# Q for women: xxx rated **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [June 27, 2000, 2:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/q-for-women-xxx-rated/23722 "2000-06-27T14:14:53Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![MagicalSilverKey](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/8797f3/32.png) [@MagicalSilverKey](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MagicalSilverKey)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2000, 2:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/q-for-women-xxx-rated/23722/1 "2000-06-27T14:14:53Z")
Ok, I was in adult chat today and some guy was telling me that he gets women who want to watch him masturbate, in public, all the time. He says he parks his car at night, under a street light, near a nightclub, turns up the radio, and starts whackin, and women stop and watch or “cheer” him on or flash him, etc. This has to be utter BS. People get arrested for that stuff. I find it near impossible to believe that if a woman happened by a man she didn’t even know, who was whacking off, that she would stop and watch or get involved, etc. This brings about the question, if you (female reading this) discovered a man whacking off in public, or maybe not in public, but anyplace for that matter, what would you do? Watch, join in, run, call cops? (Pee Wee Herman!) I should point out that the situation is you, _accidentally_ discovering said act _already in progress,_ NOT that guy deliberately pursued or exposed himself to you, and then started the act. Consider this situation: You are a cleaning person at a hotel. You knock on room door, but get no answer, so you unlock it to do your cleaning and whoops, Mr. Anonymous is lying on the bed whacking away! (LOL sounds like a setup for a porn flick, LOL) but seriously, what would do in this or a similar situation? like…Walking to your car in parking lot of store and guy is jerkin the gherkin in the car next to you… lol How many of you would stop and watch? ---
**Author:** ![Ruffian](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/71e660/32.png) [@Ruffian](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ruffian)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2000, 2:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/q-for-women-xxx-rated/23722/2 "2000-06-27T14:17:47Z")
Hard. Point. Giggle. Laugh more. ---
**Author:** ![CanadianSue](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/71e660/32.png) [@CanadianSue](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CanadianSue)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2000, 2:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/q-for-women-xxx-rated/23722/3 "2000-06-27T14:18:06Z")
I think the guy is lying. I wouldnt stop to watch if some guy I didnt know was doing that in a car, I would think he was a freak. I was flashed in a parking lot a few years ago and my girlfriend and I laughed hysterically. The guy ran off! ---
**Author:** ![lolagranola](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/ea5d25/32.png) [@lolagranola](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lolagranola)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2000, 2:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/q-for-women-xxx-rated/23722/4 "2000-06-27T14:22:33Z")
To quote a famous Valley Girl… Gag me with a spoon. No. I don’t stop and watch. ---
**Author:** ![Kiki](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/dc4da7/32.png) [@Kiki](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kiki)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2000, 2:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/q-for-women-xxx-rated/23722/5 "2000-06-27T14:27:24Z")
That guy’s full of it! If a man I didn’t know was jackin’ off in his car I wouldn’t stop and watch and I sure as hell wouldn’t join in. If I was by myself I would probably get on my cell phone and call the cops on him just to be a bitch. If I was with a group of friends we’d probably watch him and crack a few jokes and be on our way. ---
**Author:** ![KimKatt](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/ac91a4/32.png) [@KimKatt](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/KimKatt)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2000, 2:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/q-for-women-xxx-rated/23722/6 "2000-06-27T14:28:14Z")
Hmmm. This guy must live in an odd neighbourhood. :rolleyes: Got flashed once. Laughed. He ran off. Have never come across anyone in the act. Would probably stare for a moment, then laugh - unless it was someone I know. Then it would depend on how well I know him 😃 ---
**Author:** ![struuter](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/b9e5f3/32.png) [@struuter](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/struuter)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2000, 2:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/q-for-women-xxx-rated/23722/7 "2000-06-27T14:43:33Z")
Eeeeewwww! The floor of his car must be STICKY. No, thanks. Not my cup of…tea. struuter ---
**Author:** ![Eve](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/9e8a1a/32.png) [@Eve](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Eve)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2000, 2:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/q-for-women-xxx-rated/23722/8 "2000-06-27T14:59:40Z")
“That guy’s full of it!” —Not for long, it would seem. ---
**Author:** ![Minxsmom](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/d07c76/32.png) [@Minxsmom](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Minxsmom)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2000, 3:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/q-for-women-xxx-rated/23722/9 "2000-06-27T15:01:30Z")
That happened to me once years ago (I was still in grade school). IIRC, I stared in disbelief for a moment, and then walked away. That blush stayed on my face for days. I was flashed in Manhattan a couple of years ago. I just rolled my eyes and turned my back on him. He went away - I guess to find a more interested target. ---
**Author:** ![Vestal\_Blue](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/5e9695/32.png) [@Vestal\_Blue](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Vestal_Blue)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2000, 3:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/q-for-women-xxx-rated/23722/10 "2000-06-27T15:15:23Z")
They _do_ say laughter is the best medicine! What a jerkoff! 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Hamadryad](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/6de8d8/32.png) [@Hamadryad](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hamadryad)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2000, 3:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/q-for-women-xxx-rated/23722/11 "2000-06-27T15:17:02Z")
Why on earth would I want to watch a total stranger jerk off? “What’s he do- ohhh. Lookie there.” \ “Looks like he’s jerking off.” \ “Well, I’ll give him 10 out of 10 for effort…” \ “…but I’m gonna have to subtract 4 points for originality…” \ “…and 5 for working with inferior materials.” \ ---
