# Question for guys: What "girly" drinks do you enjoy?

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**Category:** Cafe Society\
**Created:** [August 24, 2009, 9:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/question-for-guys-what-girly-drinks-do-you-enjoy/507549 "2009-08-24T21:00:35Z")\
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**Post date:** [August 26, 2009, 2:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/question-for-guys-what-girly-drinks-do-you-enjoy/507549/61 "2009-08-26T14:26:29Z")

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I like champagne cocktails on occasion. My usual drink is single malt scotch, neat.

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**Post date:** [August 26, 2009, 2:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/question-for-guys-what-girly-drinks-do-you-enjoy/507549/62 "2009-08-26T14:45:04Z")

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[Sidecar.](http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sidecar_(cocktail)) It was invented by an Army captain in WW1, fer cri-yi. He had a motorcycle and driver, and the sidecar was how he traveled to and from the bar.

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**Post date:** [August 26, 2009, 3:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/question-for-guys-what-girly-drinks-do-you-enjoy/507549/63 "2009-08-26T15:29:20Z")

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The idea of “girly drink” is ridiculous. If you like something, drink it, and don’t give a rat’s ass about what other people think.

I like lots of drinks – white and red wine, martinis, margaritas, Beam’s (“Smoooooth”) Choice, whiskey sours, gin and tonic, Smirnoff Ice, Woodchuck Cider. I don’t worry if some half-wit is going to call any one of them a “girly drink.”

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**Post date:** [August 26, 2009, 5:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/question-for-guys-what-girly-drinks-do-you-enjoy/507549/64 "2009-08-26T17:17:52Z")

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Fuzzy navels. "Premium Malt Beverage"s such as Bacardi Silver. Wine coolers.

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**Author:** ![tds1273](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/df705f/32.png) [@tds1273](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tds1273)\
**Post date:** [August 26, 2009, 9:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/question-for-guys-what-girly-drinks-do-you-enjoy/507549/65 "2009-08-26T21:10:26Z")

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Good to hear whiskey sours are not “girly”, I often wondered about that when I ordered them; though when the bar tender adds the lemon slice and the cherry, I do think it crosses the line.

In a post-Lebowski world, white russians can now safely be considered a “dude drink”.

I think a lot of it can vary by setting too. Wine for example, if you go out to a club or are tailgating drinking wine can be pretty “girly”, over a nice dinner or relaxing in doors it is perfectly gender neutral.

What about [Alizé](http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aliz%C3%A9)? Rap culture seems to have embraced it, but I still feel a bit silly when I buy it. Damn it is good though, like a perfectly mixed Sunny D screwdriver. Speaking of, how do screwdrivers qualify?

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**Post date:** [August 26, 2009, 9:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/question-for-guys-what-girly-drinks-do-you-enjoy/507549/66 "2009-08-26T21:25:08Z")

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> [@tds1273](#):
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> Speaking of, how do screwdrivers qualify?

So named, IIRC, because the guys on oil rigs mixed vodka and OJ with a screwdriver. Sounds pretty manly to me.

I don’t care how manly a drink is. If I’m in the mood for it, I’ll order it. It seemed like a lot of us guys had Sloe Gin Fizzes, Amaretto Stone Sours, etc. until we acquired the taste for beer.

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**Post date:** [August 27, 2009, 3:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/question-for-guys-what-girly-drinks-do-you-enjoy/507549/67 "2009-08-27T03:47:45Z")

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Are greyhounds girly?

G&T are gender neutral IMO.

I love margaritas of all kinds, but never if they are blended. I’m not sure that they are girly until they look like a slurpy. Also, salt is a must. I don’t like them too sweet. One must make me dizzy. I have to taste the tequila. Premixed store-bought mixes all suck, but the recipe on the back of Roses Lime juice is ideal. I think I’ve restricted margarita’s enough to be gender neutral.

Sweet drinks give me a hangover if I have more than one. I don’t like sweet.

ETA: I don’t think whiskey sours qualify as manly.

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**Author:** ![Jennyrosity](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/2bfe46/32.png) [@Jennyrosity](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jennyrosity)\
**Post date:** [August 27, 2009, 7:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/question-for-guys-what-girly-drinks-do-you-enjoy/507549/68 "2009-08-27T07:52:46Z")

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> [@Ellis\_Aponte\_Jr](#):
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> Just came here to say Malibu rum is girly. That’s what I would order if I were pretending to be a girl.
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> It seems that few ladies drink gin; I can’t begin to understand that.

This lady drinks gin, and so do most of my girlfriends. Last year, before my wedding I spent my hen do at a gin distillery, and the guests all got gin minitures as wedding favours.

A male friend of mine once amused me thus:

Jenny: G, I’m going to the bar, do you want a gin and tonic?  
G: Certainly not! What do you think I am, some kind of girl?!

I’ll have a vodka and tonic.

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**Author:** ![Jennyrosity](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/2bfe46/32.png) [@Jennyrosity](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jennyrosity)\
**Post date:** [August 27, 2009, 7:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/question-for-guys-what-girly-drinks-do-you-enjoy/507549/69 "2009-08-27T07:57:15Z")

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Oh, and as the converse of this, a barman I worked with used told me off for drinking whiskey and ginger (the winter alternative to a G & T, for me), because “that’s an old man’s drink.”

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**Post date:** [August 27, 2009, 12:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/question-for-guys-what-girly-drinks-do-you-enjoy/507549/70 "2009-08-27T12:57:27Z")

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> [@HeyHomie](#):
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> Fuzzy navels.

I wondered if those would pop up. Just like orangy-peachy soda with 4% alcohol, I like the Bartles and Jaymes ones. Man, that even sounds girly.

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**Post date:** [August 27, 2009, 1:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/question-for-guys-what-girly-drinks-do-you-enjoy/507549/71 "2009-08-27T13:37:16Z")

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My theory is pina coladas and strawberry daiquiris and such are “acceptable” at a radius of about 200 miles max from Nassau, Bahamas. If you’re on vacation in the Keys as a guy you can get a drink with an umbrella. If you’re in Atlanta, I wouldn’t recommend it 😉

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**Post date:** [August 27, 2009, 2:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/question-for-guys-what-girly-drinks-do-you-enjoy/507549/72 "2009-08-27T14:46:33Z")

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> [@johnspartan](#):
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> My theory is pina coladas and strawberry daiquiris and such are “acceptable” at a radius of about 200 miles max from Nassau, Bahamas. If you’re on vacation in the Keys as a guy you can get a drink with an umbrella. If you’re in Atlanta, I wouldn’t recommend it 😉

Except that Atlanta still has a Trader Vic’s, where you can get big umbrella’d drinks like mai tais that are decidedly potent.

Jenny, glad to hear that you’re out there repping for gin. I knew there had to be some exceptions!

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