# raindog: are you fucking kidding me? **URL:** \ **Category:** The BBQ Pit\ **Created:** [November 11, 2009, 5:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/raindog-are-you-fucking-kidding-me/517151 "2009-11-11T05:05:01Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/e8c25b/32.png) [@Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Really_Not_All_That_Bright)\ **Post date:** [November 11, 2009, 5:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/raindog-are-you-fucking-kidding-me/517151/1 "2009-11-11T05:05:01Z")
[Over here](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=538547&page=14) in GD, we have just gone through about four pages of exchanges typified by the following: [QUOTE=raindog] I do know, however, that there are reasonable, thoughtful, intelligent people on both sides of [the SSM debate]—and both have reasonable arguments. [/QUOTE] [QUOTE=Algorithm] Either back this up or stop saying it. This is ridiculous. [/QUOTE] In response to a different post, but one of essentially the same substance: [QUOTE=raindog] Saying that it is both ignorant and/or disingenuous to demonize someone with you disagree with is not tantamount to saying I wish to debate the issue. I’ve been around long enough to know the lack of diversity and intellectual incest that prevails, and the fact is, I’m just not interested in being drawn into an inane discussion. Lest you get too carried away with yourselves, I could have easily have made my point from a pro-SSM POV. I simply don’t care. Now it’s quite possible that the anti-SSM crowd is wrong; that they’ve gotten too close the the Church/State border. (although they may have other reasons) Maybe. But to say that they they must have an “unreasoning fear of or antipathy toward homosexuals” is simply ignorant. Unless…you know better. In that instance it just looks like a juvenile debating tactic. [/QUOTE] Basically, this continues as a couple more (actually, dozens) people asking our erstwhile troll to provide an example of a reasonable argument against same-sex marriage, and **raindog** performing a bizarre Mexican Hat Dance around the question. Now, **Bricker** had also posted something similar, specifically: > [@](#): > > Second: there are reasoned, rational arguments against SSM. They don’t fail due to lack of existence; they fail because, on balance, they are not compelling. …and when pressed, also failed to provide an example of one of these super-secret reasoned, rational arguments. However, since **Bricker** did not return to the thread and post a dozen more times without ever bothering to actually address the question, he’s not getting Pitted. **raindog** , on the other hand, has over the course of two days and four pages constantly trotted out the same not unreasonable idea - that there are reasonable arguments against same sex marriage - without ever bothering to offer one, despite being asked to do so repeatedly and once in all caps. I have therefore concluded that **raindog** is either a troll, or a bot, or possibly a complex arrangement of those nodding water-clock bird things from that one _Simpsons_ episode where Homer puts on weight so he can work from home and almost causes the nuclear plant to melt down. Either way, I’m totally fucking done asking him the same question over and over again, and I should probably Pit myself for wasting so much time on that dipshit. Discuss. ETA: For the record, I have never Pitted another poster, as far as I can recall, and I’ve been here for six years. ---
**Author:** ![Polycarp](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/82dd89/32.png) [@Polycarp](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Polycarp)\ **Post date:** [November 11, 2009, 5:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/raindog-are-you-fucking-kidding-me/517151/2 "2009-11-11T05:29:57Z")
IIRC, **Raindog** is a Jehovah’s Witness, though normally a well-spoken one and remarkably open-minded compared to the JW stereotype. This is, however, worth keeping in mind when he posts on religious topics. To be honest, while we’ve disagreed from time to time in the past, his behavior in that thread is out of character for him. ---
**Author:** ![Bryan\_Ekers](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bryan_ekers/32/183_2.png) [@Bryan\_Ekers](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bryan_Ekers)\ **Post date:** [November 11, 2009, 5:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/raindog-are-you-fucking-kidding-me/517151/3 "2009-11-11T05:51:21Z")
Speaking of Bricker, why is his “conversion” such a big deal? All he did was decide to be a little less stupid. ---
**Author:** ![Homebrew](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/c89c15/32.png) [@Homebrew](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Homebrew)\ **Post date:** [November 11, 2009, 6:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/raindog-are-you-fucking-kidding-me/517151/4 "2009-11-11T06:06:37Z")
> [@Polycarp](#): > > IIRC, **Raindog** is a Jehovah’s Witness, though normally a well-spoken one and remarkably open-minded **compared to the JW stereotype.**. Did someone get woken up from his nap Sunday??? 😉 Ironically, the JWs I’ve known personally on a basis separate from their missionary work have been friendly, accepting, loving people. But the ones that introduce themselves by interrupting the morning after the night before are damned annoying. ---
