# Please stop using this word

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/please-stop-using-this-word/989043>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [August 24, 2023, 4:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/please-stop-using-this-word/989043 "2023-08-24T16:30:41Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![XOldiesJock](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/x/ec9cab/32.png) [@XOldiesJock](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/XOldiesJock)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2023, 4:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/please-stop-using-this-word/989043/1 "2023-08-24T16:30:42Z")

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**Existential.**

I see this word in writing and in speech a couple of dozen times a day, sometime twice in the same paragraph. It is an adjective that usually adds nothing to the statement being made. It has become a crutch, a cliche as overused as describing any random event as “surreal.”

Please stop using it. Thank you.

This has been today’s rant. Copies available on written request.

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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2023, 4:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/please-stop-using-this-word/989043/2 "2023-08-24T16:38:41Z")

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Hey, that was in my crossword puzzle this morning.  
I kept trying to misspell it. Took a minute.

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**Author:** ![alovem](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/b38774/32.png) [@alovem](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/alovem)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2023, 4:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/please-stop-using-this-word/989043/3 "2023-08-24T16:39:20Z")

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I’d like to see the meaning of the word trump changed from override to swindle. In the meantime, I kinda wish people would stop using it.

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**Author:** ![motu](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/motu/32/259_2.png) [@motu](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/motu)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2023, 4:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/please-stop-using-this-word/989043/4 "2023-08-24T16:48:10Z")

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**Prodigal.**

The son is prodigal because he spent all the money his Dad gave him not because he returned. Being prodigal has nothing to do with returning.

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**Author:** ![alovem](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/b38774/32.png) [@alovem](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/alovem)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2023, 4:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/please-stop-using-this-word/989043/5 "2023-08-24T16:51:00Z")

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(My) ignorance fought!

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**Author:** ![Darren\_Garrison](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/darren_garrison/32/92_2.png) [@Darren\_Garrison](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Darren_Garrison)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2023, 4:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/please-stop-using-this-word/989043/6 "2023-08-24T16:53:05Z")

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OP, you seem to be experiencing a crisis of some type. An important, formative one. Not sure what you call that…

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**Author:** ![Jophiel](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jophiel/32/66_2.png) [@Jophiel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jophiel)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2023, 4:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/please-stop-using-this-word/989043/7 "2023-08-24T16:54:03Z")

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> [@Beckdawrek](#):
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> I kept trying to misspell it. Took a minute.

You need more practice; I could misspell it in far less time than a minute.

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**Author:** ![Just\_Asking\_Questions](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/ba9def/32.png) [@Just\_Asking\_Questions](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Just_Asking_Questions)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2023, 4:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/please-stop-using-this-word/989043/8 "2023-08-24T16:56:11Z")

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> [@Darren\_Garrison](#):
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> OP, you seem to be experiencing a crisis of some type. An important, formative one. Not sure what you call that…

“It’s like I’m…aware…but…of myself.”- Barbie, having an existential crisis

Existential is a fine word, when used properly. Unlike penultimate, or literally, which have become the epi-tome of improper usages.

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**Author:** ![snowthx](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/snowthx/32/10660_2.png) [@snowthx](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/snowthx)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2023, 5:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/please-stop-using-this-word/989043/9 "2023-08-24T17:00:01Z")

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I’ll nominate **Amazing**. Not everything is amazing. Not everyone is amazed by the same thing. In fact, when someone says **Amazing** , my first reaction is to not be amazed. As you go thru your day, listen to how many times this word appears. The word is overused.

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**Author:** ![suranyi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e36b37/32.png) [@suranyi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/suranyi)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2023, 6:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/please-stop-using-this-word/989043/10 "2023-08-24T18:19:46Z")

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Even in bridge?

