# Posted a Snopes link debunking a Facebook post - unfriended?

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**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [August 14, 2015, 2:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/posted-a-snopes-link-debunking-a-facebook-post-unfriended/727803 "2015-08-14T02:44:35Z")\
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**Author:** ![Czarcasm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/czarcasm/32/4050_2.png) [@Czarcasm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Czarcasm)\
**Post date:** [August 14, 2015, 4:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/posted-a-snopes-link-debunking-a-facebook-post-unfriended/727803/41 "2015-08-14T16:55:43Z")

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> [@Airman\_Doors\_USAF](#):
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> In some cases they try to preempt a Snopes rebuttal by posting that they did a Snopes search and the story came back 100% accurate.

I had someone do this once, and I posted back “I am defriending you, not for posting glurge without bothering to check to see if it was true, but for lying about doing a Snopes search about it. Here is a link to the _real_ Snopes article showing this to be 100% wrong. Goodbye.”  
Before I unfriended her, 5 people called me names like “hater”…but three others followed my lead.

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**Author:** ![Antinor01](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ecae2f/32.png) [@Antinor01](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Antinor01)\
**Post date:** [August 14, 2015, 5:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/posted-a-snopes-link-debunking-a-facebook-post-unfriended/727803/42 "2015-08-14T17:07:39Z")

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I figure if they’re going to unfriend me over providing factual information, I didn’t really need them as a friend anyway.

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**Author:** ![Projammer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/projammer/32/559_2.png) [@Projammer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Projammer)\
**Post date:** [August 14, 2015, 5:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/posted-a-snopes-link-debunking-a-facebook-post-unfriended/727803/43 "2015-08-14T17:18:49Z")

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The last one I responded to was about how there were 317 million people in the US and we spent 360 million introducing Obamacare. Should have just given each citizen a million bucks. I pointed out that the math only works out to $1.14 per person.

I tactfully did not mention that she’s married to a college math professor.

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**Author:** ![AncientHumanoid](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ancienthumanoid/32/278_2.png) [@AncientHumanoid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AncientHumanoid)\
**Post date:** [August 14, 2015, 5:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/posted-a-snopes-link-debunking-a-facebook-post-unfriended/727803/44 "2015-08-14T17:33:47Z")

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> [@Bill\_Door](#):
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> It will actually be almost twice as big as the moon, 6787 kilometers in diameter, the same size it always is. It’s a lot further away though. It’ll look like a dot in the sky.

How far away would it need to be to look like a croquette ball going through the St Louis Arch?

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**Author:** ![BubbaDog](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bubbadog/32/333_2.png) [@BubbaDog](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BubbaDog)\
**Post date:** [August 14, 2015, 5:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/posted-a-snopes-link-debunking-a-facebook-post-unfriended/727803/45 "2015-08-14T17:46:54Z")

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I may have lost a few friends but don’t really care. If you’re going to post inflammatory bullshit you should be called out on it. I posted a Snopes reply last week and apparently it was to a friend who appreciated the heads up.

> [@Just\_Asking\_Questions](#):
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> Wow! is that true? is that am or pm? If I don’t get to look until 12:31 will I have missed it? Will we be able to see the Mars rovers?

Excellent post/username example!

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**Author:** ![That\_Don\_Guy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/that_don_guy/32/538_2.png) [@That\_Don\_Guy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/That_Don_Guy)\
**Post date:** [August 14, 2015, 6:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/posted-a-snopes-link-debunking-a-facebook-post-unfriended/727803/46 "2015-08-14T18:04:29Z")

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I pretty much make it a point to debunk things, whether on Facebook or when I hear a coworker’s conversation. On Facebook, I always reply, “DEBUNKED by Snopes,” followed by a link to the appropriate Snopes page. I don’t think anybody has complained.

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**Author:** ![ivylass](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/9de053/32.png) [@ivylass](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ivylass)\
**Post date:** [August 14, 2015, 6:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/posted-a-snopes-link-debunking-a-facebook-post-unfriended/727803/47 "2015-08-14T18:36:42Z")

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I unfriended someone, but not because she debunked me.

