This is one of the most frustrating threads I’ve taken part in!
I realise this is a long thread with long posts, but for those joining us, here’s my main point:
Even rational bidders can get sniped.
Consider, I enter an auction, and have the following prices in mind:
A lower bound, L, under which I would definitely buy the item without hesitation.
An upper bound, U, after which I would definitely refuse to buy / walk away.
L is not adjacent to U; they’re actually separated by, say, 20%.
An average price, A, which will usually be between my L and U.
The problem with bidding U is that you are bidding what you consider to be over the odds. As a regular strategy, it could be very costly. Most people would prefer to just be sniped now and then.
And the problem with bidding below U is that you are vulnerable to sniping.