# Phrases/terms that aggravate the hell out of you

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phrases-terms-that-aggravate-the-hell-out-of-you/923894>\
**Category:** The BBQ Pit\
**Created:** [October 26, 2020, 2:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phrases-terms-that-aggravate-the-hell-out-of-you/923894 "2020-10-26T02:04:45Z")\
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**Author:** ![LSLGuy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lslguy/32/5813_2.png) [@LSLGuy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LSLGuy)\
**Post date:** [October 30, 2020, 12:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phrases-terms-that-aggravate-the-hell-out-of-you/923894/121 "2020-10-30T12:45:54Z")

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Did @chela say fnord? I thought so.

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**Author:** ![digs](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/digs/32/14889_2.png) [@digs](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/digs)\
**Post date:** [October 30, 2020, 4:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phrases-terms-that-aggravate-the-hell-out-of-you/923894/122 "2020-10-30T16:44:03Z")

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My sïs†er saw a møøse once time sweeming in a fnord.

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**Author:** ![chela](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/chela/32/21582_2.png) [@chela](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/chela)\
**Post date:** [October 30, 2020, 8:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phrases-terms-that-aggravate-the-hell-out-of-you/923894/123 "2020-10-30T20:11:35Z")

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It is written, so be it.

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**Author:** ![Sitnam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/6a8cbe/32.png) [@Sitnam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sitnam)\
**Post date:** [October 30, 2020, 9:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phrases-terms-that-aggravate-the-hell-out-of-you/923894/124 "2020-10-30T21:13:25Z")

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Everyone, every where is aware of and affected by Covid on some level. I am quite sick of hearing the phrase, ‘these trying times…’ everywhere from popsicle commercials to parent teacher conferences.

‘Moving forward’

‘Facetious’ does not mean the same thing as ‘sarcastic’.

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**Author:** ![aurora\_maire](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/aurora_maire/32/328_2.png) [@aurora\_maire](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/aurora_maire)\
**Post date:** [October 30, 2020, 9:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phrases-terms-that-aggravate-the-hell-out-of-you/923894/125 "2020-10-30T21:25:51Z")

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I fervently hope that after Jan. 20, I never, ever hear the word “unprecedented” again.

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**Author:** ![wolfpup](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/wolfpup/32/10618_2.png) [@wolfpup](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/wolfpup)\
**Post date:** [October 30, 2020, 9:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phrases-terms-that-aggravate-the-hell-out-of-you/923894/126 "2020-10-30T21:28:17Z")

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> [@Saintly\_Loser](#):
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> > [@needscoffee](#):
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> > I hate when people (usually politicians) use the word “folks”, or even worse, “folk”, instead of “people” to give it a more common, “folksier” tone when they’re describing something. Like a politician saying “I’ve been hearing from folks that…”. To me, it just sounds manipulative and stilted, like they’re trying to be one with the commoners. I could barely tolerate it when Obama would use it (often), but I’ll give him a pass. No one else has any excuse.
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> Shoot. I came into this thread to post exactly this. But you beat me by a couple of days.
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> I hate, _hate_, this. The faux-folksiness (if I may) sets my teeth on edge.
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> And it’s out of control these day.

I really don’t get the hate for “folks”. I use it myself sometimes, just as a synonym for “people” that is sometimes a subtly better fit. There’s not necessarily any “faux-folksiness” about it. Likewise “townsfolk” is a perfectly fine word (though “townspeople” is indeed used more often).

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**Author:** ![wolfpup](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/wolfpup/32/10618_2.png) [@wolfpup](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/wolfpup)\
**Post date:** [October 30, 2020, 9:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phrases-terms-that-aggravate-the-hell-out-of-you/923894/127 "2020-10-30T21:34:02Z")

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> [@aurora\_maire](#):
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> I fervently hope that after Jan. 20, I never, ever hear the word “unprecedented” again.

Or how about “greatest {_insert anything here_} in history”, said by the US president about just about anything that he’s taking credit for. It was a source of unintended and considerable amusement when he used it in his first speech before the UN General Assembly. (Replace “greatest” with “worst” for anything Obama did that he claims to have fixed.)

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**Author:** ![needscoffee](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/needscoffee/32/1076_2.png) [@needscoffee](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/needscoffee)\
**Post date:** [October 30, 2020, 11:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phrases-terms-that-aggravate-the-hell-out-of-you/923894/128 "2020-10-30T23:34:32Z")

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Never mind

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**Author:** ![eschereal](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/eschereal/32/18939_2.png) [@eschereal](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/eschereal)\
**Post date:** [October 31, 2020, 12:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phrases-terms-that-aggravate-the-hell-out-of-you/923894/129 "2020-10-31T00:34:18Z")

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> [@wolfpup](#):
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> faux-folksiness

Yeah, I will be remembering that construction. Nice meter.

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**Author:** ![glowacks](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/glowacks/32/5548_2.png) [@glowacks](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/glowacks)\
**Post date:** [October 31, 2020, 2:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phrases-terms-that-aggravate-the-hell-out-of-you/923894/130 "2020-10-31T02:05:55Z")

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It’s 2020! Why does anyone start a question about technology or societal progress by stating the obvious of what year it happens to be? It’s 2020! Why can’t we send money telepathically? It’s 2020! Why haven’t all the conservatives died yet? It’s 2020! Why do we need to eat still? It’s 2020! Why haven’t we sent a manned mission to Andromeda yet? It’s 2020! Why hasn’t the technological singularity happened yet? It’s 2020! Why do I care so much about this overwrought expression?