**Author:** ![boytyperanma](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/4491bb/32.png) [@boytyperanma](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/boytyperanma)\ **Post date:** [November 11, 2009, 6:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/raindog-are-you-fucking-kidding-me/517151/5 "2009-11-11T06:23:30Z")
My take on the whole chain of events involving Raindog is it was silly on both sides. Raindog stuck his nose into a thread stated an opinion and was immediately attacked for expressing his opinion. As opinions are of little value when it comes to the actual debate is was not a good move on **Raindog** ’s part to even offer it. After being attacked for expressing the opinion he did what many people do when they are attacked and tried to defend himself(weakly). Instead of offering him the option to withdraw from the debate you continued to hound him demanding he justify his opinion to you. Him already being on the defense refused to elaborate further on his opinion as he likely believed(and correctly imo) you would only use it to further attack him. **Raindog** should probably take from this you do not enter a stance in a debate unless you are prepared to defend it. **Really Not All That Bright** you could accept people have opposing points of view and allow them to opt out without chasing them into a corner. ---
**Author:** ![Algorithm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/algorithm/32/12204_2.png) [@Algorithm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Algorithm)\ **Post date:** [November 11, 2009, 6:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/raindog-are-you-fucking-kidding-me/517151/6 "2009-11-11T06:47:52Z")
Just to really drive the point home how obnoxious this behavior is - I hate excessive quoting, but it’s necessary here - the assertion is made over and over, but never backed up: > [@What motivates people to vote other people's rights away](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-motivates-people-to-vote-other-peoples-rights-away/516261/511): > > While some objections to homosexuals may be a product of “homophobia”, this is far from universally true > [@What motivates people to vote other people's rights away](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-motivates-people-to-vote-other-peoples-rights-away/516261/536): > > There are well-reasoned arguments on both sides of this issue. For those who are against SSM there are reasons----for many to be sure----that aren’t borne of an _“unreasoning fear of or antipathy toward homosexuals and homosexuality.”_ > [@What motivates people to vote other people's rights away](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-motivates-people-to-vote-other-peoples-rights-away/516261/541): > > But that doesn’t reduce those who feel otherwise as “homophobes”. (although clearly some are) > [@What motivates people to vote other people's rights away](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-motivates-people-to-vote-other-peoples-rights-away/516261/544): > > There is _reasoned_, _rational_ arguments on both sides of this. > > The fact that you can’t see them (which does not mean you have to agree with them) ------and need to demonize your opponents with labels like “homophobe”-----says more about your blindness than the quality of their argument. > [@What motivates people to vote other people's rights away](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-motivates-people-to-vote-other-peoples-rights-away/516261/552): > > Assuming you’re an adult I have to wonder where you have been. In any event, I have no intention of being drawn into the anti-SSM debate. > > I do know, however, that there are reasonable, thoughtful, intelligent people on both sides of this—and both have reasonable arguments. > [@What motivates people to vote other people's rights away](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-motivates-people-to-vote-other-peoples-rights-away/516261/583): > > Of course, it would be equally easy to point to an opponent of SSM who demonstrated none of the stereotypes associated with homophobes. > > And the zealots in both camps ignore the evidence and insist that the stereotype is the standard. > [@What motivates people to vote other people's rights away](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-motivates-people-to-vote-other-peoples-rights-away/516261/595): > > In his view, the case against SSM is much less compelling than the case for it. I’ll let **Bricker** speak for himself, but I would assume that his prior opposition to SSM wasn’t due to fear and hatred of homosexuals. “Reasoned, rational” arguments, not borne of homophobia, against SSM - where are they? Not a single one is linked by **raindog** in the thread. > [@What motivates people to vote other people's rights away](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-motivates-people-to-vote-other-peoples-rights-away/516261/619): > > If you’re looking for thoughtful, reasoned arguments in opposition to SSM you won’t find them here. Ah. Thanks for clearing that up, **raindog**. You are useless. ---
