# \[Politician\] would do anything for money - sexual?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/politician-would-do-anything-for-money-sexual/804293>\
**Category:** Great Debates\
**Created:** [December 12, 2017, 4:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/politician-would-do-anything-for-money-sexual/804293 "2017-12-12T16:50:43Z")\
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**Author:** ![Stanislaus](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/stanislaus/32/3391_2.png) [@Stanislaus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Stanislaus)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2017, 5:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/politician-would-do-anything-for-money-sexual/804293/61 "2017-12-13T17:09:38Z")

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Obviously, that wasn’t a sexual insult.

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**Author:** ![Fotheringay-Phipps](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/d9b06d/32.png) [@Fotheringay-Phipps](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Fotheringay-Phipps)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2017, 5:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/politician-would-do-anything-for-money-sexual/804293/62 "2017-12-13T17:11:20Z")

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Don’t wimp out now.

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**Author:** ![QuickSilver](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/quicksilver/32/7832_2.png) [@QuickSilver](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/QuickSilver)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2017, 5:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/politician-would-do-anything-for-money-sexual/804293/63 "2017-12-13T17:36:44Z")

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> [@Fotheringay-Phipps](#):
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> The sense I’m getting is that the insult itself is pretty neutral but since it’s Trump people are spinning it as sexual.
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> ISTM that Trump has a tendency to insult people with everything he can think of. But in particular to claim that people who he dislikes previously came to him begging for something (money, endorsement, jobs etc.) and are now turning on him. This has mostly been directed at men in the past (Schumer, Corker, Comey etc. etc. etc.) and I think Gillibrand is just another on that list.

I agree. And while we’re at it, let’s all pretend we’re living in a post-misogynistic era and the remark wasn’t uttered by a petty and vindictive man-child infamous for being a misogynist himself.

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**Author:** ![Stanislaus](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/stanislaus/32/3391_2.png) [@Stanislaus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Stanislaus)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2017, 5:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/politician-would-do-anything-for-money-sexual/804293/64 "2017-12-13T17:46:28Z")

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Did you consider the statement that your mother would do anything for money to be a sexual insult?

Assuming that at some point in time your mother has asked anyone for anything (charity donation? pay rise? reduction in fees on a major IT contract?), the logic of your arguments in this thread would imply that you did not. It’s just a thing that might fairly be said of anyone who has ever asked people for things. But maybe you felt that there was an unpleasant implication there. In which case, the obvious follow up is, why the difference between the two cases. Is it just female politicians who ask for things that lose the right to point out sexual insults? What about female lobbyists? Sales reps? More of a grey area there, perhaps.

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**Author:** ![QuickSilver](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/quicksilver/32/7832_2.png) [@QuickSilver](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/QuickSilver)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2017, 5:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/politician-would-do-anything-for-money-sexual/804293/65 "2017-12-13T17:56:15Z")

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> [@Fotheringay-Phipps](#):
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> According to [this source](https://ballotpedia.org/History_of_Donald_Trump%27s_political_donations):

Which makes Gillibrand what exactly?..

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**Author:** ![Fotheringay-Phipps](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/d9b06d/32.png) [@Fotheringay-Phipps](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Fotheringay-Phipps)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2017, 6:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/politician-would-do-anything-for-money-sexual/804293/66 "2017-12-13T18:01:27Z")

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> [@Stanislaus](#):
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> Did you consider the statement that your mother would do anything for money to be a sexual insult?

Context matters.

“Your mother …” is a standard insult commonly used by juvenile scumballs to impute sexual transgressions to people’s mothers, so it makes sense to assume that’s what you meant.

By contrast, as I’ve noted, accusing politicians of doing anything for money commonly has a different connotation.

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**Author:** ![Stanislaus](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/stanislaus/32/3391_2.png) [@Stanislaus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Stanislaus)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2017, 6:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/politician-would-do-anything-for-money-sexual/804293/67 "2017-12-13T18:13:15Z")

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> [@Fotheringay-Phipps](#):
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> Context matters.
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> “Your mother …” is a standard insult commonly used by juvenile scumballs to impute sexual transgressions to people’s mothers, so it makes sense to assume that’s what you meant.
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> By contrast, as I’ve noted, accusing politicians of doing anything for money commonly has a different connotation.

And what connotation does accusing women of doing anything for money commonly have?

As you say, context matters. And the context here is Donald Trump lashing out at a female politician who has offended him. Given that context, how confident are you that her gender isn’t a factor in his choice of insult?

The notion that he is utterly blind to her gender and thinking only of her job description when he says she’d come to offices begging for money and would do anything to get it seems to me far-fetched, given his well known attitudes to women and his history of using gendered and sexual insults to attack specific women who have offended him. But you’ve ruled this out. What evidence are you relying on?

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**Author:** ![Fotheringay-Phipps](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/d9b06d/32.png) [@Fotheringay-Phipps](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Fotheringay-Phipps)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2017, 6:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/politician-would-do-anything-for-money-sexual/804293/68 "2017-12-13T18:16:29Z")

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This has all been discussed already. In the event that you have anything new to add, don’t be shy. But I’m not rehashing this for you, sorry.