**Author:** ![MagicalSilverKey](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/8797f3/32.png) [@MagicalSilverKey](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MagicalSilverKey)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2000, 3:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/q-for-women-xxx-rated/23722/12 "2000-06-27T15:18:13Z")
Although this thread wasn’t about intentional flashing, it seems to be heading that direction. What is interesting is, if a woman flashes her breasts, to anyone( male or female), it seems to be “acceptable” and no one would complain, most likely and many would be actually enjoy it. When a man whips it out everyone throws a fit of disgust and offense. Hmmmm interesting. What a biased, hypocrytical world we live in. I admit, I wouldn’t want to see another guy’s “appendage.” The male organ isn’t exactly all that attractive to begin with, as compared to a woman’s breasts. One rarely hears of disgust regarding a womans bosom, from either gender, with the few exceptions of breast implants or an old lady’s “prunes.” Odd though, how a man’s anatomy seems to invoke such controversy. What’s up with that? I once heard that the reason R rated movies don’t show male frontal nudity often, was because the penis has the ability to become erect. Hmmmmmm, anyone knows that many women often get erect nipples when exposed to cold or arousal. More bias! ---
**Author:** ![MagicalSilverKey](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/8797f3/32.png) [@MagicalSilverKey](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MagicalSilverKey)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2000, 3:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/q-for-women-xxx-rated/23722/13 "2000-06-27T15:21:02Z")
> [@](#): > > \*\* > Why on earth would I want to watch a total stranger jerk off? > > “What’s he do- ohhh. Lookie there.” \ “Looks like he’s jerking off.” \ “Well, I’ll give him 10 out of 10 for effort…” \ “…but I’m gonna have to subtract 4 points for originality…” \ “…and 5 for working with inferior materials.” \ > \*\* ROFLMFAO!!! ---
**Author:** ![SwimmingRiddles](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/43a26b/32.png) [@SwimmingRiddles](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SwimmingRiddles)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2000, 3:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/q-for-women-xxx-rated/23722/14 "2000-06-27T15:23:17Z")
To quote Sienfeld: The female body is soft and beautiful. The male body is hairy and strickly utilitarian. Icky. Icky-tuuu. Trust me, outside of the male fantasy, that would NEVER happen. I’m afraid I’ll have to be the one to break it to you, MSK, people might lie in adult chat. ::gasp:: ---
**Author:** ![MagicalSilverKey](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/8797f3/32.png) [@MagicalSilverKey](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MagicalSilverKey)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2000, 3:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/q-for-women-xxx-rated/23722/15 "2000-06-27T15:27:50Z")
> [@](#): > > \*\* > To quote Sienfeld: The female body is soft and beautiful. The male body is hairy and strickly utilitarian. > > Icky. Icky-tuuu. Trust me, outside of the male fantasy, that would NEVER happen. I’m afraid I’ll have to be the one to break it to you, MSK, people might lie in adult chat. ::gasp:: > \*\* LOL I never said I believed the guy. In fact, I thought I made it clear that I thought he was full of B-S! ---
**Author:** ![MagicalSilverKey](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/8797f3/32.png) [@MagicalSilverKey](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MagicalSilverKey)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2000, 3:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/q-for-women-xxx-rated/23722/16 "2000-06-27T15:35:26Z")
Why limit this scenario to just the male being the diddler, and the woman being the diddle-ee? Any man who came across a woman diddling herself (assuming she isn’t utterly revolting looks-wise) would not only watch, but probably plead to assist. Or what about a woman catching a woman in the act? (even if not lesbo or bi!) I’m sure it happens a lot in college dorms or in a room-mate situation. Has anyone here ever caught anyone (either gender) in the act of diddling and what did you do? ---
**Author:** ![Satan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e9bcb4/32.png) [@Satan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Satan)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2000, 3:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/q-for-women-xxx-rated/23722/17 "2000-06-27T15:38:12Z")
Two things this thread made me think about: One, it is obvious to anyone who has ever tried to get laid that men are more turned on by things that they can see as opposed to women. As such, while there is something cool and provocative about a woman “flashing” you (Mardi Gras, anyone?), a man doing the same is unlikely to make a woman titilated in any way. The other thing that hit me was the realization when I lived in new York City that I was told by several woman - in fact, by every woman the subject came up with. It seems that it is impossible if you are a woman to ride the subway without at various times winding up next to someone who will jerk themselves off as they sit next to you, sometimes even pushing into the woman. This is usually a game of “pocket pool,” and no exposure of genitalia occurs, but I have heard about this from enough women - very different women too - enough times that I can’t believe that it isn’t happening, and I have to suspect thi is a real rampant thing. During rush hour on crowded trains too! I never would have suspected such a thing, but there ya go. Oh, and not a one of them liked this practice, by the way. In jaded New York style, they usually reacted to it with a dirty look and a move to another area of the train. * * * Yer putz, Satan :wally _I HAVE BEEN SMOKE-FREE FOR: Two months, two weeks, four days, 13 hours, 40 minutes and 0 seconds. 3182 cigarettes not smoked, saving $397.85. Life saved: 1 week, 4 days, 1 hour, 10 minutes._ ---
**Author:** ![kiffa](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/d78d45/32.png) [@kiffa](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kiffa)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2000, 3:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/q-for-women-xxx-rated/23722/18 "2000-06-27T15:46:44Z")
These public jerks, are they trying to stretch it? ---
**Author:** ![Annie-Xmas](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ecc23a/32.png) [@Annie-Xmas](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Annie-Xmas)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2000, 4:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/q-for-women-xxx-rated/23722/19 "2000-06-27T16:06:33Z")
Such public activity is illegal. Nuff said. I once alerted security when there was a guy in the women’s bathroom at the mall. ---
**Author:** ![Ruffian](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/71e660/32.png) [@Ruffian](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ruffian)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2000, 4:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/q-for-women-xxx-rated/23722/20 "2000-06-27T16:20:45Z")
> [@](#): > > \*\* > When a man whips it out everyone throws a fit of disgust and offense. > \*\* You forgot laughter. [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/q-for-women-xxx-rated/23722.md?page=2)