# Poor woman's rich friend has been anonymously giving her financial help. Sweet or controlling? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [October 2, 2015, 9:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/poor-womans-rich-friend-has-been-anonymously-giving-her-financial-help-sweet-or-controlling/733307 "2015-10-02T21:54:51Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 57
**Author:** ![Urbanredneck](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/ea5d25/32.png) [@Urbanredneck](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Urbanredneck)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2015, 5:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/poor-womans-rich-friend-has-been-anonymously-giving-her-financial-help-sweet-or-controlling/733307/57 "2015-10-05T05:04:03Z")
> [@Lamia](#): > > Look, you have the right to fantasize about whatever you want, but I am not going to provide you with wank material about naughty coeds. There must be plenty of porn out there dealing with this sort of subject matter, and it is creepy and disturbing that instead of availing yourself of this you’re asking me to fuel your fantasy by telling tales about the students I work with. Oh I’m sure you know plenty and just keep it in your own circle of academics who sit around sipping wine and laughing at your students. Students talk. They share. They write papers revealing intimate parts of their lives. You know alot of things. It would certainly help if college was not so damn expensive or their were more scholarships offered. --- _[View the full topic](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/poor-womans-rich-friend-has-been-anonymously-giving-her-financial-help-sweet-or-controlling/733307)._