I’ll preface this post by letting everyone know that I’m 22 and a lifelong paraplegic. I use a manual wheelchair to get around. As might be expected, some of the posts about this topic made me very angry and upset. Before I get into it, let me say this: I agree with those people who say that the lawsuit is silly. After all, it is private property.
HOWEVER, I feel that no able-bodied person can truly understand what sort of feelings this lawsuit was born from, and that can result in responses that sound mean, when the poster might merely not have a true understanding of the feelings of wheelchair users.
quote:
Originally posted by Fenris
“Bad news for you, disabled folks: there are some things you just won’t be able to do! That’s unfortunate, but society can’t cure every problem you might have. I believe society should…no MUST do it’s best to see that you are given access wherever possible, but your part of the deal is to understand that “wherever possible” means that it can’t happen everywhere”
I submit that most “disabled folks” don’t want society to bow down and kiss their feet. Incidentally, the word “disabled” encompasses many more situations and conditions than those that require physical accomodations. Hence, I shall specify “wheelchair users” as a subset of “disabled people”. Political correctness can be ridiculous sometimes. Disabled people DO, however, desire to be as equal a part of society as possible.
Only recently has it become acceptable for disabled people to come out into society, much less demand a fair shake. We have only come this far because we forced the issue, not because society in general felt like being generous. In the area of disabled issues, there is farther to go. Just ask any wheelchair users who have had their wheelchair handlebars leaned on by someone. Ask a roomful of wheelchair users how many times they have heard themselves referred to by a stranger as, “the wheelchair” (i.e. “Honey, watch out for the wheelchair!”). For wheelchair users, part of equality lies in being able to go to most of the same places able-bodied people do. Isn’t that “reasonable”? Incidentally, the word “reasonable” can be used as both a word to help weelchair users fight for their rights as well as a loophole for businesses.
I suspect that many non-wheelchair-using Dopers have no idea just how many shops, restaurants, dance clubs, bars, etc., are inaccessible to people who have to use wheelchairs. One step at the front door prevents me from entering a shop on my own. A small plank of wood over part of the stairs could maybe correct that. I cannot, however, ask the shop owner to consider this because I cannot get into the shop. Is that reasonable?
Sometimes the place is accessible, but you have to really want to go. If I want to go to a particular bar/club near my college, I must go through the kitchen. The main entrance is not wheelchair accessible. To ride to the second floor of the Student Union at my former university, I have to get in the same elevator in which the garbage travels. Everyone else can use the stairs. Is that reasonable?
And yes, I do choose to go to those places. However, having to go in one entrance while everyone else goes in another does make me feel like a second class citizen. It is degrading. However, I (and most disabled people) have learned to deal with it while trying to change things.
To sum up my rant, I think that while the point of the quoted Doper is valid, the underlying message seems to be; “You’re out in public, we’re letting you vent, we’ve made a few changes, so be grateful and stop bitching!”.
To that I say, yes, there have been many changes in building codes. Yes, there have been some changes in the way in which society views all disabled people, not just wheelchair users. And yes, I am glad about those things. Those victories were fought for, not simply dropped in the laps of disabled people. They came about because enough people bitched for long enough, and some people finally listened. The only way to change injustice is to call attention to it, and some of these activists do cross the line, but many more don’t. I ask able-bodied people to think about the lives of disabled people and question whether what most of us want is really that unreasonable.