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**Author:** ![JohnT](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/johnt/32/15048_2.png) [@JohnT](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/JohnT)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2017, 6:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/politician-would-do-anything-for-money-sexual/804293/69 "2017-12-13T18:23:05Z")

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…Damn, wrong forum

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**Author:** ![you\_with\_the\_face](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/y/ecccb3/32.png) [@you\_with\_the\_face](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/you_with_the_face)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2017, 6:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/politician-would-do-anything-for-money-sexual/804293/70 "2017-12-13T18:23:06Z")

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> [@Fotheringay-Phipps](#):
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> [Trump sends sexually suggestive and demeaning tweet about Gillibrand](https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/post-politics/wp/2017/12/12/trump-sends-sexually-suggestive-and-demeaning-tweet-about-gillibrand/?utm_term=.68963f446979)"Would do anything for money" is a pretty standard, non-sexual, insult, and in particular when directed at politicians, whose willingness to sell their office for money is a pretty common trope.
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> ISTM that this is an example of the double standard inherent in dealing with female politicians, who are hailed as “strong” when they dish it out, but protected when they attract some return fire. And in a case when the attack can be spun into some sexist theme, all the better.

The cost of trafficking in insults is that you forfeit the benefit of the doubt when the most offensive meanings are assigned to your insults.

The real question we should be asking is not did he intend to make a sexual innuendo. The real question is what can do to get rid of Trump before we collectively forget presidents are supposed to be acting anything like this.

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**Author:** ![Stanislaus](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/stanislaus/32/3391_2.png) [@Stanislaus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Stanislaus)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2017, 6:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/politician-would-do-anything-for-money-sexual/804293/71 "2017-12-13T18:24:16Z")

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> [@Fotheringay-Phipps](#):
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> This has all been discussed already. In the event that you have anything new to add, don’t be shy. But I’m not rehashing this for you, sorry.

Oh, I think we’re good here.

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**Author:** ![Fotheringay-Phipps](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/d9b06d/32.png) [@Fotheringay-Phipps](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Fotheringay-Phipps)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2017, 6:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/politician-would-do-anything-for-money-sexual/804293/72 "2017-12-13T18:27:24Z")

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> [@JohnT](#):
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> …Damn, wrong forum

Of course, you could always try Stanislaus’ approach, and try to spin it into a serious point …

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**Author:** ![JohnT](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/johnt/32/15048_2.png) [@JohnT](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/JohnT)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2017, 6:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/politician-would-do-anything-for-money-sexual/804293/73 "2017-12-13T18:28:24Z")

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Naw, I’m good watching you make a stupid argument. Thanks, though!

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**Author:** ![Falchion](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/a88e57/32.png) [@Falchion](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Falchion)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2017, 6:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/politician-would-do-anything-for-money-sexual/804293/74 "2017-12-13T18:29:17Z")

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> [@Stanislaus](#):
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> And what connotation does accusing women of doing anything for money commonly have?

So the question is whether you see Gillibrand primarily as a Senator or a woman?

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**Author:** ![Fotheringay-Phipps](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/d9b06d/32.png) [@Fotheringay-Phipps](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Fotheringay-Phipps)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2017, 6:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/politician-would-do-anything-for-money-sexual/804293/75 "2017-12-13T18:29:52Z")

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> [@JohnT](#):
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> Naw, I’m good watching you make a stupid argument. Thanks, though!

Must have gone over your head.

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**Author:** ![QuickSilver](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/quicksilver/32/7832_2.png) [@QuickSilver](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/QuickSilver)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2017, 6:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/politician-would-do-anything-for-money-sexual/804293/76 "2017-12-13T18:38:20Z")

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> [@Fotheringay-Phipps](#):
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> Must have gone over your head.

Better than in one ear and out the other.

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**Author:** ![TroutMan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/troutman/32/6721_2.png) [@TroutMan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TroutMan)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2017, 6:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/politician-would-do-anything-for-money-sexual/804293/77 "2017-12-13T18:38:34Z")

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> [@Fotheringay-Phipps](#):
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> Must have gone over your head.

Don’t flatter yourself. We understand your point very well. It’s just a terrible point.

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**Author:** ![Fotheringay-Phipps](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/d9b06d/32.png) [@Fotheringay-Phipps](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Fotheringay-Phipps)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2017, 6:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/politician-would-do-anything-for-money-sexual/804293/78 "2017-12-13T18:44:06Z")

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> [@TroutMan](#):
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> Don’t flatter yourself. We understand your point very well.

No, I don’t think so. If you think post #73 was responsive to post #72, then you’re in the same boat.

Not to worry, though - it’s a pretty big boat.

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**Author:** ![TroutMan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/troutman/32/6721_2.png) [@TroutMan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TroutMan)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2017, 6:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/politician-would-do-anything-for-money-sexual/804293/79 "2017-12-13T18:46:14Z")

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Then it seems you’re missing the point to post #73.

See, we could play this game all day.

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**Author:** ![Stanislaus](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/stanislaus/32/3391_2.png) [@Stanislaus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Stanislaus)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2017, 6:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/politician-would-do-anything-for-money-sexual/804293/80 "2017-12-13T18:47:13Z")

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> [@Falchion](#):
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> So the question is whether you see Gillibrand primarily as a Senator or a woman?

Or perhaps whether seeing her as a Senator erases the ability to see her as a woman.

If we can hold in our head the idea that someone might be both a Senator and a woman, we might consider that an insult commonly levelled at Senators might take on an additional, more unpleasant meaning when aimed at a Senator who is also a woman.

If, on the other hand, we can only consider someone to be either a Senator or a woman at any given point in time, like one of those trick duck/rabbit pictures, we’ll be blind to this connotation.

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