Comparing a pregnancy to spilt milk is a tortured analogy, but if this is what we’re working with, let me give it a try. Contraception is the glass. There was no intention to spill the milk and precautions were taken. Cleaning up the milk is aborting the pregnancy. Getting a new table without spilt milk on it would be allowing the pregnancy to continue but divesting of the resulting child after the fact. Like I said, it’s tortured, but I didn’t have a lot to work with.
Sometimes life ends spontaneously, sometimes it is ended because it has no value. It sounds harsh, but we assess the value of life every single day. We execute criminals and sometimes we execute the innocent wrongfully found guilty. We allow people to die because we value not being forced to give up our own blood more than those who need it; we even value religious views about corpses more than living people in need of organ transplants. We accept more than 40,000 traffic deaths per year in favor of expedience and convenience even though we know how to prevent many of those deaths. We fight wars over territory and resources or political power and as a result young men, old women, and children lose their lives. The list goes on and on… Who can say what value one life has over another? What value did fetus Jeffrey Dahmer bring into this world?
I guess this is where we disagree. Aborting an unwanted pregnancy is taking responsibility to make medical decisions for oneself. It may also be taking the responsibility to not bring another unwanted child into this world. There is a choice and abortion is a valid one. I see no reason why it shouldn’t be. By using contraception, the intent is clear. You can’t reasonably expect someone who has already shown intent to prevent pregnancy to accept it. Making abortion illegal is not going to convince every woman who is dealing with an unwanted pregnancy to continue it. Abortion will not go away because we make it illegal; it will only become more dangerous for those who seek it out and those who provide it, as well as those for whom pregnancy itself puts their lives at risk.