# Prayers for Haydeet **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [May 15, 2010, 2:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/prayers-for-haydeet/539499 "2010-05-15T02:03:44Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![newcrasher](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/b3f665/32.png) [@newcrasher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/newcrasher)\ **Post date:** [May 15, 2010, 2:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/prayers-for-haydeet/539499/1 "2010-05-15T02:03:44Z")
There is a 16 year old Salvadoran girl at my church named Haydeet. She got very sick last week an was admitted to the hospital. They found a mass on her pancreas, which was probably cancerous. Last I heard the pathology was not in. They removed it monday, but it was wrapped around a major artery, which was damaged in the surgery. Tuesday night she started bleeding internally. He hemoglogin count went down to 5. She is on medication to raise her blood presure, but it constricts the distal blood vessels so much that she may lose fingers and toes. However that is the least of her problems. She is in heart, liver, and kidney failure. She weighed 105 pounds. To increase her blood pressure they have pumped over 50 pounds of fluid into her. She is bloated and unrecognizeable. To keep her from bucking the ventilator she is chemically paralyzed. Her blood pressure is so perilously low that they dare not give her much pain medicine. She is suffering terribly. She cannot even blink. Her eyes are covered in a moisturizing cream to keep them from drying out. So she lays there struggling but unable to cry out. Tonight the doctors gave her less than 10% chance of survival. The family is devastated. Without a miracle they will move to paliative care in the next several hours. She is in a fantastic hospital in Richmond, VA. While there is life, there is hope. Please send your prayers, good vibes, and good wishes her way. Her family is very poor. If there is a funeral, I may post a request on here to see if anyone wants to help. I wil l keep anyone interested posted. ---
**Author:** ![Salem](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/8c91f0/32.png) [@Salem](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Salem)\ **Post date:** [May 15, 2010, 2:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/prayers-for-haydeet/539499/2 "2010-05-15T02:09:12Z")
Prayers, good thoughts, healing wishes-- all of it sent her way. How horrible for her and her family. Thank you for sharing her story and please post updates. ---
**Author:** ![Ann\_Onimous](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ea5d25/32.png) [@Ann\_Onimous](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ann_Onimous)\ **Post date:** [May 15, 2010, 2:53am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/prayers-for-haydeet/539499/3 "2010-05-15T02:53:32Z")
Lots of prayers being sent from here. ---
**Author:** ![Magiver](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/4491bb/32.png) [@Magiver](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Magiver)\ **Post date:** [May 15, 2010, 8:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/prayers-for-haydeet/539499/4 "2010-05-15T20:38:12Z")
Just so you know, there are plenty of prayers out there but the situation described is so horrible that it’s hard to even reply to it. Prayers and hope for something good. ---
**Author:** ![yoyodyne](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/y/a9a28c/32.png) [@yoyodyne](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/yoyodyne)\ **Post date:** [May 15, 2010, 11:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/prayers-for-haydeet/539499/5 "2010-05-15T23:23:37Z")
“God moves in a mysterious way his wonders to perform…” ---
**Author:** ![newcrasher](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/b3f665/32.png) [@newcrasher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/newcrasher)\ **Post date:** [May 16, 2010, 12:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/prayers-for-haydeet/539499/6 "2010-05-16T12:06:22Z")
Was up there last night until midnight. The family is hanging in there. They have pumped more fluid into her, if you can believe it. But there are giving her more pain meds now. I really hope she is unaware of what is happening. Her blood pressure top number is hovering around 70, which means she will o into cardiac arrest if it slips further. The family has asked that they do one round of resusitation and then stop. Honestly I don’t know how anyone will give her chest compressions in her state. There were pictures of her in the room. Beautiful little 16 year old latina. Picture of health. We prayed in english and in spanish. The prayers have shifted from asking for a miracle to asking for peace. Thanks for your continued prayers and well wishes. ---
**Author:** ![kambuckta](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/53a042/32.png) [@kambuckta](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kambuckta)\ **Post date:** [May 16, 2010, 12:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/prayers-for-haydeet/539499/7 "2010-05-16T12:12:56Z")
May your journey be fulfilled\*\* newcrasher\*\*. I can’t give you prayers because I don’t believe in them, but I do hope that Haydeet, her family and you can come to terms with whatever eventuates. I do hope that good things come of course. May your futures be healthy. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![newcrasher](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/b3f665/32.png) [@newcrasher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/newcrasher)\ **Post date:** [May 17, 2010, 11:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/prayers-for-haydeet/539499/8 "2010-05-17T23:26:29Z")
Haydeet died this morning. All her funeral expenses are covered. Please pray/send good vibes/well wishes to the family. Peace. ---
**Author:** ![Ann\_Onimous](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ea5d25/32.png) [@Ann\_Onimous](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ann_Onimous)\ **Post date:** [May 17, 2010, 11:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/prayers-for-haydeet/539499/9 "2010-05-17T23:49:23Z")
I’m so sorry… ---
**Author:** ![ToeJam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/dfb087/32.png) [@ToeJam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ToeJam)\ **Post date:** [May 18, 2010, 4:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/prayers-for-haydeet/539499/10 "2010-05-18T04:13:38Z")
I’m sorry for your loss. What was the pathology, if you know?