**Just like many dysfunctional families. I’ve noticed a tendency among some Christians to wave off certain behavior in the way you describe, providing the “sinner” professes Jesus as Lord. In the meantime a morally decent person who doesn’t see Jesus as Lord is still lost. It’s as if praising Jesus verbally is more important than the actual behavior of the person. I’ve seen similar behavior in families where blood is what matters.You’re expected to overlook bad behavior for the sake of the family. That’s one of the reasons I stress focusing on the actions and making people wholly responsible for their behavior. I also point out to Christians how much behavior is stressed in the NT. **
Gee, I wonder where that tendency comes from. One guess.
My opinion of xian belief, as I held it, was that the actual behavior was in fact not the most important consideration and that belief in JC was more important hence the oft-repeated phrase from the NT that no man will see the father without JC regardless, implicitly, of how decent a ‘moral’ person he is. A concept reaffirmed there in the last pages of the book that’s initially put forth with the Abraham story of choosing god over morality by setting about killing your own son. It was a test of faith. A test of faith not in morality, but in god. The correct moral test, if that were to have been the case, would have been for Abe to refuse god and for god to say ‘good job, Abe, that was the test.’ As we know, that’s not how it goes. And that says it all; that tenor continues abated through the ‘nobody comes to the father but through me’ bit in the NT. God’s name is Jealous. That’s literally true and stated verbatim in every translation of the bible in the OT. Seems to me that a cigar is a cigar.
Now, if other folks come along later and peruse that book and like this part and that part and so on then so be it but that’s not what I’m referring to by religion; that’s just a person that treats the bible as literature and is a secular humanist.
As for Icarus and the Wright Brothers, whether or not technological progress is a good thing is a whole other discussion which is what’s implied in that statement but nonetheless it seems to me that even if that’s true, we’re beyond Icarus now. These beliefs, after all, from millenia past were literally borne of a time when human beings had physically smaller brains with ideas passed down through time and arriving and informing the Icarus mythology folks. I’m hoping we’re progressing and seeing antiquated heuristics as just that. I don’t believe the 9/11 hijackers are doing so. That was evil not simply done in the name of religion, but in fact motivated by religious belief. It was a net negative to secular morality in my view no matter how many poor people were sheltered and fed by those same ideologically dogmatic 9/11 hijacker-type folks because helping others, as posited in the OP, is more arguably something one can convince someone about as opposed to convincing someone to kill themselves by blowing up a building. The impact of religious belief is more pernicious on the whole with its utility being more effectively essential in persuasions towards evil than towards good. That’s my view and it seems to be borne out by a reasonable reading of current events, history, logic, and common sense.
**I have no idea what we might eventually discover about consciousness and other areas where we’ve only begun to explore. I think religion with all it’s problems is a legitimate way for the average person to explore.
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Depends on the person doing the exploring, of course. But aside from the variants in people that are psycho anyway, I think religion is a highly dubious way to explore meanings given its track record and the very nature of the afterworld premise. It literally includes a consideration that everyone else is leaving out: what happens after you die. And that can’t just be dismissed. It’s critical to religious people that they don’t ‘gain the world’ by losing their souls and it’s often critical to secularists that afterworld considerations be tabled – a request, of course, that is literally impossible to do for the fundamentalists that are devout.
The Israeli/Palestinian argument is one example. One can look at that six hundred different ways through cynical perspectives, power plays, etc. where actually secular people just use religion as an excuse for their own desires. However, they’d have just used something else if there wasn’t religion. But for the other people in that issue – the ones not using religion as an excuse but genuinely motivated by it as their reason for their intractable position – religion fucks things up. It’s not enough to dismiss it; some ideas are truly dangerous and pernicious. Religion doesn’t get a pass, being an idea itself, as inexorably a ‘good’ idea that can simply be ‘misused’ or a ‘neutral’ idea that can be good or bad. There can be, IMO, such a thing as a bad idea on the whole. I believe religion is one of them.
**Having gone through a few belief changes I understand what you’re describing. I do see that people hold on to certain beliefs out of habit or tradition. I also think there is a certain desire to be part of a group. A feeling of belonging and security. Whatever it is it’s strong enough that people accept a lot of whatever the group doctrine is. I don’t belong to any organized religion but I understand the desire to feel a part of something. I can go to a service and enjoy the spirit in the room. I don’t think it matters whether we cloak our group affiliation with secular terms or religious ones. As long as people draw unnecessary lines of separation and form an US vs. THEM mentality similar problems will continue.
btw, stressing the behavior, the action and it’s consequences, is a good way for people to start looking at beliefs in an a la carte fashion. When people focus on behavior and consequences they have a priority shift which makes letting go of certain beliefs a lot easier.**
Sure, but once religion is looked at from a secular perspective it becomes a different thing since religion typically forbids that very thing from being done. Questioning is doubting. It’s very anti-intellectual and resistant to secular analysis in its very construction for believers. There are tons of stories of people feeling terrified of losing their souls for questioning their beliefs. Those are sincere.
As for judging based on behaviors and actions, it’s moot for suicide bombers. They’re already dead, as are their victims. Also, their interpretation of the results of their actions would, be definition, differ from yours and the dead can’t be punished or held accountable.