# RedFury, Xploder:  shame on you

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/redfury-xploder-shame-on-you/317536>\
**Category:** The BBQ Pit\
**Created:** [August 18, 2005, 3:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/redfury-xploder-shame-on-you/317536 "2005-08-18T03:31:02Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)\
**Post date:** [August 18, 2005, 5:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/redfury-xploder-shame-on-you/317536/81 "2005-08-18T17:51:08Z")

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**Xploder and RedFury** , sitting in a tree…  
No, forget it, I remember what happened last time I posted like that.

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**Author:** ![Xploder](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/x/a183cd/32.png) [@Xploder](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Xploder)\
**Post date:** [August 18, 2005, 5:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/redfury-xploder-shame-on-you/317536/82 "2005-08-18T17:56:01Z")

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> [@featherlou](#):
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> **Xploder and RedFury** , sitting in a tree…  
> No, forget it, I remember what happened last time I posted like that.

What, WHAT, WHAT???

Enquiring minds want to know.

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**Author:** ![RedFury](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/ec9cab/32.png) [@RedFury](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RedFury)\
**Post date:** [August 18, 2005, 6:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/redfury-xploder-shame-on-you/317536/83 "2005-08-18T18:02:06Z")

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> [@SkipMagic](#):
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> I smell romance.

Actually, I was simply expressing my regret in having to share the limelight of this momentous occasion with **Xploder** , about whom I know next to nothing of. OTOH, he appears to dislike me quite a bit – so perhaps he wouldn’t mind bowing out gracefully and allow me to bear the brunt of the flames. Flames BTW, that will not only roast my decaying flesh and accelerate my impending demise, but burn the shit outta my glorius wooden cross.

And while we’re at it, **Lib** , you decrepit douchebag, would you fuckin’ stop trying to hijack MY OWN GODAMN PITTING?

Many thanks to all involved. And my Mother. Can’t forget my mom.

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**Author:** ![EddyTeddyFreddy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/eddyteddyfreddy/32/18796_2.png) [@EddyTeddyFreddy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/EddyTeddyFreddy)\
**Post date:** [August 18, 2005, 6:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/redfury-xploder-shame-on-you/317536/84 "2005-08-18T18:21:12Z")

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> [@RedFury](#):
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> Actually, I was simply expressing my regret in having to share the limelight of this momentous occasion with **Xploder** , about whom I know next to nothing of. OTOH, he appears to dislike me quite a bit – so perhaps he wouldn’t mind bowing out gracefully and allow me to bear the brunt of the flames. Flames BTW, that will not only roast my decaying flesh and accelerate my impending demise, but burn the shit outta my glorius wooden cross.
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> And while we’re at it, **Lib** , you decrepit douchebag, would you fuckin’ stop trying to hijack MY OWN GODAMN PITTING?

[Par for the course.](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showpost.php?p=6228917&postcount=9)

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**Author:** ![Xploder](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/x/a183cd/32.png) [@Xploder](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Xploder)\
**Post date:** [August 18, 2005, 6:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/redfury-xploder-shame-on-you/317536/85 "2005-08-18T18:29:08Z")

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> [@RedFury](#):
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> Actually, I was simply expressing my regret in having to share the limelight of this momentous occasion with **Xploder** , about whom I know next to nothing of. OTOH, he appears to dislike me quite a bit – so perhaps he wouldn’t mind bowing out gracefully and allow me to bear the brunt of the flames. Flames BTW, that will not only roast my decaying flesh and accelerate my impending demise, but burn the shit outta my glorius wooden cross.
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> And while we’re at it, **Lib** , you decrepit douchebag, would you fuckin’ stop trying to hijack MY OWN GODAMN PITTING?
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> Many thanks to all involved. And my Mother. Can’t forget my mom.

Hey guy, I know next to nothing about you either. Dislike you? I don’t even KNOW you! My saying I shouldn’t be lumped in with you does NOT mean that I dislike you. It just means that our world viewpoints are not the same and neither is the way that we react to them.

Bow out? I’ve been here fourteen months longer than you and this is **my** first pitting! I also second your request to **lib** but seeing that he’s suspended I don’t think ya gotta worry about that too much.

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**Author:** ![VegemiteMoose](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/df788c/32.png) [@VegemiteMoose](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/VegemiteMoose)\
**Post date:** [August 18, 2005, 6:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/redfury-xploder-shame-on-you/317536/86 "2005-08-18T18:52:26Z")

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With apologies to **RedFury** and **Xploder** for the continued hijack. Damn! And on preview - **Liberal** ’s been suspended, but he can still read, plus I had a reply ready for the other thread and it got closed dammit!

