# Porn question I may regret asking

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/porn-question-i-may-regret-asking/552452>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [September 3, 2010, 12:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/porn-question-i-may-regret-asking/552452 "2010-09-03T00:44:47Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 5\
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**Author:** ![sjc](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e5b9ba/32.png) [@sjc](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/sjc)\
**Post date:** [September 8, 2010, 12:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/porn-question-i-may-regret-asking/552452/61 "2010-09-08T00:38:59Z")

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> [@purplehorseshoe](#):
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> > [@DiosaBellissima](#):
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> > I’ve never felt put down any time I’ve fucked guys with big dicks. YMMV of course.
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> I’ve never felt anything but \*\* blissfull \*\* and as soon as I read that post, before I even saw who posted it, I though, “Only a male would say something like that.” Umm … it feels good when it’s big, dude. I never thought I’d have to point that out.

I’m not so sure only a male would say that…

I will say that only a person with some serious baggage with regards to sex would say that.

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**Author:** ![purplehorseshoe](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/purplehorseshoe/32/2996_2.png) [@purplehorseshoe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/purplehorseshoe)\
**Post date:** [September 8, 2010, 3:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/porn-question-i-may-regret-asking/552452/62 "2010-09-08T15:34:54Z")

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> [@sjc](#):
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> > [@purplehorseshoe](#):
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> > I’ve never felt anything but \*\* blissfull \*\* and as soon as I read that post, before I even saw who posted it, I though, “Only a male would say something like that.” Umm … it feels good when it’s big, dude. I never thought I’d have to point that out.
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> I’m not so sure only a male would say that…
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> I will say that only a person with some serious baggage with regards to sex would say that.

Yes. You are correct. My mistake, and point taken. (My perspective was “Well, how would _you_ know what it feels like?” but again, I see your point.)

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**Author:** ![Binarydrone](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/3da27b/32.png) [@Binarydrone](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Binarydrone)\
**Post date:** [September 8, 2010, 3:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/porn-question-i-may-regret-asking/552452/63 "2010-09-08T15:48:38Z")

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> [@purplehorseshoe](#):
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> … it feels good when it’s big, dude. I never thought I’d have to point that out.

I _knew_ it!

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**Author:** ![bup](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/6bbea6/32.png) [@bup](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bup)\
**Post date:** [September 8, 2010, 3:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/porn-question-i-may-regret-asking/552452/64 "2010-09-08T15:53:39Z")

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> [@Leaffan](#):
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> But really, the actors themselves must do some self-selection. If you have a small dick, you’re less likely to be considering porn as a career. No?

I think that makes a lot of sense.

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**Author:** ![Misnomer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/misnomer/32/14897_2.png) [@Misnomer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Misnomer)\
**Post date:** [September 8, 2010, 8:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/porn-question-i-may-regret-asking/552452/65 "2010-09-08T20:54:05Z")

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> [@Bob Ducca](#):
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> I think a lot of it is imagining yourself having that big of a dick, but also, a lot of straight guys (myself included) are turned on by seeing big cocks. Dan Savage calls it being “gay from the waist down” or something like that. .
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> It’s hard to explain why they turn me on but they do.

I think it’s for the same reason that some straight chicks (myself included) can be turned on by seeing a really nice rack while having absolutely no interest in ever touching someone else’s boobs or doing anything else with a woman: human sexuality is nowhere _near_ black and white. 🙂

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