She was posting a link to the story of the Charleston church shooting (Dylan Roof), and how it appeared he was being perpwalked without being handcuffed. (He was handcuffed, but a man in front has his arm up, so you can’t tell) and claimed it was proof once again of white superiority. I posted TWICE that it was wrong, and the person who had initially tweeted it had to recant. She deleted my correction post each time.

I said, “Screw it” and unfriended her. She wants to wallow in her ignorance, go ahead. I don’t need to see it.

For the most part people are appreciative.

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**Author:** ![Chimera](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/8e8cbc/32.png) [@Chimera](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chimera)\
**Post date:** [August 14, 2015, 7:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/posted-a-snopes-link-debunking-a-facebook-post-unfriended/727803/48 "2015-08-14T19:01:14Z")

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Yeah, that once every 834 years thing is so idiotic. Had a reasonably intelligent (IT worker) guy I know post that. Was absolutely astonished it would come from him.

I pointing out that this would happen in any 31 day month beginning on a Friday, which should happen, oh, once ever 7 years on average for each particular month. At that point he became the butt of the joke from his other friends until he deleted it later that day.

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**Author:** ![sciurophobic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/cab0a1/32.png) [@sciurophobic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/sciurophobic)\
**Post date:** [August 14, 2015, 8:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/posted-a-snopes-link-debunking-a-facebook-post-unfriended/727803/49 "2015-08-14T20:08:13Z")

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I’ve never unfriended someone because of what they post. I just unfollow them. I’m happier, and they’re none the wiser (not that they were that wise to begin with).

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**Author:** ![BobLibDem](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/boblibdem/32/3149_2.png) [@BobLibDem](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BobLibDem)\
**Post date:** [August 14, 2015, 8:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/posted-a-snopes-link-debunking-a-facebook-post-unfriended/727803/50 "2015-08-14T20:47:54Z")

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the 834 year thing is beyond stupid. As stated above, any time a 31 day month starts on Friday it happens. Since there’s only 7 possible days to start the month and since you have 7 months with 31 days every year, well it isn’t that rare. The Mars thing comes up every year from the same people.

The political hate shit drives me nuts. Anti-Muslim, anti-Obama crap. Did you know Obama painted Air Force One with his logo on the tail? Outrageous!

Then there is the share this, each like= one prayer, each share= ten prayers. Where is that written? My Bible doesn’t include the Book of Face.

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**Author:** ![Kimballkid](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/b5a626/32.png) [@Kimballkid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kimballkid)\
**Post date:** [August 14, 2015, 8:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/posted-a-snopes-link-debunking-a-facebook-post-unfriended/727803/51 "2015-08-14T20:59:16Z")

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> [@running\_coach](#):
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> The story does claim the chairs are painted every year. Even so. :smack:

Seems a tad excessive. Once every five years or so would probably be enough.

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**Author:** ![carnut](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/carnut/32/3531_2.png) [@carnut](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/carnut)\
**Post date:** [August 14, 2015, 9:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/posted-a-snopes-link-debunking-a-facebook-post-unfriended/727803/52 "2015-08-14T21:09:34Z")

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I’ve done it a couple of times and have been thanked. But there are some people that I know won’t thank me so I don’t post responses that link to the doubted commentary. When I see that type of person on my FB, I tend to just unfollow them so their loony-toon-bandwagon posts don’t irritate me. That way, they still see me as a friend and aren’t offended themselves.

But I have also been unfriended for posting on political topics. So be it.

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**Author:** ![Monty](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/monty/32/47_2.png) [@Monty](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Monty)\
**Post date:** [August 14, 2015, 11:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/posted-a-snopes-link-debunking-a-facebook-post-unfriended/727803/53 "2015-08-14T23:20:13Z")

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I just saw on my brother-in-law’s Facebook that he reposted that hoax about Dell and some rapist. Why can’t people check things first?

