# Re: all these older teachers and young boy cases

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/re-all-these-older-teachers-and-young-boy-cases/408524>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [June 18, 2007, 11:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/re-all-these-older-teachers-and-young-boy-cases/408524 "2007-06-18T23:39:08Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 5\
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**Author:** ![42fish](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/4/b487fb/32.png) [@42fish](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/42fish)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2007, 10:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/re-all-these-older-teachers-and-young-boy-cases/408524/81 "2007-06-22T22:36:51Z")

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[QUOTE=GuyNblueJeans]

Being ugly is of the highest and deepest pain but, again, never kid yourself that women place little value in a guy’s face and bod, 'cause they sure as heck do, just ask me.  
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So, basically, you’re upset that some women are as shallow to you as you are to all women?

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**Author:** ![GuyNblueJeans](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/e9bcb4/32.png) [@GuyNblueJeans](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GuyNblueJeans)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2007, 11:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/re-all-these-older-teachers-and-young-boy-cases/408524/82 "2007-06-22T23:53:49Z")

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[QUOTE=42fish]  
So, basically, you’re upset that some women are as shallow to you as you are to all women?  
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I stated that I’m paying for my karmic debt and that it’s no ones fault except my own. So how do you figure that I have some kind of big animosity towards women in general?

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**Author:** ![Cervaise](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cervaise/32/16693_2.png) [@Cervaise](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cervaise)\
**Post date:** [June 23, 2007, 12:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/re-all-these-older-teachers-and-young-boy-cases/408524/83 "2007-06-23T00:22:34Z")

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[QUOTE=GuyNblueJeans]  
So how do you figure that I have some kind of big animosity towards women in general?  
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Oh, man, now _there’s_ a poser. Give me some time to file a grant application 'cuz this is gonna take some mutha fuckin _research_, baby.

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**Author:** ![shootermcqueen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a3d4f5/32.png) [@shootermcqueen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/shootermcqueen)\
**Post date:** [June 23, 2007, 12:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/re-all-these-older-teachers-and-young-boy-cases/408524/84 "2007-06-23T00:33:01Z")

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[QUOTE=5-4-Fighting]  
So, how do you know a 14-year-old knows he’s straight,\* and if he turns out not to be, isn’t he harmed by having had sex with an older female teacher?

Regards,

5

- There seems to be an assumption here that, because the social structure says he \*ought \* to be straight, then there are automacially mitigating factors which pertain _only here_ and do not apply if he is not straight.  
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Its not a matter of if he knows he’s straight or not. That is not so important. The two points I would raise in answer

1. Looking at statistics only (not always the best way) chances are he is straight
2. There are A LOT of social and peer issues that make gay sex more complicated, it is because of these issues, rather than the sex itself, that I think the situation is different.

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**Author:** ![GuyNblueJeans](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/e9bcb4/32.png) [@GuyNblueJeans](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GuyNblueJeans)\
**Post date:** [June 23, 2007, 1:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/re-all-these-older-teachers-and-young-boy-cases/408524/85 "2007-06-23T01:04:33Z")

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[QUOTE=Cervaise]  
Oh, man, now _there’s_ a poser. Give me some time to file a grant application 'cuz this is gonna take some mutha fuckin _research_, baby.  
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Yeah, really let me have, dude. Let’s see the proof!

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