**Author:** ![Enginerd](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/bcef8e/32.png) [@Enginerd](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Enginerd)\ **Post date:** [November 11, 2009, 6:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/raindog-are-you-fucking-kidding-me/517151/7 "2009-11-11T06:50:59Z")
> [@boytyperanma](#): > > **Really Not All That Bright** you could accept people have opposing points of view and allow them to opt out without chasing them into a corner. Anybody can opt out of a debate, simply by ceasing to post, and **RNATB** would have no choice but to “allow” it. But if you continue to post in a thread in Great Debates, it’s not unreasonable for others to expect you to support your position. ---
**Author:** ![boytyperanma](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/4491bb/32.png) [@boytyperanma](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/boytyperanma)\ **Post date:** [November 11, 2009, 6:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/raindog-are-you-fucking-kidding-me/517151/8 "2009-11-11T06:58:28Z")
> [@Enginerd](#): > > Anybody can opt out of a debate, simply by ceasing to post, and **RNATB** would have no choice but to “allow” it. But if you continue to post in a thread in Great Debates, it’s not unreasonable for others to expect you to support your position. I agree with you. However **RNATB** could have refrained for saying **Raindog** get back in here so I can whip you some more. Hell **Raindog** did stop posting in that thread now **RNATB** is calling him out in the pit instead. He could have just moved on and stuck to debating with people who want to defend their positions. ---
**Author:** ![Discipline](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/82dd89/32.png) [@Discipline](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Discipline)\ **Post date:** [November 11, 2009, 7:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/raindog-are-you-fucking-kidding-me/517151/9 "2009-11-11T07:10:42Z")
What are you trying to say? “Fags are gross” isn’t a rational viewpoint? Crazy talk. ---
**Author:** ![Algorithm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/algorithm/32/12204_2.png) [@Algorithm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Algorithm)\ **Post date:** [November 11, 2009, 7:42am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/raindog-are-you-fucking-kidding-me/517151/10 "2009-11-11T07:42:34Z")
> [@boytyperanma](#): > > Hell **Raindog** did stop posting in that thread now **RNATB** is calling him out in the pit instead. He could have just moved on and stuck to debating with people who want to defend their positions. Two things: [ol] [li] **raindog** has “stopped posting in that thread” only as much as I’ve stopped posting in _this_ one - his most recent post didn’t indicate intent to discontinue his participation[/li][li] **raindog** ’s behavior in that thread, whether or not he continues posting to it, is obnoxious enough to warrant a pitting[/li][/ol] ---
**Author:** ![Whack-a-Mole](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/whack-a-mole/32/141_2.png) [@Whack-a-Mole](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Whack-a-Mole)\ **Post date:** [November 11, 2009, 10:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/raindog-are-you-fucking-kidding-me/517151/11 "2009-11-11T10:18:34Z")
> [@Algorithm](#): > > [ol] > [li] **raindog** ’s behavior in that thread, whether or not he continues posting to it, is obnoxious enough to warrant a pitting[/li][/ol] Agreed. Over and over and over he (or she…I do not know) asserted that there are rational reasons for opposing same sex marriages (SSM). Over and over and over people asked what those reasons might be. He asserted a position then not only flatly refused to provide an example of those reasons but demeaned and misconstrued other posters asking him, very reasonably, to provide an example of that. Remember this was in GD. Hell, I cannot think it is tolerated anywhere on the SDMB. It flies in the face of good discourse any way you slice it. I was also disappointed to see **Bricker** actually fall into this as well. He noted **raindog’s** evasiveness then asserted the same thing **raindog** did. Numerous people asked him to provide an example and he has not (albeit not by refusal but by disappearing from the thread). I disagree with **Bricker** on many things but mostly respect his posts here as thoughtful. That one seemed unusual for him (IMHO). Funny thing is I have likewise never pitted anyone (I don’t think…if so very rare to the point I do not recall) and I was going to start this thread but was beaten to it. **Raindog’s** evasiveness and refusal is completely Pit worthy. I can accept people have different opinions but a drive-by “cuz I said so” has never been enough on this board and he repeatedly went there. ETA: I am willing to bet **raindog** would not accept a “cuz I said so” from me either. ---
