# Pick three FANTASTIC party songs for a diverse group

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**Created:** [October 5, 2010, 12:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/pick-three-fantastic-party-songs-for-a-diverse-group/556071 "2010-10-05T00:59:28Z")\
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“Groove is in the Heart” Dee-light

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Everybody loves “Shout”.

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> [@Zsofia](#):
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> Everybody loves “Shout”.

Incorrect.  
mmm

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[Black Betty-Ram Jam](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R044sleOW6I)

[Ballroom Blitz-The Sweet](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LmCIe2VEOtE)

And for something completely different: [Concrete Schoolyard-Jurassic 5](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AZmQIGLNxBs)

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If I had to choose 3 songs for a diverse party spanning generations, I’d choose:

Something by Anubian Lights – either [Way Gone Man](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RJR3wxtb9W8) or [Wild Winter](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8i1-A4IiYv4)  
Dead or Alive – [You Spin Me Round (Like a Record)](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZUatnbaNfEo)  
Frank Sinatra – [Come Fly With Me](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_j1KGHOvSkM)

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To cast a wide net:

“Oh What a Night (December '63)” --The Four Seasons

“Any way you Want it” --Journey

“Thriller” --MJ

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“Crazy” - Gnarls Barkley  
“Surrender” - Cheap Trick  
“Soul Finger” - Bar Kays

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[Trouble Funk – “Let’s Get Small”](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aB6K1lw3t-M)

[The Heavy – “How You Like Me Now?”](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wv7_EKme6lA)

[Eagles of Death Metal – “Chase the Devil”](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QaKt4d2l5qo)

Bonus: the album version of [Andre Williams – “I Wanna Be Your Favorite Pajamas”](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tMVgskCjXys) (the album is titled _Silky_ and is available on iTunes)

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> [@Mean\_Mr.Mustard](#):
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> > [@Zsofia](#):
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> > Everybody loves “Shout”.
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> Incorrect.  
> mmm

Why do you hate America?

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> [@Zsofia](#):
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> Everybody loves “Shout”.

Pretty much. I’ve been to a couple hundred weddings, and it’s interesting to see what gets people on the dancefloor. And, you know what, it’s always the same songs. DJs that try to stray from the predictable party songs and venture into indie or techno territory usually end up with empty dancefloors, precisely because you’re catering to so many different groups.

“Shout” is one of those songs that gets everyone going. As is “Twist and Shout.”

Other perennial favorites (that have not been mentioned):

I’ll give you three relatively older tunes:  
Van Morrison’s “Brown Eyed Girl”  
The Commodore’s “Brick House”  
Madonna’s “Like a Prayer”

And three from the last decade or so:  
Kanye’s “Gold Digger”  
Outkast’s “Hey Ya”  
Lady Gaga’s “Poker Face” (or any of a number of her tunes.)

Oh, and a couple of 80s hair metal/hard rock tunes always seem to get a wide variety of people going. Try Bon Jovi’s “Living on a Prayer,” Motley Crue’s “Kickstart My Heart,” and Def Leppard’s “Pour Some Sugar On Me.” Also, any AC/DC.

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Dancing in the Streets - Martha & the Vandellas or Van Halen, take your pick.  
(Bring over some of them old) Motown Records - Rod Stewart  
Good Love - Young Rascals

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Sorry, I can’t count:

Barry White- You’re The First, The Last, My Everything  
Beatles- Twist and Shout  
Beatles- I Saw Her Standing There  
Black Eyed Peas- Hey Mama  
Brian Setzer Orchestra- Jump, Jive & Wail  
Cheap Trick- I Want You To Want Me  
Commodores- Brick House  
Deee-Lite- Groove Is In The Heart  
Dion- Runaround Sue  
Elvis Presley- A Little Less Conversation  
Foundations- Build Me Up Buttercup  
Four Seasons- December 1963 (Oh, What A Night)  
Frank Sinatra The Way You Look tonight  
Frank Sinatra Fly Me To The Moon  
Gap Band- You Dropped A Bomb On Me  
Hot Chocolate- You Sexy Thing  
Jackson 5- ABC  
Kanye West Feat. Jamie Foxx- Gold Digger (the clean version)  
MC Rob Bass & DJ Easy Rock- It Takes Two  
Michael Jackson- Don’t Stop 'Til You Get Enough  
Modern English- I Melt With You  
No Doubt- Hey Baby  
Outkast- The Way You Move  
Peter Gabriel- In Your Eyes  
Ray Charles- The Mess Around  
Santana Feat. Rob Thomas- Smooth  
Spinners- The Rubberband Man  
Sugar Hill Gang- Apache- Jump On It  
Temptations- Ain’t Too Proud To Beg  
Temptations- My Girl  
U2- Beautiful Day  
UB40- Red Red Wine  
Van Morrison- Moondance  
Violent Femmes- Blister In The Sun  
Wild Cherry- Play That Funky Music  
Will Smith- Miami

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“Bust A Move” - Young MC  
“Higher Ground” - Stevie Wonder  
“Once In A Lifetime” - Talking Heads

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Hips don’t lie- Shakira  
hold me now - Thompson twins  
chicken dance  
macarena  
if I had a million dollars -Barenaked ladies  
la bamba  
jai ho - slumdog millionaire st

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The Syndicate of Sound - Little Girl  
Beck - Debra  
The Divine Comedy - At the Indie Disco

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Jai Ho (from Slumdog Millionaire)  
I Want You (Chica Cherry Cola) - Savage Garden  
Dreamland-Sxip Shirey (I like “I Live in New York City” better, but it has non family friendly language)

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> [@corkboard](#):
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> [snipped suggestions]

Yep. That’s pretty much a standard wedding setlist you got there. 🙂 I know it’s boring, trite, overdone, but it works.

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> [@Sunshine\_and\_Smiles](#):
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> [Darwin Deez - Radar Detector](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8pbdLqTh_x4)  
> .

Thank you so much. I’d never heard of Darwin Deez and now I love him and you.

Oh - how about - [Chicken Payback - The Bees](http://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=the+bees+chicken+payback&aq=1)

MiM

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[Ready to Go](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G3BmxjhmN20) – Republica  
[Don and Dewey](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aoz4aNwIB5w) – It’s a Beautiful Day  
[Horizontal Bop](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JbmxmGMuVQo) – Bob Seger

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> [@pulykamell](#):
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> > [@corkboard](#):
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> Yep. That’s pretty much a standard wedding setlist you got there. 🙂 I know it’s boring, trite, overdone, but it works.

Pretty much, yeah. But what weddings have that my list doesn’t are all the songs that have been completely overdone to death at weddings- Celebration (K&theG), the Macarena, the chicken dance, It’s Raining Men, I Will Survive, Love Shack, Ole Time R&R, The Electric Slide, YMCA, and so on- can’t stand 'em.

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