# Please leave me out of your kink, or a horrifying breach of public restroom etiquette **URL:** \ **Category:** The BBQ Pit\ **Created:** [August 28, 2023, 9:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/please-leave-me-out-of-your-kink-or-a-horrifying-breach-of-public-restroom-etiquette/989247 "2023-08-28T21:43:18Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 4
**Author:** ![Eric1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/3bc359/32.png) [@Eric1](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Eric1)\ **Post date:** [August 31, 2023, 5:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/please-leave-me-out-of-your-kink-or-a-horrifying-breach-of-public-restroom-etiquette/989247/61 "2023-08-31T05:14:30Z")
Two years ago I had pushed in the code to a one-staller at Stater Bros and opened the door. Unfortunately there were two people who hadn’t locked the door, didn’t hear me pushing the buttons and were undressed for sex. I was gasping for breath more than they were but that was from shock. ---
**Author:** ![Eric1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/3bc359/32.png) [@Eric1](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Eric1)\ **Post date:** [August 31, 2023, 5:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/please-leave-me-out-of-your-kink-or-a-horrifying-breach-of-public-restroom-etiquette/989247/62 "2023-08-31T05:18:47Z")
I’m just glad I didn’t have my nephews weren’t with me, wouldn’t have been able to clean out the thought with Lysol or bleach ---
**Author:** ![Son\_of\_a\_Rich](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/son_of_a_rich/32/5439_2.png) [@Son\_of\_a\_Rich](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Son_of_a_Rich)\ **Post date:** [September 2, 2023, 12:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/please-leave-me-out-of-your-kink-or-a-horrifying-breach-of-public-restroom-etiquette/989247/63 "2023-09-02T12:33:17Z")
> [@pulykamell](#): > > But sometimes, I think it’s just a matter of needing to rub one out. Sex drive can be quite high for some people. There were at least a couple teenaged boys (no, not me) caught masturbating in the bathroom in my high school, and I wouldn’t call that a kink so much as being teenaged boys bubbling over in pubescent excitement. Did they ever live it down? Despite everybody doing it, getting caught can be (I imagine) traumatic. And kids can be ruthless assholes (_that_ I don’t have to imagine). ---
**Author:** ![pulykamell](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/pulykamell/32/3166_2.png) [@pulykamell](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pulykamell)\ **Post date:** [September 2, 2023, 2:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/please-leave-me-out-of-your-kink-or-a-horrifying-breach-of-public-restroom-etiquette/989247/64 "2023-09-02T14:15:11Z")
I remember him being kind of teased about it for a week or so, but didn’t hear much about it after the fact. I wasn’t in his circle of friends, so I’m guessing his friends probably razzed him about it. but he didn’t get the school wide reputation of being the bathroom masturbator that I remember. It was mostly forgotten. ---
**Author:** ![MandaJo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ac91a4/32.png) [@MandaJo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MandaJo)\ **Post date:** [September 2, 2023, 3:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/please-leave-me-out-of-your-kink-or-a-horrifying-breach-of-public-restroom-etiquette/989247/65 "2023-09-02T15:26:48Z")
> [@Chef\_Troy](#): > > I think Chela was under the impression that I was having a phone conversation while using a bathroom and was rightly disapproving of that sort of behavior, although that wasn’t what I was doing. Probably it was supposed to read “… you went to the local fucking food store, [went into] their public and second-most-disgusting stall, and…” It could be that. But on this board, its come up that sone people find pooping in public restrooms to be barbaric and rude, absent dire emergency. It turns out some people have a hour or more window during which they could go, but don’t have to, and others have a window meaured in minutes. The former sometimes feel like people should finish their grocery shopping and then go home and do their business. The latter think that’s maddness. There’s also people who are so regular that they can just coordinate their eating to as to avoid needing to use a publc restroom for defecation, prett much ever, and they sometimes think that’s a common courtesy everyone should extend to the world. ---
**Author:** ![puzzlegal](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/puzzlegal/32/3827_2.png) [@puzzlegal](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/puzzlegal)\ **Post date:** [September 7, 2023, 5:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/please-leave-me-out-of-your-kink-or-a-horrifying-breach-of-public-restroom-etiquette/989247/66 "2023-09-07T17:52:24Z")
> [@MandaJo](#): > > others have a window meaured in minutes. Speaking as someone who has suffered from this since having kids, yeah, I’m going to use that public restroom to poop, thank you very much. (My problem isn’t that I’ll poop my pants, but that i can get uncomfortably constipated if i don’t go when the urge hits me. So i could avoid doing it in public restrooms, but I’d pay for that. It’s a toilet. It’s designed for pooping. You can cope. I never had that problem before having children. It’s extremely annoying. But so be it.) ---
**Author:** ![Omar\_Little](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/omar_little/32/269_2.png) [@Omar\_Little](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Omar_Little)\ **Post date:** [September 18, 2023, 10:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/please-leave-me-out-of-your-kink-or-a-horrifying-breach-of-public-restroom-etiquette/989247/67 "2023-09-18T22:32:27Z")
Did the employee wash his hands when he was done? ---
**Author:** ![Al128](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/al128/32/16541_2.png) [@Al128](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Al128)\ **Post date:** [September 18, 2023, 11:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/please-leave-me-out-of-your-kink-or-a-horrifying-breach-of-public-restroom-etiquette/989247/68 "2023-09-18T23:00:00Z")
no, he headed straight back into Delicatessen [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/please-leave-me-out-of-your-kink-or-a-horrifying-breach-of-public-restroom-etiquette/989247.md?page=3)