Right, but the rich usually have at least ten shots at missing the right door, while the poor are lucky if they have one or two shots.
Luck is on the side of the rich because they are surrounded by more opportunities through no effort on their own.
Get away from thinking about yourself. Think on a social level. Yes, the winners have to go to class. Yes, they have to make the most of their opportunity. Yes, you have to actually take an opportunity in order for it to do you any good.
But are these opportunities distributed evenly throughout society? If you misjudge and fail to take an opportunity that could have taken you on the path to accomplishment, how likely is it that you’ll have a second or third chance? Do you think that likelihood is the same irrespective of what class you’re in?
How would my ex-BF know that by signing up for Mrs. Feinberg’s dance class, he would be positioing himself for a better tomorrow? There’s no way he could have predicted the implications of that decision, especially as a silly, unfocused, sex-deprived teenager. All he knew was that wanted an easy A and goof around to music every other day. Really.
“Make your own luck” sounds like one of those trite sayings that repeatedly get trotted out whenever we talk about social inequality. I don’t even need to point out that it is meaningless, because it’s an oxymoron.
When I hear “make your own luck”, I envision a fat rich man, soon to inherit to his daddy’s multi-million corporation, saying that to a guy who is about to lose his house due to chronic unemployment.
Opportunities that arise from random crossing of paths occur rather frequently. One of the reasons I have the job I do now can be traced back to a random encounter I had years ago with someone with clout who took an interest in me because of a commonality. In the absence of that encounter (and commonality), I would have been at a distinct disadvantage when later applying for a new position that later popped up. And that’s assuming I would have ever learned of that new position. The person forwarded me the vacacy announcement and encouraged me to submit my CV. Would have never happened if circumstances hadn’t allowed me to communicate with them on some random work task.
A fact that no one has denied. If changing the odds was impossible, I wouldn’t be talking about this, because it would be too sad and hopeless of a subject.
Yes, the God-did-it hypothesis. If it’s God’s divine plan, though, such a strange thing that Jesus went on record saying this: