Yes, don’t worry, I’m massively kidding. It was a feminism joke.
Back to flirting, baby. You look hot in those farmer jeans. Sure would like to plow your field, honey.
I am a feminist. I believe that while many women don’t consider themselves as such, they really are. First wave feminists opened the doors for us. We still have a ways to go (still fighting pay gaps, glass ceiling, etc), but in this day and age I think feminism mostly revolves around choice. Choice being the fact that we are able to make our own choices. My mom considers herself a feminist, despite cooking dinner for my step dad every night. I consider myself a feminist but I would love to be a stay at home mom some day, etc. It opened the doors for us to make these choices—There is nothing wrong with wanting to embrace a gender role if it’s what YOU want to do. My beef is with feminists who attack me for wanting that lifestyle later on, who are a part of Le Leche’s pro-breast feeding advocacy group where they basically belittle women who cannot/choose not to breast feed, etc. Try not to create a matriarchy that is as equally as bad as the patriarchy you complain about so often!
Also, while I don’t believe a rape culture exists, I DO believe that we are very lenient about rape—jokes, permissions, victim blaming/slut shaming, etc. I think we need to be less separated and desensitized about it, much like many other aspects of our culture (violence, gore, war, death, etc).