# Please advise me how to live with someone who has quit smoking.

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/please-advise-me-how-to-live-with-someone-who-has-quit-smoking/845501>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [December 28, 2019, 5:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/please-advise-me-how-to-live-with-someone-who-has-quit-smoking/845501 "2019-12-28T05:48:50Z")\
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**Author:** ![Jackmannii](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jackmannii/32/311_2.png) [@Jackmannii](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jackmannii)\
**Post date:** [May 4, 2020, 4:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/please-advise-me-how-to-live-with-someone-who-has-quit-smoking/845501/21 "2020-05-04T16:00:43Z")

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> [@DummyGladHands](#):
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> I am the OP & we’re doing better. We did have a come to JEEZUS meeting at about 6 mos. & He’s doing better with trying not being snappy.

Good to hear.

While previous advice on instituting nicotine replacement therapy for someone six months out from quitting was problematic, the suggestion to take up vaping for a person already suffering from chronic lung disease was worse.

[https://www.nejm.org/vaping](https://www.nejm.org/vaping)

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**Author:** ![DCnDC](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dcndc/32/2842_2.png) [@DCnDC](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DCnDC)\
**Post date:** [May 4, 2020, 4:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/please-advise-me-how-to-live-with-someone-who-has-quit-smoking/845501/22 "2020-05-04T16:10:05Z")

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> [@flatlined](#):
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> Six months seems to be a long time to be a jerk after quitting. I was only at a pack a day, but I stopped being a total bitch after a couple of weeks and then moved back to normal bitch mode after about a month.

I believe it. It’s one thing to make the choice yourself; it’s entirely another to have it forced upon you and have to quit totally and immediately.

I can’t imagine quitting without having actually made that choice. It was hard enough doing it willingly, and being able to taper off on my own schedule.

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**Author:** ![Turble](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/8dc957/32.png) [@Turble](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Turble)\
**Post date:** [May 5, 2020, 2:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/please-advise-me-how-to-live-with-someone-who-has-quit-smoking/845501/23 "2020-05-05T14:27:46Z")

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It is truly shameful that the medical community is still spreading this garbage. Nicotine e-cigs have nothing to do with the EVALI deaths; they were caused by chemical contaminants in black market THC devices.

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