Pointing out one's posting style isn't conducive to teaching is not an attack on the poster.

[Skywatcher]

@C_K_Dexter_Haven

I thought we’d been through this several dozen times, but we’ll try again in very simple terms. Speaking in general, here’s the way to tell the difference:

• “You are an X” is a personal insult.
• “What you said is X” is NOT a personal insult.

There’s nothing magic about “henpecking” nor any other word (with two or three exceptions.) We are NOT going to come up with a list of words that allowed and words that are not allowed. "

ACCEPTABLE: Your post sounds like third-grade writing.
NOT ACCEPTABLE: You must have stopped your education in third grade.

ACCEPTABLE: What you said comes across like henpecking.
NOT ACCEPTABLE: You are a henpecker.

NOT FUNNY: How much henna can a henpecker peck if a henpecker could peck henna.

The second quote in the OP comes across as nutty.