If you feel confident enough in this assertion, I suppose I’ll just have to take your word for it?
If I were in the OP’s shoes, I would not feel so comfortable, but maybe I’m just more pedantic or risk-averse.
FWIW, I didn’t mean to sidetrack this with an argument on the precise number of g/kg (protein per body weight) that any individual needs. It’s not really about that, but just the general complexity of individual diet planning and changing.
I am not a nutritionist or dietician, just some rando on the internet who happens to be vegan/vegetarian and has read a few confusing and contradicting studies & books with a lot of nuance. And the findings also seem to frequently change over time as new data comes to light and new mindsets replace old superstitions. I’ve seen that cycle repeat itself several times in just the last few decades.
It is not an easy industry / field to keep on top of, because there is so much monied interest clouding everything, including both academic research and government policy/recommendations. It’s really, really hard to tease apart the good advice from the bad from the outright evil propaganda, and that affects all the things we commonly eat, including protein sources like milk, soy, eggs, red meat, chicken, etc. For any one of those, you’ll find many, many studies showing how they’re healthy and unhealthy.
For me personally, this ongoing body of research was enough to convince me that this is not something I can ever make a simple blanket statement on, like “just eat a varied diet with lots of plants and nuts and minimal processing and you’ll be fine”.
I don’t know anyone who really eats that sort of perfect Mediterranean diet on a regular basis to begin with (it’s expensive and IMHO quite difficult in the US and not particularly tasty to a lot of households), so it might start out that way for a few weeks and then soon collapse back into old habits of, I dunno, mac and cheese with fake meat and maybe the occasional sugary teriyaki bowl or whatever. And when you add in an underlying medical condition, middle age, and the vegetarian requirement, the data becomes even more sparse and hard to interpret.
The dietician/nutritionist’s job isn’t just to parrot “Eat food, not too much, mostly plants”, but to understand each client’s individual body, current diet & lifestyle, stressors/nuance (like family preferences out of their individual control), goals, medical considerations, etc. and then come up with an appropriate, realistic, and sustainable set of dietary guidelines and maybe a meal plan around those. It’s the latter two — realistic and sustainable — that’s often a lot more difficult, IMHO, than the “appropriate” part. Anyone can eat perfectly for a couple weeks, maybe a few months. But it gets harder after that as cravings set in, at least until a few months & years in when it’s mostly stabilized and your body and biome have changed accordingly, etc. That’s where professional help can be handy, to make sure you don’t just aim for the perfect diet, fail to keep it, and then fall back to bad habits.
If the OP is already really good at self-discipline and healthy eating, wonderful, they are already vastly better off than most Americans and don’t need to waste time and money talking to a professional. I know I am not that person, myself, and professional coaching was valuable for me (both in terms of a dietician and personal training). YMMV.