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**Author:** ![eschereal](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/eschereal/32/18939_2.png) [@eschereal](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/eschereal)\
**Post date:** [October 31, 2020, 2:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phrases-terms-that-aggravate-the-hell-out-of-you/923894/131 "2020-10-31T02:09:43Z")

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Where’s my jetpack???

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**Author:** ![Steve\_McQwark](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/4da419/32.png) [@Steve\_McQwark](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Steve_McQwark)\
**Post date:** [October 31, 2020, 2:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phrases-terms-that-aggravate-the-hell-out-of-you/923894/132 "2020-10-31T02:45:26Z")

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Where did you leave it? I don’t know why you expect everyone else to keep track of _your_ stuff.

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**Author:** ![Northern\_Piper](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/northern_piper/32/5304_2.png) [@Northern\_Piper](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Northern_Piper)\
**Post date:** [October 31, 2020, 3:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phrases-terms-that-aggravate-the-hell-out-of-you/923894/133 "2020-10-31T03:36:24Z")

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Did you check it on your flight back from LAX? I hate it when my luggage gets lost.

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**Author:** ![digs](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/digs/32/14889_2.png) [@digs](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/digs)\
**Post date:** [October 31, 2020, 3:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phrases-terms-that-aggravate-the-hell-out-of-you/923894/134 "2020-10-31T15:26:31Z")

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Next time I fly back from LA, I’m taking an airplane. Those jetpack trips get cold!

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**Author:** ![burpo\_the\_wonder\_mutt](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/burpo_the_wonder_mutt/32/365_2.png) [@burpo\_the\_wonder\_mutt](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/burpo_the_wonder_mutt)\
**Post date:** [October 31, 2020, 5:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phrases-terms-that-aggravate-the-hell-out-of-you/923894/135 "2020-10-31T17:05:06Z")

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> [@glowacks](#):
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> It’s 2020!

Why are you wearing eyeglasses?

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**Author:** ![Reginald\_Knutsen\_the\_3rd](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/85e7bf/32.png) [@Reginald\_Knutsen\_the\_3rd](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Reginald_Knutsen_the_3rd)\
**Post date:** [November 1, 2020, 3:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phrases-terms-that-aggravate-the-hell-out-of-you/923894/136 "2020-11-01T03:13:56Z")

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Look, at the end of the day it is what it is and that’s like, all there is to it. Whattayagunnado ya know what I’m sayin?

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**Author:** ![Gatopescado](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gatopescado/32/5711_2.png) [@Gatopescado](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gatopescado)\
**Post date:** [November 1, 2020, 4:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phrases-terms-that-aggravate-the-hell-out-of-you/923894/137 "2020-11-01T04:03:19Z")

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Is ‘Physicality’ a cromulent word? I hear it all the time during College Football.

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**Author:** ![Tamerlane](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tamerlane/32/7602_2.png) [@Tamerlane](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tamerlane)\
**Post date:** [November 1, 2020, 4:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phrases-terms-that-aggravate-the-hell-out-of-you/923894/138 "2020-11-01T04:25:01Z")

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I’m guilty of a number of these 🙂. For example I say to be honest or frankly a lot. It’s completely unconscious so I’ve had a hard time breaking myself of the habit, even though it does very mildly irk a couple of friends of mine.

My current aggravation is [right here in this thread title](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/jerry-falwell-is-a-cuck-and-was-blackmailed-into-supporting-trump/918898). My problem is that logical or not I’ve internalized the use of the archaic word cuck as being 100% owned by shitty-ass incels. I’m pretty sure that is not the intention of that OP, but it still irrationally annoys me every time I see that thread pop back up. Because I associate any use of it with shitty-ass incels.

I sorta wish people that either just use the entire word cuckold, old fashioned though it is or just avoid using the term altogether. I think it is kinda of a pathetic insult anyway, implying that a man is somehow lesser or weak because his partner is cheating on him. It hearkens back to old toxic concepts of masculinity.

But mostly because it reminds me of shitheel incels and MRA whackadoos.

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**Author:** ![Son\_of\_a\_Rich](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/son_of_a_rich/32/5439_2.png) [@Son\_of\_a\_Rich](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Son_of_a_Rich)\
**Post date:** [November 1, 2020, 5:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phrases-terms-that-aggravate-the-hell-out-of-you/923894/139 "2020-11-01T05:51:11Z")

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I worked in a factory where the big boss would regularly shut down the whole plant and gather everyone in the breakroom for impromptu meetings. They were never of any import. Anyway, he would say “and so on and so forth” so often that at one meeting I took pen and paper and made a hashmark for every time he said it. Coworkers glanced over surreptitiously to see the score, but even though I was just making hashmarks, he said it so often that I lost track.

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**Author:** ![wanderer2575](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/2acd7d/32.png) [@wanderer2575](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/wanderer2575)\
**Post date:** [November 1, 2020, 6:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/phrases-terms-that-aggravate-the-hell-out-of-you/923894/140 "2020-11-01T06:19:02Z")

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“Quick question.”

It’s never quick, and just ask the damn question!

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