> [@Liberal](#):
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> Effective? What effect? Can you point to people who were vicious before but are now contrite? RedFury? Xploder? Uvula? Yourself? Maybe if I had thought it would make a difference, I would have screamed it from the rooftops, rather than remark about it offhand to Wring. I mentioned it to someone whom I thought might give a shit, who was genuinely inquiring about why I had resolved to stop caring about what you people think. I told him. The usual suspects grabbed it, blew it up into mountainous proportions that I don’t believe it deserves, and are even pitting me for it. The only possible benefit to me is that your continued sniping appears even more third-gradish than before. The undecideds can see you for what you are.

> [@TVeblen](#):
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> I finally locked the thread because the whole dreary mess had already ground on for ten bloody pages. Biggirl’s original point was long gone. It was a bitchfest about Lib and nothing more. It was heated, on both sides, so it was predictable as sunrise that it would crop right back up in a new Pit thread. See? No censorship, no stifling peoples’ ability to speak their minds. Just a clean slate to do it on, with Lib as the specified subject and without War and Peace to wade through.
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> **IMO, Lib’s announcement of impending death ratched this whole unlovely mess onto a different level, and was an obvious signal to close the old thread.**

\*bolding mine

I think this would be the effect that is being referred to.

You have over 23, 000 posts and are really claiming that “you mentioned it to **wring** ”? You didn’t realize that _everyone else_ could read that as well? I think not.

And take your medication you doorknob.

Now back to the **RedFury** and **Xploder** fun time variety hour. Oh and just so it’s not a complete hijack - you two should be ashamed of … um … oh let’s say: having the temerity to post your convictions. For Shaaaaame. Nah, that’d be lame. 😉

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**Author:** ![CarnalK](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/carnalk/32/486_2.png) [@CarnalK](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CarnalK)\
**Post date:** [August 18, 2005, 7:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/redfury-xploder-shame-on-you/317536/87 "2005-08-18T19:00:58Z")

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**VegemiteMoose** , it is unseemly to bash a person who cannot defend himself.  
I felt a void; posting that somehow filled it.

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**Author:** ![RedFury](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/ec9cab/32.png) [@RedFury](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RedFury)\
**Post date:** [August 18, 2005, 7:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/redfury-xploder-shame-on-you/317536/88 "2005-08-18T19:01:17Z")

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> [@Xploder](#):
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> Hey guy, I know next to nothing about you either. Dislike you? I don’t even KNOW you! My saying I shouldn’t be lumped in with you does NOT mean that I dislike you. It just means that our world viewpoints are not the same and neither is the way that we react to them.

Fair enough. But since I don’t even know what your worldviews _are_, I’m not sure what our differences might be.

> [@](#):
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> Bow out? I’ve been here fourteen months longer than you and this is **my** first pitting!

_:::head down, kicks rock:::_

Well…alright, I s’ppose we can share.

> [@](#):
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> I also second your request to **lib** but seeing that he’s suspended I don’t think ya gotta worry about that too much.

No shit?! :eek:

Methinks I’ll call it “Revenge Of The Turds.”

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**Author:** ![Darkhold](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/90db22/32.png) [@Darkhold](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Darkhold)\
**Post date:** [August 18, 2005, 7:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/redfury-xploder-shame-on-you/317536/89 "2005-08-18T19:03:24Z")

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> [@CarnalK](#):
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> **VegemiteMoose** , it is unseemly to bash a person who cannot defend himself.  
> I felt a void; posting that somehow filled it.

please please this is one void that should remain unfilled.

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**Author:** ![VegemiteMoose](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/df788c/32.png) [@VegemiteMoose](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/VegemiteMoose)\
**Post date:** [August 18, 2005, 7:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/redfury-xploder-shame-on-you/317536/90 "2005-08-18T19:10:27Z")

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> [@CarnalK](#):
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> **VegemiteMoose** , it is unseemly to bash a person who cannot defend himself.

Yes I know. Normally I wouldn’t, but it was ready to go and I was just on preview when the suspension came up. So, my bad for giving into temptation.

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**Author:** ![Cervaise](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cervaise/32/16693_2.png) [@Cervaise](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cervaise)\
**Post date:** [August 18, 2005, 7:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/redfury-xploder-shame-on-you/317536/91 "2005-08-18T19:12:10Z")

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> [@Liberal](#):
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> Biological life is trivial. It isn’t even real. The universe is an illusion.

Can I have your stapler?

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**Author:** ![Darkhold](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/90db22/32.png) [@Darkhold](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Darkhold)\
**Post date:** [August 18, 2005, 7:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/redfury-xploder-shame-on-you/317536/92 "2005-08-18T19:14:00Z")

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> [@VegemiteMoose](#):
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> Yes I know. Normally I wouldn’t, but it was ready to go and I was just on preview when the suspension came up. So, my bad for giving into temptation.

