No, you’re definitely not alone, although personally I’m not on your Rao team. I know it’s frequently been highly rated, and I know the restaurant has a stellar reputation (no idea if what they serve in the restaurant resembles the mass-market sauce). But I’m not very fond of the Rao sauce, but that’s a very subjective personal opinion that apparently many disagree with. I also dislike the vast majority of pasta sauces found in the supermarket. In fact I have on occasion poured a supposedly “premium” brand down the sink after tasting it.
There are currently two brands of pasta sauce that I like. One is store-made by Pusateri’s, an upscale Italian grocery, the simple version that I always buy they simply call Semplice and it’s basic but deeply mellow and totally delicious. I don’t have any at the moment so can’t give you the ingredients list.
The other is Stefano brand sauce, which has the quality of coming from Montreal, Canada’s food mecca. There are two varieties that I quite like, the marinara and, just for a change, the sausage & mushroom variety.
The marinara lists the ingredients as Italian whole peeled tomatoes, crushed tomatoes, extra virgin olive oil, garlic, onions, sea salt, and herbs.
The sausage and mushroom sauce lists the ingredients as Italian whole peeled tomatoes, mild Italian sausage, crushed tomatoes, mushrooms, onions, sea salt, garlic, spices, citric acid, and herbs.
Of course the secret is all in the quality of the ingredients, the preparation, quantities, simmering, and of course “spices” and “herbs” can mean anything. But those are my two faves, with perhaps a slight edge to the Pusateri’s Semplice. It’s just harder to get because it’s not locally available.