-you/923894/287 "2020-11-15T20:06:31Z")

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> [@tripthicket](#):
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> As a veteran, ‘Thank you for your service.’ A meaningless phrase. Bitch, you don’t know me or what I did or didn’t do during my service. It’s all subjective anyway (contrast spitting on returning Vietnam soldiers vs the frickin’ yellow ribbons everywhere for the first Gulf war). You wanna feel good, buy a kitten. You wanna show appreciation for my service, tell your representatives to take better care of the veterans they voted to put in harm’s way for dubious purposes.

No one ever says it for Peace Corps Volunteers.

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**Post date:** [November 15, 2020, 9:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phrases-terms-that-aggravate-the-hell-out-of-you/923894/288 "2020-11-15T21:53:52Z")

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Or when I wear my Veteran Of The Battle Of Bowling Green hat…

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> [@Siam\_Sam](#):
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> No one ever says it for Peace Corps Volunteers.

They really should!

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**Post date:** [November 15, 2020, 10:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phrases-terms-that-aggravate-the-hell-out-of-you/923894/289 "2020-11-15T22:27:55Z")

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> [@wolfpup](#):
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> > [@bump](#):
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> > That’s silly. You can make your own “processed cheese” at home with sodium citrate.
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> Maybe you can, but that’s not what Kraft does.
> 
> Since this silly hijack refuses to die, **[here’s a bit of reading in the spirit of fighting ignorance](https://www.techtimes.com/articles/40616/20150318/kraft-cheese-singles-now-considered-a-health-food-after-earning-kids-eat-right-label.htm)**.
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> A few quotes:
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> > Sure Kraft American Cheese Singles contain 20 percent calcium per slice, but that’s just about as healthy as this food gets.
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> > First and foremost, Kraft Singles are a processed food product. Kraft has felt the fire from health critics for the high amount of preservatives, fat, sodium, sugar and colorants that are found in their products.
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> > Back in 2003, the Food and Drug Administration required [Kraft](http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/03/16/kraft-singles-kids-eat-right_n_6879658.html?ncid=fcbklnkushpmg00000063)to change its “pasteurized process cheese food” label on its Singles and Velveeta mac 'n cheese products because they don’t contain real milk, but instead milk protein concentrate.
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> > But the reason why Kraft Singles are now labeled an academy “Kids Eat Right” approved product may have more to do with money than nutrition.
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> > Food industry lawyer Michele Simon [reported](http://www.eatdrinkpolitics.com/wp-content/uploads/AND_Corporate_Sponsorship_Report.pdf) in 2013 that the AND [Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics] has strong financial ties with major food companies, including PepsiCo, Kellogg and of course Kraft …
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> > … “I’m absolutely disgusted with the Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics,” Allison Duffek Bradfield, RD [writes.](https://www.facebook.com/DietitiansForProfessionalIntegrity/posts/894966640573212) “They have put the health of our children in jeopardy for money. I am embarrassed to be a part of this organization which clearly has lost its priorities.”
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> > Another AND member, Linn Steward writes, “Every time our Academy states its proud sponsorship of another ultra processed food, we lose a little more credibility with the healthy eating crowd.”

Cool Story Bro.

Do you have anything specifically countering **bump** s claims the processed cheese fear is absurd?

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**Post date:** [November 15, 2020, 10:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phrases-terms-that-aggravate-the-hell-out-of-you/923894/290 "2020-11-15T22:43:59Z")

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Watergate hearings? As I recall, they led to the popular use of “point in time.” Worst thing Nixon ever caused.

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**Post date:** [November 15, 2020, 11:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phrases-terms-that-aggravate-the-hell-out-of-you/923894/291 "2020-11-15T23:45:45Z")

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and “-gate” itself.

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**Post date:** [November 16, 2020, 1:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phrases-terms-that-aggravate-the-hell-out-of-you/923894/292 "2020-11-16T01:40:14Z")

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And “expletive deleted”.

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**Post date:** [November 16, 2020, 2:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phrases-terms-that-aggravate-the-hell-out-of-you/923894/293 "2020-11-16T02:04:39Z")

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I keep telling veterans “Sorry for your service”, and the recently bereaved “Thank you for your loss”. Get those mixed up sometimes.

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**Post date:** [November 16, 2020, 2:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phrases-terms-that-aggravate-the-hell-out-of-you/923894/294 "2020-11-16T02:12:25Z")

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> [@california\_jobcase](#):
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> Watergate hearings? As I recall, they led to the popular use of “point in time.” Worst thing Nixon ever caused.

“At this particular point in time, I have no present recollection of any such past events.”

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**Post date:** [November 16, 2020, 3:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phrases-terms-that-aggravate-the-hell-out-of-you/923894/295 "2020-11-16T03:36:22Z")

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> [@Northern\_Piper](#):
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> and “-gate” itself.

I can’t agree with that always. While working on an English-language newspaper in Bangkok, a scandal unfolded in which a Thai Supreme Court justice got caught accepting a bribe, the cash being delivered in a pastry box. I myself came with “Pastrygate” for the headline, and even the BBC went with it at the time.

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These days, I am getting heartily sick of “in these uncertain times…” especially when used to sell me Medicare supplementary insurance. Joe Namath, please re-retire from public life.

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**Post date:** [November 17, 2020, 4:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phrases-terms-that-aggravate-the-hell-out-of-you/923894/297 "2020-11-17T16:40:21Z")

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I’m in a Zoom conference about our company’s web presence, and the speakers are using “holistic” way too much.

Yes, our various web utilities do have a lot of moving parts, but “holistic” just means it’s all under our domain name. There’s no need to make yourself sound smarter by repeating this redundancy.

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**Post date:** [November 17, 2020, 8:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phrases-terms-that-aggravate-the-hell-out-of-you/923894/298 "2020-11-17T20:49:32Z")

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> [@tripthicket](#):
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> You wanna show appreciation for my service, tell your representatives to take better care of the veterans they voted to put in harm’s way for dubious purposes.

That’s too hard. I’ll just put a magnet on my car instead, and pat myself on the back for being patriotic.

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**Post date:** [November 17, 2020, 10:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phrases-terms-that-aggravate-the-hell-out-of-you/923894/299 "2020-11-17T22:27:44Z")

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Make sure the magnet was made in China. The only way to be patriotic is to ship money to China. And make sure to drive a gas guzzling pickup truck so you also send lots of money to Middle Eastern autocrats of an Islamic bent.

That’s how to be True Patriot ®™!!

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**Post date:** [November 20, 2020, 11:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phrases-terms-that-aggravate-the-hell-out-of-you/923894/300 "2020-11-20T23:24:46Z")

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I appreciate you posting this. I never say “Thank you for your service” for all the reasons you stated, plus I figure sometimes you really do just want to get your business done and leave without obligatory conversations with strangers. But I always wonder if I’m being judged or labeled as “Ungrateful Bitch” for not saying it. Not that I care, I just wonder…

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