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**Author:** ![alovem](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/b38774/32.png) [@alovem](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/alovem)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2023, 6:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/please-stop-using-this-word/989043/11 "2023-08-24T18:20:33Z")

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Well, I’ve never played or even understood bridge, but I’d hate hearing the word there, too. 😀

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**Author:** ![Atamasama](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/atamasama/32/12961_2.png) [@Atamasama](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Atamasama)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2023, 6:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/please-stop-using-this-word/989043/12 "2023-08-24T18:21:24Z")

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I ask everyone to stop using the word **farfegnugen**.

…Okay, thank you everyone, I didn’t expect that to work so quickly.

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**Author:** ![DavidNRockies](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/davidnrockies/32/6279_2.png) [@DavidNRockies](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DavidNRockies)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2023, 6:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/please-stop-using-this-word/989043/13 "2023-08-24T18:21:49Z")

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It’s quiet in here all of the sudden.

And I’m cold.

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**Author:** ![suranyi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e36b37/32.png) [@suranyi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/suranyi)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2023, 6:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/please-stop-using-this-word/989043/14 "2023-08-24T18:29:02Z")

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This New Yorker cartoon is relevant:

> **[People Playing Cards by JC Duffy](https://fineartamerica.com/featured/people-playing-cards-jc-duffy.html)**
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> People Playing Cards Drawing by JC Duffy

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**Author:** ![alovem](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/b38774/32.png) [@alovem](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/alovem)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2023, 6:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/please-stop-using-this-word/989043/15 "2023-08-24T18:37:46Z")

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Here’s another:

> **[Too Much Trump, Trump art caricature, satire - Art of Mark Bryan](https://www.artofmarkbryan.com/too-much-trump-trump-art-caricature-satire-art-of-mark-bryan/)**
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> Too Much Trump, Trump art caricature, satire, painting, cartoon - Art of Mark Bryan, Trump exhaustion, the nightmare, trump-o-matic, twitter

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**Author:** ![John\_DiFool](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/john_difool/32/19543_2.png) [@John\_DiFool](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/John_DiFool)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2023, 6:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/please-stop-using-this-word/989043/16 "2023-08-24T18:42:51Z")

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> [@XOldiesJock](#):
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> **Existential.**
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> I see this word in writing and in speech a couple of dozen times a day, sometime twice in the same paragraph. It is an adjective that usually adds nothing to the statement being made. It has become a crutch, a cliche as overused as describing any random event as “surreal.”
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> Please stop using it. Thank you.

Another casualty of applied metaphysics.

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**Author:** ![Thudlow\_Boink](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/thudlow_boink/32/320_2.png) [@Thudlow\_Boink](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Thudlow_Boink)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2023, 6:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/please-stop-using-this-word/989043/17 "2023-08-24T18:47:51Z")

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> [@snowthx](#):
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> Not everything is amazing.

[Everything is awesome.](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Everything_Is_Awesome)

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**Author:** ![Q.Q.Switcheroo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/q.q.switcheroo/32/5713_2.png) [@Q.Q.Switcheroo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Q.Q.Switcheroo)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2023, 6:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/please-stop-using-this-word/989043/18 "2023-08-24T18:54:47Z")

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> [@DavidNRockies](#):
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> It’s quiet in here all of the sudden.
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> And I’m cold.

And there are wolves after me.

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**Author:** ![Author\_Balk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/e0b2c6/32.png) [@Author\_Balk](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Author_Balk)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2023, 7:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/please-stop-using-this-word/989043/19 "2023-08-24T19:07:10Z")

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The “people playing cards” and the “too much…” links give me pictures of kittens.  
I have a Chrome Extension called Make America Kittens Again. It changes pictures of a certain person to pictures of kittens. Much better to look at.  
And at a recent card game, I corrected others… I told them that the term is Biden now.

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**Author:** ![Atamasama](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/atamasama/32/12961_2.png) [@Atamasama](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Atamasama)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2023, 7:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/please-stop-using-this-word/989043/20 "2023-08-24T19:12:10Z")

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> [@Author\_Balk](#):
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> I have a Chrome Extension called Make America Kittens Again. It changes pictures of a certain person to pictures of kittens. Much better to look at.

It’s not working, because the People Playing Cards does not have his picture at all.

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