# Porn question, possibly TMI **URL:** \ **Category:** Cafe Society\ **Created:** [August 8, 2002, 12:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/porn-question-possibly-tmi/122880 "2002-08-08T00:32:58Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![WSLer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/a6a055/32.png) [@WSLer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/WSLer)\ **Post date:** [August 8, 2002, 12:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/porn-question-possibly-tmi/122880/1 "2002-08-08T00:32:58Z")
Could someone, hell anyone, please tell me what the appeal of “ass to mouth” is supposed to be? Or who it is supposed to appeal to/arouse? Similarly, what is the appeal of “bukkake?” Finally what is the deal with anal sex in porn? It’s like every vid I see ahs at least 2 anal scenes in it, and that is 2 too many. ---
**Author:** ![Revtim](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/revtim/32/1042_2.png) [@Revtim](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Revtim)\ **Post date:** [August 8, 2002, 12:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/porn-question-possibly-tmi/122880/2 "2002-08-08T00:52:17Z")
Not a butt man, I gather. ---
**Author:** ![Space\_Vampire](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e0b2c6/32.png) [@Space\_Vampire](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Space_Vampire)\ **Post date:** [August 8, 2002, 1:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/porn-question-possibly-tmi/122880/3 "2002-08-08T01:14:48Z")
The catch-all answer to these and all similar questions is “Japan.” (exactly 50% kidding.) ---
**Author:** ![Mockingbird](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c68b51/32.png) [@Mockingbird](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mockingbird)\ **Post date:** [August 8, 2002, 1:16am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/porn-question-possibly-tmi/122880/4 "2002-08-08T01:16:06Z")
Rimming and anal sex are not bad things… ---
**Author:** ![D\_Odds](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/d_odds/32/2882_2.png) [@D\_Odds](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/D_Odds)\ **Post date:** [August 8, 2002, 1:30am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/porn-question-possibly-tmi/122880/5 "2002-08-08T01:30:13Z")
My feeling is that such behavior is all about dominating and belittling women (moreso than straight sex porn). It’s a power trip, and appeals to viewers who wish they had such power over the women (if any) in their lives. ---
**Author:** ![JavaMaven1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/cab0a1/32.png) [@JavaMaven1](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/JavaMaven1)\ **Post date:** [August 8, 2002, 1:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/porn-question-possibly-tmi/122880/6 "2002-08-08T01:37:47Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by D\_Odds \* > \*\*My feeling is that such behavior is all about dominating and belittling women (moreso than straight sex porn). It’s a power trip, and appeals to viewers who wish they had such power over the women (if any) in their lives. \*\* Ummm, I’m going to go ahead and disagree on that. I’ve never seen bukkake, and I don’t intend to. As far as anal sex scenes, I would use Occam’s Razor(The simplest explanation is usually the right one) and say that the reason why they are in porn scenes is that some people simply get turned on by it. I myself have seen one or two straight porns where the anal sex and rimming aroused me. And yes, I am a butt man. ---
**Author:** ![Stoid](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/stoid/32/272_2.png) [@Stoid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Stoid)\ **Post date:** [August 8, 2002, 1:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/porn-question-possibly-tmi/122880/7 "2002-08-08T01:44:03Z")
Cuz it’s fun. ---
**Author:** ![JustPlainBryan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/57b2e6/32.png) [@JustPlainBryan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/JustPlainBryan)\ **Post date:** [August 8, 2002, 1:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/porn-question-possibly-tmi/122880/8 "2002-08-08T01:48:16Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by JavaMaven1 \* > \*\* > > Ummm, I’m going to go ahead and disagree on that. > > I’ve never seen bukkake, and I don’t intend to. As far as anal sex scenes, I would use Occam’s Razor(The simplest explanation is usually the right one) and say that the reason why they are in porn scenes is that some people simply get turned on by it. I myself have seen one or two straight porns where the anal sex and rimming aroused me. And yes, I am a butt man. \*\* This post was mine by the way. Lousy no good SDMB cookies… ---
**Author:** ![Genseric](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Genseric](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Genseric)\ **Post date:** [August 8, 2002, 2:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/porn-question-possibly-tmi/122880/9 "2002-08-08T02:14:43Z")
I, personally, don’t like them either, but a quick scan of Usenet tells me that these things are very, very, very popular, so presumably they are produced in such large quantity because there is a large market for them. There’s no accounting for taste. While I am a big fan of vaginal sex, there are several things I find arousing, that I know most other men do not, so I can understand, even if I don’t agree. ---
**Author:** ![LolaCocaCola](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/7cd45c/32.png) [@LolaCocaCola](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LolaCocaCola)\ **Post date:** [August 8, 2002, 2:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/porn-question-possibly-tmi/122880/10 "2002-08-08T02:19:17Z")
Is a bukkake a doody moustache? I don’t get the arousal factor on that one. ---
**Author:** ![WSLer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/a6a055/32.png) [@WSLer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/WSLer)\ **Post date:** [August 8, 2002, 2:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/porn-question-possibly-tmi/122880/11 "2002-08-08T02:23:51Z")
D odds, Yeah, I think it is about dominating women, **especially** the bukkake shit. How that can be arousing is both beyond me and isturbing. Might as well have 45 guys pissing in a girls face. (Yeah, I’m sure there is a video of **that** available for rent. Hastur, I never said that they were bad things. Completely unappealing or arousing to me personally and a bit disturbing, bukkake especially, but I wouldn;t consider them bad. ---