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**Author:** ![Cazzle](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cazzle/32/75_2.png) [@Cazzle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cazzle)\
**Post date:** [August 14, 2015, 11:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/posted-a-snopes-link-debunking-a-facebook-post-unfriended/727803/54 "2015-08-14T23:37:44Z")

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There’s a setting that allows you to hide people from your feed. It doesn’t unfriend them, it just means you don’t see the glurge/whinging/racism unless you click through to their profile to read it.

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**Author:** ![Guinastasia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guinastasia/32/5751_2.png) [@Guinastasia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Guinastasia)\
**Post date:** [August 15, 2015, 1:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/posted-a-snopes-link-debunking-a-facebook-post-unfriended/727803/55 "2015-08-15T01:58:54Z")

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I’ve found it helps if I put it like, “I looked it up, and fortunately, it’s not true.” Most people seem to be relieved that way.

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**Author:** ![Rushgeekgirl](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/rushgeekgirl/32/3715_2.png) [@Rushgeekgirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rushgeekgirl)\
**Post date:** [August 16, 2015, 4:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/posted-a-snopes-link-debunking-a-facebook-post-unfriended/727803/56 "2015-08-16T16:25:00Z")

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I have gotten the “Snopes is run by socialist liberals who will cover up anything they disagree with!” more than an an un-friending. Well, as far as I know anyway. I don’t really do Facebook anymore expressly because I’ve found that I have no desire to know just how racist/bigoted/ignorant many of my old friends/family members are.

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**Author:** ![gaffa](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/e68b1a/32.png) [@gaffa](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gaffa)\
**Post date:** [August 16, 2015, 5:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/posted-a-snopes-link-debunking-a-facebook-post-unfriended/727803/57 "2015-08-16T17:31:42Z")

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> [@Rushgeekgirl](#):
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> I have gotten the “Snopes is run by socialist liberals who will cover up anything they disagree with!” more than an an un-friending. Well, as far as I know anyway. I don’t really do Facebook anymore expressly because I’ve found that I have no desire to know just how racist/bigoted/ignorant many of my old friends/family members are.

I know! People are shocked that I refuse to have a personal Facebook account. I don’t have one specifically because I’d rather not know how moronic some of my family is. It makes Thanksgiving and Christmas gatherings much less tense. Instead, I can just explain “No, I don’t do Facebook.”

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**Author:** ![running\_coach](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/running_coach/32/15836_2.png) [@running\_coach](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/running_coach)\
**Post date:** [August 16, 2015, 5:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/posted-a-snopes-link-debunking-a-facebook-post-unfriended/727803/58 "2015-08-16T17:36:15Z")

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> [@Rushgeekgirl](#):
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> **I have gotten the "Snopes is run by socialist liberals** who will cover up anything they disagree with!" more than an an un-friending. Well, as far as I know anyway. I don’t really do Facebook anymore expressly because I’ve found that I have no desire to know just how racist/bigoted/ignorant many of my old friends/family members are.

That’s sort of right. They’re Canadian. 😃

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**Author:** ![digs](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/digs/32/14889_2.png) [@digs](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/digs)\
**Post date:** [August 16, 2015, 8:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/posted-a-snopes-link-debunking-a-facebook-post-unfriended/727803/59 "2015-08-16T20:19:44Z")

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> [@GrumpyBunny](#):
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> …If someone wants to believe that a military ghost was hitchhiking and brought two lonely young people together over an adorable lost puppy, that’s fine by me.

My mom’s comment after I sent a Snopes link debunking her latest glurge:

> [@](#):
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> “Well, I don’t know if the things I send you are true or not. But they should be!”

My response:

> [@](#):
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> :smack:

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**Author:** ![Avarie537](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/48db29/32.png) [@Avarie537](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Avarie537)\
**Post date:** [August 16, 2015, 11:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/posted-a-snopes-link-debunking-a-facebook-post-unfriended/727803/60 "2015-08-16T23:14:19Z")

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Any time I see debunkable BS, I point it out.

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