Whooosh. (I’ve always wanted to say that)

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**Author:** ![VegemiteMoose](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/df788c/32.png) [@VegemiteMoose](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/VegemiteMoose)\
**Post date:** [August 18, 2005, 7:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/redfury-xploder-shame-on-you/317536/93 "2005-08-18T19:19:15Z")

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> [@Darkhold](#):
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> Whooosh. (I’ve always wanted to say that)

Glad I could help. 🙂

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**Author:** ![Wolfian](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/7ea924/32.png) [@Wolfian](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Wolfian)\
**Post date:** [August 18, 2005, 8:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/redfury-xploder-shame-on-you/317536/94 "2005-08-18T20:06:04Z")

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> [@Liberal](#):
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> Biological life is trivial. It isn’t even real. The universe is an illusion.

Anyone else have “Dust in the Wind” stuck in their heads now?

On another note, there’s a suspended label now? Back in my day you just had a big BANNED slapped on you.

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**Author:** ![ElvisL1ves](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/5daacb/32.png) [@ElvisL1ves](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ElvisL1ves)\
**Post date:** [August 18, 2005, 8:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/redfury-xploder-shame-on-you/317536/95 "2005-08-18T20:10:05Z")

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> [@CarnalK](#):
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> it is unseemly to bash a person who cannot defend himself.

Meh. He’s reading it anyway.

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**Author:** ![Queen\_Tonya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/q/4491bb/32.png) [@Queen\_Tonya](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Queen_Tonya)\
**Post date:** [August 18, 2005, 8:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/redfury-xploder-shame-on-you/317536/96 "2005-08-18T20:10:41Z")

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> [@Hentor the Barbarian](#):
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> But hey, I’ve got lumps on my arms, legs and torso (they’re called lipomas, and are entirely benign - I’ve even had one removed and checked out), and I have high cholesterol, and I’m getting soft in the middle, and my father died from cancer, and my hairline is receding, and I don’t exercise enough!

That’s hot.

How _you_ doin’? 😉

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**Author:** ![Bryan\_Ekers](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bryan_ekers/32/183_2.png) [@Bryan\_Ekers](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bryan_Ekers)\
**Post date:** [August 18, 2005, 8:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/redfury-xploder-shame-on-you/317536/97 "2005-08-18T20:36:53Z")

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Hey, whether he’s a lyin’ schmuck or a dyin’ schmuck, he’s still a schmuck.

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**Author:** ![Harborwolf](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/c89c15/32.png) [@Harborwolf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Harborwolf)\
**Post date:** [August 18, 2005, 8:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/redfury-xploder-shame-on-you/317536/98 "2005-08-18T20:52:06Z")

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> [@Liberal](#):
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> It’s frankly too hard to keep straight: who are the people who think I’m too pithy, and who are they who think I’m too verbose? Would you kindly form lines to the left and right? 😛

You always start pithy and wind up verbothe.

Altho, you should thee thomeone about that lithp. Thuch thingth should not thpill over on to methage boardth. 😃

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**Author:** ![Loopydude](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/e56c9b/32.png) [@Loopydude](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Loopydude)\
**Post date:** [August 18, 2005, 8:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/redfury-xploder-shame-on-you/317536/99 "2005-08-18T20:59:21Z")

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Part of the reason I stopped replying to **Liberal** is he brought out the worst in me. And my worst can be pretty bad. Seems I’m not alone in that department.

I figured out I was being manipulated, so I never beat myself up over my poor behavior. I just decided “this isn’t worth it.”

I don’t know what to make of **Lib** ’s announcement, but I do know I’d be kept up at nights if I taunted a dying man, no matter how poorly I got along with him. I’ll assume he’s being truthful, to play it safe. I’ll ignore the manner of announcement, because I don’t care anymore about that sort of thing. For your own sakes, wish him good health, and leave this alone.

Good health, **Liberal**. Or, at least, may the rest of your shortened days be peaceful.

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**Author:** ![Merijeek](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f05b48/32.png) [@Merijeek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Merijeek)\
**Post date:** [August 18, 2005, 9:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/redfury-xploder-shame-on-you/317536/100 "2005-08-18T21:38:58Z")

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> [@Hentor the Barbarian](#):
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> I want multiple threads about me!

Well, **Reeder** ’s position is open. 😉

It is, apparently, acceptable to hijack threads all you want since it doesn’t count as being a jerk. So, in a year or two that position will be open, too.

There’s many paths to sucess. You Libruls are just too coddled to find them. 😛

-Joe

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