**Author:** ![peasea](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/bc79bd/32.png) [@peasea](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/peasea)\ **Post date:** [August 8, 2002, 2:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/porn-question-possibly-tmi/122880/12 "2002-08-08T02:32:44Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by LolaCocaCola \* > \*\*Is a bukkake a doody moustache? > \*\* No, but good guess, I guess. It’s basically a cumshot on steroids. Multiple men involved, and the object is to douse the woman completely. ---
**Author:** ![Soul\_Brother\_Number\_Two](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/soul_brother_number_two/32/3515_2.png) [@Soul\_Brother\_Number\_Two](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Soul_Brother_Number_Two)\ **Post date:** [August 8, 2002, 4:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/porn-question-possibly-tmi/122880/13 "2002-08-08T04:48:23Z")
You’re thinking about a Dirty Sanchez, Lola. Go to Google and search on ‘Britney Spears Dirty Sanchez.’ Damn funny. ---
**Author:** ![kevja](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/aeb1de/32.png) [@kevja](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kevja)\ **Post date:** [August 8, 2002, 4:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/porn-question-possibly-tmi/122880/14 "2002-08-08T04:52:56Z")
this is kind of one of those … if you need an explantion, none will suffice, and if you’re into it, well, there is no reason or explanation, you’re just into it. ---
**Author:** ![KneadToKnow](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kneadtoknow/32/3999_2.png) [@KneadToKnow](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/KneadToKnow)\ **Post date:** [August 8, 2002, 1:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/porn-question-possibly-tmi/122880/15 "2002-08-08T13:05:16Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by peasea \* > the object is to douse the woman completely. If you are sexually aroused by [Pizza the Hutt](http://us.imdb.com/Details?0094012), you should probably give bukkake a shot. I like a good cum shot, but bukkake turns my stomach. ---
**Author:** ![D\_Odds](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/d_odds/32/2882_2.png) [@D\_Odds](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/D_Odds)\ **Post date:** [August 8, 2002, 1:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/porn-question-possibly-tmi/122880/16 "2002-08-08T13:12:30Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by JustPlainBryan disguised as JavaMaven1 \* > Ummm, I’m going to go ahead and disagree on that. > > I’ve never seen bukkake, and I don’t intend to. As far as anal sex scenes, I would use Occam’s Razor(The simplest explanation is usually the right one) and say that the reason why they are in porn scenes is that some people simply get turned on by it. I myself have seen one or two straight porns where the anal sex and rimming aroused me. And yes, I am a butt man. I’ll admit to _maybe_ going overboard on my second sentence, but I stick with the first, especially with bukkake. It’s about humiliation. ---
**Author:** ![Otto](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/bbe5ce/32.png) [@Otto](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Otto)\ **Post date:** [August 8, 2002, 1:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/porn-question-possibly-tmi/122880/17 "2002-08-08T13:52:29Z")
Having never seen a hetero “bukkake” scene, I have to ask, how many men have to be cumming on the woman before it becomes “humiliation”? Presumably one man cumming on one woman is not humiliation. Is two men? Three? What’s the cutoff point? ---
**Author:** ![blinx](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/a5b964/32.png) [@blinx](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/blinx)\ **Post date:** [August 8, 2002, 2:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/porn-question-possibly-tmi/122880/18 "2002-08-08T14:30:01Z")
Hell, I don’t even get all the penis sucking that goes on in porn, doesn’t turn me on the slightest. Maybe the real thing would, but seeing it done to someone else? No thanks, pass the remote so I can fast forward please… ---
**Author:** ![Skywatcher](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/skywatcher/32/254_2.png) [@Skywatcher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Skywatcher)\ **Post date:** [August 8, 2002, 4:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/porn-question-possibly-tmi/122880/19 "2002-08-08T16:59:01Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by blinx \* > \*\*Maybe the real thing would, but seeing it done to someone else? No thanks, pass the remote so I can fast forward please… \*\* I’ll go one step beyond that. I have my own dick and no need to see anyone else’s, or what they do with it for that matter. ---
**Author:** ![Genseric](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Genseric](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Genseric)\ **Post date:** [August 9, 2002, 2:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/porn-question-possibly-tmi/122880/20 "2002-08-09T02:10:14Z")
What’s up with the guy putting his hand or hands on the girls throat, like he’s choking her? (He’s generally not (at least in the ones I’ve seen), I mean she doesn’t seem to be in distress or anything.) That seems creepy and disturbing to me. I don’t really like cumshots at all myself, not even getting to bukkake. I’ve seen quite enough of the stuff to suit me, thankyouverymuch. As a matter of fact, I don’t particularly care to see more than one guy in the video at all. To go further, I don’t even want to see the guy, but he’s fairly necessary for the sex act I’m interested in. See, when the guy is there, in the video, as long as it’s not focusing on him to much (showing his face and what not), he’s really me. More than one guy spoils it, cause then the girl is not paying as much attention to me. Yeah, I know, I’m selfish, sue me. I also hate the favorite shot of every porno director in human history, which is a shot of a couple of sweaty assholes (his and hers) and a floppy set of balls. This shot is not good, I wish they wouldn’t use it. I want to see a lot more of the woman involved. Y’know, really, based on most of the content I’ve come across [sub]sup[/sub][/sup] I don’t think I want to know anything at all about the sexual psychopathology of the average porn viewer. [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/porn-question-possibly-tmi/122880.md?page=2)