**Author:** ![VarlosZ](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/d78d45/32.png) [@VarlosZ](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/VarlosZ)\ **Post date:** [November 11, 2009, 11:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/raindog-are-you-fucking-kidding-me/517151/12 "2009-11-11T11:19:51Z")
Off the top of my head: – “Preserving marriage as something exclusively for opposite-sex (and therefore presumably child-bearing) couples bestows upon that kind of arrangement a unique cultural significance, thus reducing the percentage of marriages which end in divorce and the proportion of children who grow up in broken homes. [Liberals should understand this effect](http://www.goodreads.com/quotes/show/116754).” – “We give special consideration to married couples because society has an interest in promoting the birth of children (in particular the birth of children into stable homes). Since promoting the birth of children is inapplicable to same sex couples, there’s no practical reason to give those sorts of pairings special consideration.” Mind you, no one here has to waste their time poking holes in these arguments; everything that you think is wrong with them, I do as well. They fail, and hard. But they’re reasonable, and a very far cry from “fuckin’ queers, go back to Queertonia!” or “earthquakes are caused by buggery.” ---
**Author:** ![Der\_Trihs](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/der_trihs/32/233_2.png) [@Der\_Trihs](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Der_Trihs)\ **Post date:** [November 11, 2009, 11:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/raindog-are-you-fucking-kidding-me/517151/13 "2009-11-11T11:48:28Z")
> [@VarlosZ](#): > > Mind you, no one here has to waste their time poking holes in these arguments; everything that you think is wrong with them, I do as well. They fail, and hard. But they’re reasonable, and a very far cry from “fuckin’ queers, go back to Queertonia!” or “earthquakes are caused by buggery.” Not that far; both fall flat pretty much instantly. And more to the point, the people making them refuse to back the supposed principles involved, therefore proving them to be dishonest arguments as well as bad ones. Same sex couples shouldn’t get married because they can’t produce children? If that’s the principle involved, then obviously infertile couples or those that don’t want children should have their marriages forbidden as well - yet the same people who claim that’s why they oppose SSM refuse to call for those marriages to be outlawed. In other words, they are lying and don’t even believe their own argument. And a dishonestly meant, hypocritical argument isn’t a reasonable one. And as for the other argument; you can’t claim you are preventing broken homes by calling for laws that _ **mandate** _ broken homes. And SSM couples are _ **also** _ child bearing. So it’s an incoherent argument; not a reasonable one. ---
**Author:** ![footballisplayedwithyourfeet](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/9f8e36/32.png) [@footballisplayedwithyourfeet](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/footballisplayedwithyourfeet)\ **Post date:** [November 11, 2009, 12:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/raindog-are-you-fucking-kidding-me/517151/14 "2009-11-11T12:05:01Z")
> [@VarlosZ](#): > > Off the top of my head: > > – “Preserving marriage as something exclusively for opposite-sex (and therefore presumably child-bearing) couples bestows upon that kind of arrangement a unique cultural significance, thus reducing the percentage of marriages which end in divorce and the proportion of children who grow up in broken homes. [Liberals should understand this effect](http://www.goodreads.com/quotes/show/116754).” > > – “We give special consideration to married couples because society has an interest in promoting the birth of children (in particular the birth of children into stable homes). Since promoting the birth of children is inapplicable to same sex couples, there’s no practical reason to give those sorts of pairings special consideration.” > Mind you, no one here has to waste their time poking holes in these arguments; everything that you think is wrong with them, I do as well. They fail, and hard. But they’re reasonable, and a very far cry from “fuckin’ queers, go back to Queertonia!” or “earthquakes are caused by buggery.” Isn’t the point of this pitting that **Raindog** never gave any of these reasons, so there was no chance of discussing their merit. If he would have given these opinions, people would have disagreed, but that would have been that. No pitting would have been called for… ---
**Author:** ![Whack-a-Mole](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/whack-a-mole/32/141_2.png) [@Whack-a-Mole](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Whack-a-Mole)\ **Post date:** [November 11, 2009, 2:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/raindog-are-you-fucking-kidding-me/517151/15 "2009-11-11T14:19:41Z")
> [@footballisplayedwithyourfeet](#): > > Isn’t the point of this pitting that **Raindog** never gave any of these reasons, so there was no chance of discussing their merit. If he would have given these opinions, people would have disagreed, but that would have been that. No pitting would have been called for… Well…we asked for “reasonable” arguments. Give him credit he did not just put any old bullshit out there and call it “reasonable”. He failed because there are no reasonable arguments. Or at least in all these debates over the years I have yet to see one that when distilled made any sense. ---
