I think this is very wise.
I think I can answer that question about why non-vegetarians ask ‘what in the world do you eat’ type questions … seeing as I just asked the equivalent though more politely, I hope.
It comes down, IMO, to knowing so little about something that you aren’t able to distinquish variations. A person who has only seen a couple of dogs has no way of knowing that an Irish Setter and a Goldie are actual breeds, rather than just dogs with different colors of hair.
So a non-veggies asks, what do you eat? And the answer can sound like “veggies and beans mostly” – which to the non-veggies ears sounds like two and only two items. Since they don’t know all that many ways to prepare either (really. I’d bet money that most non-veggie-people serve almost all their veggies the plainest possible way: steamed or boiled, one vegetable by itself, no sauces or dressings or combinations.) they hear this as a totally limited and boring way to eat.
What they fail to consider is the flip side. If asked what they eat, they might answer “beef and chicken, mostly” – still only two items, but since they know dozens of different recipes for each, it doesn’t seem limited in their minds.
Anyway, I thank all of you for your replies, especially those who listed menus. You see, for health reasons I’d like us to get away from eating so much meat, but my guy isn’t interested in ‘going vegetarian.’ At the same time, though, he doesn’t object to meatless meals. As in, he’s happy to eat, say, Macaroni & Cheese, because the point there is eating M&C, a food item he likes, rather than "eating this non-meat dish because it’s non-meat and therefore good for you.’
So I’ve captured this thread, and will go hunting for menus. And I will start slipping these meals into our rotation, not as part of life style change, no, of course not…they’re just menus I came across that sounded good.
Hopefully he will like many of them, and we will gradually ‘just happen’ to end up eating few and few meat based meals.