# Recommend movies for my 85 year old Dad

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**Created:** [June 28, 2026, 5:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/recommend-movies-for-my-85-year-old-dad/1031250 "2026-06-28T17:30:02Z")\
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> [@Moriarty](#):
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> This is a good 90s movie, with Tom Selleck as an old ball player finishing his career in Japan. He does a good job looking like a legitimate player.

Also echoes the experiences of [Joe Pepitone](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joe_Pepitone) (e.g.: not taking the game seriously and forgetting to duck when going through doorways) and [Randy Bass](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Randy_Bass) (who missed tying [the home run king’s](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sadaharu_Oh) record in '85).

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My hard to please father enjoyed ‘O Brother, Where Art Thou’.

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My 98 year-old father-in-law laughed uproariously at his first viewing (believe it or not) of “_It’s A Mad, Mad, Mad, Mad World_” over Christmas.

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Since he likes Sound of Music, perhaps he would the same movies as Pope Leo, who mentioned his 4 favorite movies:

1. **It’s a Wonderful Life** (1946) — The Hollywood classic starring James Stewart that highlights the profound, unseen impact a single good person’s life has on an entire community.
2. **The Sound of Music** (1965) — The iconic Rodgers and Hammerstein musical starring Julie Andrews, which the Vatican noted balances family devotion with a quiet, moral resistance against Nazi expansion.
3. **Ordinary People** (1980) — Robert Redford’s heavy, emotionally raw drama starring Timothy Hutton, exploring grief, survival guilt, and the deep need for family healing and mercy.
4. **Life Is Beautiful** (_La vita è bella_, 1997) — Roberto Benigni’s moving Italian film about a Jewish father who uses his immense creativity and imagination to shield his young son from the horrors of a Nazi concentration camp.

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Sheep Detectives is a recent release on Prime

Hugh Jackman plays the Shepherd. His flock of sheep investigate his death. Starts slow but surprisingly good. Definitely a family friendly film.

[![](https://img.youtube.com/vi/1NRtuAuhTys/maxresdefault.jpg "The Sheep Detectives | Official Trailer 2") ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1NRtuAuhTys)

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> [@Frazzled](#):
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> I’m not sure about Chicago but I’ll probably recommend that one night.

How about a different Chicago musical: _Robin and the 7 Hoods_, featuring [two-thirds of the Rat Pack](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Robin_and_the_7_Hoods#Cast) with Bing standing in for Peter Lawford.

> [@Frazzled](#):
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> He generally doesn’t like car chases

How about a car chase with music (and the world’s largest pie fight)?

[![](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/9biklE2wA6M/hqdefault.jpg "The Great Race - Original Theatrical Trailer") ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9biklE2wA6M&t=0)

> [@Frazzled](#):
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> gun fights

Maybe if they’re played for laughs?

[Support Your Local Sheriff!](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Support_Your_Local_Sheriff!)

[Support Your Local Gunfighter](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Support_Your_Local_Gunfighter)

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Screwball comedies might be a good area to try. _His Girl Friday_, _The Philadelphia Story_, and _Sullivan’s Travels_ come to mind immediately as likely choices.

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> [@kenobi\_65](#):
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> - Bull Durham
> - Major League
> - Tin Cup

Most of the Ron Shelton films treat profanity as an art form

> [@Llama\_Llogophile](#):
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> **Hunt for Red October**  
> **The Enemy Below**

Also **Das Boot** and **Master and Commander**.

> [@Procrustus](#):
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> Apollo 13 might be good for him.

That occurred to me too, and if Dad likes it then it’s a small jump to **The Martian** ’s near-future hard science fiction.

> [@Ike\_Witt](#):
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> My hard to please father enjoyed ‘O Brother, Where Art Thou’.

That occurred to me also, but it is a bit subversive. Worth a try.

> [@Dropo](#):
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> If your father’s “favorite movie of all time” is _The Sound of Music_, I would take it for granted there is nothing I could recommend that would please him

Yeah, we just don’t know. **Stand By Me** is a possibility. The early 1960s sound track might not be Dad’s cup of tea.

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> [@Baal\_Houtham](#):
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> > [@Ike\_Witt](#):
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> > My hard to please father enjoyed ‘O Brother, Where Art Thou’.
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> That occurred to me also, but it is a bit subversive. Worth a try.

Maybe _The Man Who Wasn’t There_ or _Hail Caesar_? And he might get a kick out of _The Hudsucker Proxy_…

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Some popular musicals

An American in Paris  
Bye Bye Birdie  
Fiddler on the Roof  
Funny Face  
A Funny Thing Happened on the Way to the Forum  
Grease  
Hello Dolly  
The Music Man  
My Fair Lady  
Oliver!  
Stormy Weather  
Willie Wonka and the Chocolate Factory

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I thought about _Hudsucker_ —nostalgia and corporate finance — but remembered the time-stopping and metaphoric battles of good vs evil. There’s just no telling.

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Finian’s Rainbow is dated, but it’s fun and the songs are great.

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Ditto _Guys and Dolls_.

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> [@Happy\_Lendervedder](#):
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> He might like La-La Land. It’s got an old-time Hollywood feel, it’s a musical and it’s pretty much clean as a whistle.

_The Greatest Showman_, a musical with Hugh Jackman as a fictionalized P.T. Barnum. Lots of cleavage in circus costumes but nothing overtly sexual/ Circus freaks – an albino,a dog-faced boy, a bearded lady, etc. – and a brawl that sets Barnum’s museum afire.

For baseball, _Pride of the Yankees_, Gary Cooper in a biopic of Lou Gherig.

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> [@Frazzled](#):
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> He was a banker so he kind of liked Margin Call.

I think he’d get a kick out of _[How to Succeed in Business Without Really Trying.](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/How_to_Succeed_in_Business_Without_Really_Trying_(film))_

Speaking of the Yankees: [_Damn Yankees,_](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Damn_Yankees_(1958_film)) if he wouldn’t mind a musical about a Washington Senators fan offering to sell his soul to the devil to beat them. If that’s an issue, there’s _[Take Me Out to the Ball Game.](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Take_Me_Out_to_the_Ball_Game_(film))_

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This may seem like it’s out of left field, but I’d suggest _Sorcerer_ (1977). I like it a lot myself and virtually all older people I show it to seem to like it a great deal. Unlike many more recent films, it relies on practical FX (which are absolutely awesome) and it captures a period in history that would probably be meaningful to him. It does have some violent scenes, but they are important and brief.

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**“You’ll Find Out!”** is a good movie from 1940, starring Kay Kyser, Boris Karloff, Peter Lorre and Bela Lugosi.

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And since he’s a fan of at least one Rodgers and Hammerstein movie musical:

Carousel

The King and I

Oklahoma!

State Fair

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> [@Baal\_Houtham](#):
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> **Stand By Me** is a possibility. The early 1960s sound track might not be Dad’s cup of tea.

This is in my top 5 movies, but the kids cuss _a lot_.

Another sports movie he’d probably like is _Seabiscuit_, about a champion racehorse during the 30s.

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I know you said no sci-fi – what about fantasy? Do you think he’d like **The Princess Bride**?

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