**Author:** ![Shodan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9f8e36/32.png) [@Shodan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shodan)\ **Post date:** [November 11, 2009, 3:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/raindog-are-you-fucking-kidding-me/517151/16 "2009-11-11T15:02:29Z")
I think the definition of “reasonable argument” in this context is “argument that cannot be argued against”. In that sense, I doubt there are “reasonable arguments” for or against anything on the SDMB. Fine, you think you have conclusively won the debate. Good for you. After a certain point, you just want to browbeat someone, and you are getting mad if he won’t play along. Regards, Shodan ---
**Author:** ![wonky](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/wonky/32/393_2.png) [@wonky](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/wonky)\ **Post date:** [November 11, 2009, 3:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/raindog-are-you-fucking-kidding-me/517151/17 "2009-11-11T15:54:07Z")
This is raindog’s MO. He’ll pop into a thread, post something like “Oh really?” if someone says something about the Bible or the like, and then will continue to “Oh really?” and “You’re wrong” and “Not everyone agrees with you” until everyone else gives up. His recent participation in an abortion thread in GD was unusual in that he added lines about Dick Cheney and random politicians to the mix. Oh, and Der Trihs and I are apparently sitting in a tree K-I-S-S-I-N-G. ---
**Author:** ![ElvisL1ves](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/5daacb/32.png) [@ElvisL1ves](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ElvisL1ves)\ **Post date:** [November 11, 2009, 3:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/raindog-are-you-fucking-kidding-me/517151/18 "2009-11-11T15:56:21Z")
> [@Bryan\_Ekers](#): > > Speaking of Bricker, why is his “conversion” such a big deal? All he did was decide to be a little less stupid. And he’s STILL sticking with the very same “There are rational reasons to oppose SSM, I just can’t tell you what they are” that **raindog** is. He’s only not getting Pitted because he did in fact recognize and overcome his earlier bigotry, even if he won’t admit that that’s what it was. I can sympathize, if only up to a point - it has to be hard to the point of impossibility for someone who fancies himself a creature of pure objective rationality , above the level of ordinary mortals, to acknowledge ever having held a view on any other basis. **VarlosZ** , do you hold that a flat-out lie can still be “reasonable”? That’s the only way your statement makes sense. ---
**Author:** ![Whack-a-Mole](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/whack-a-mole/32/141_2.png) [@Whack-a-Mole](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Whack-a-Mole)\ **Post date:** [November 11, 2009, 3:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/raindog-are-you-fucking-kidding-me/517151/19 "2009-11-11T15:57:09Z")
> [@Shodan](#): > > I think the definition of “reasonable argument” in this context is “argument that cannot be argued against”. In that sense, I doubt there are “reasonable arguments” for or against anything on the SDMB. > > Fine, you think you have conclusively won the debate. Good for you. After a certain point, you just want to browbeat someone, and you are getting mad if he won’t play along. Nonsense. As someone noted in the thread that prompted this one it is possible to put forward reasonable arguments even if you do not agree with the overall result. Examples given were he (and I for that matter) could give reasonable arguments as to why we should have invaded Iraq or reasonable arguments supporting a flat tax even if we do not agree with it. Usually what happens is people throw out their reasons for one side or another and then we can bicker if one side outweighs the other to decide on the proper course of action. In this case there are no arguments that do not fall apart all by themselves. For instance people have put forward that marriage should be between a man and a woman only because it promotes procreation. Almost sounds reasonable till you pick at it a bit and realize that marriage in the US makes zero mention of procreation as a requirement, that couples who do not want or cannot have kids are allowed to marry and that same sex couples have a variety of routes to have children. So far all “rational” arguments opposed to SSM end up like that. They simply _do not stand on their own merits_. ---
**Author:** ![Epimetheus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/c4cdca/32.png) [@Epimetheus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Epimetheus)\ **Post date:** [November 11, 2009, 4:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/raindog-are-you-fucking-kidding-me/517151/20 "2009-11-11T16:02:13Z")
I know it isn’t true for all religious folk, but common, you can’t argue with somebody who thinks “God hates fags” is a well reasoned argument. [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/raindog-are-you-fucking-kidding-me/517151.md?page=2)