# Remember, remember, the rants of November

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/remember-remember-the-rants-of-november/639560>\
**Category:** The BBQ Pit\
**Created:** [November 1, 2012, 1:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/remember-remember-the-rants-of-november/639560 "2012-11-01T13:52:52Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![flatlined](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/eb9ed0/32.png) [@flatlined](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/flatlined)\
**Post date:** [November 9, 2012, 2:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/remember-remember-the-rants-of-november/639560/181 "2012-11-09T02:50:28Z")

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> [@Diamonds02](#):
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> Fuck alla y’all! Now, I can only post one thread per week. All because of fuckers reporting me.
> 
> So many threads, so little time. The one thread I posted this week has been locked!
> 
> Fuck alla y’all! :mad:

I think that you misunderstand the rule. There was a thread about it in [ATMB](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=666804&highlight=diamonds02). The rule is that you can just start one thread a week. You can post in any thread that you want…just like you did here.

As I’ve said in the past, I enjoy your threads. I’ve never met someone with such an interesting perspective on life. There are a lot of interesting threads posted here, but I know that when I open one of yours, I will go HOLY COW! and then follow it.

> [@bobkitty](#):
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> I am often just AMAZED at the level people listen to their music at on public transportation. All I can think is the hearing aid industry is going to LOVE the younger generation.

When the shredder is going, its about as loud as standing next to a running semi. The interns will have their music up so loud that I can hear it when I go to talk to them about something. Maybe now is a good time to start investing in the hearing aid industry because they are going to be totally deaf by the time they are 30.

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**Author:** ![moejoe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/9de053/32.png) [@moejoe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/moejoe)\
**Post date:** [November 9, 2012, 2:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/remember-remember-the-rants-of-november/639560/182 "2012-11-09T02:51:08Z")

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I did it. I quit my good on paper but soul killing job (in this economy) and packed up my stuff and moved to a really beautiful place with very nice people and got another good on paper job before my savings ran out (in this economy) and…I hate it.

Why did I sell out and get another normal gig? Why didn’t I man up and use that savings to open a little book store or something and have a real life?

Now I live in a prettier, much nicer place, so there’s that, but all of the work problems that led to this big life change have just followed me here. As they do, right? And I don’t think I’ll ever get a second chance to do it right.

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**Author:** ![Seanette](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/seanette/32/9139_2.png) [@Seanette](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Seanette)\
**Post date:** [November 9, 2012, 3:43am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/remember-remember-the-rants-of-november/639560/183 "2012-11-09T03:43:00Z")

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> [@bobkitty](#):
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> I am often just AMAZED at the level people listen to their music at on public transportation. All I can think is the hearing aid industry is going to LOVE the younger generation.

Between iPods (and similar personal devices) and boom cars, you’re right, I think.

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**Author:** ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)\
**Post date:** [November 9, 2012, 3:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/remember-remember-the-rants-of-november/639560/184 "2012-11-09T03:58:49Z")

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> [@moejoe](#):
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> I did it. I quit my good on paper but soul killing job (in this economy) and packed up my stuff and moved to a really beautiful place with very nice people and got another good on paper job before my savings ran out (in this economy) and…I hate it.
> 
> Why did I sell out and get another normal gig? Why didn’t I man up and use that savings to open a little book store or something and have a real life?
> 
> Now I live in a prettier, much nicer place, so there’s that, but all of the work problems that led to this big life change have just followed me here. As they do, right? And I don’t think I’ll ever get a second chance to do it right.

Start saving again, and make a plan to open that little bookstore or something - now you would be able to do it in a prettier, much nicer place. I think you’re getting somewhere - you’re just not quite there yet.

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**Author:** ![moejoe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/9de053/32.png) [@moejoe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/moejoe)\
**Post date:** [November 9, 2012, 4:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/remember-remember-the-rants-of-november/639560/185 "2012-11-09T04:24:25Z")

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> [@Cat\_Whisperer](#):
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> Start saving again, and make a plan to open that little bookstore or something - now you would be able to do it in a prettier, much nicer place. I think you’re getting somewhere - you’re just not quite there yet.

Maybe you just said this because it’s what people say, but I really needed to hear it, so thank you. I think I’ll write this down:

you’re getting somewhere - you’re just not quite there yet

and keep it in my pocket for the rough days.

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**Author:** ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)\
**Post date:** [November 9, 2012, 6:16am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/remember-remember-the-rants-of-november/639560/186 "2012-11-09T06:16:27Z")

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> [@moejoe](#):
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> Maybe you just said this because it’s what people say, but I really needed to hear it, so thank you. I think I’ll write this down:
> 
> you’re getting somewhere - you’re just not quite there yet
> 
> and keep it in my pocket for the rough days.

Nope, I said it because I believe it - it can be hard to see where you’re at from your own shoes, and sometimes you need an outsider’s perspective. Glad I could help. 🙂

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**Author:** ![Nava](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/da6949/32.png) [@Nava](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nava)\
**Post date:** [November 9, 2012, 6:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/remember-remember-the-rants-of-november/639560/187 "2012-11-09T06:20:31Z")

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You’re already in a prettier, much nicer place. Next step, a better job (which may or may not be a pretty little bookstore… maybe a hearing aids store? It seems to be a growing market worldwide). Step by step.

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**Author:** ![lizlizliz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/db5fbb/32.png) [@lizlizliz](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lizlizliz)\
**Post date:** [November 9, 2012, 6:54am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/remember-remember-the-rants-of-november/639560/188 "2012-11-09T06:54:53Z")

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Ann Coulter is speaking at my school next month.  
I do not plan on attending, nor will I participate in any of the dumb attempts to get the school to un-invite her because it’s fruitless at this point. But…her? I find it hard to believe College Republicans couldn’t find someone less offensive.

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**Author:** ![MegaBee](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f0a364/32.png) [@MegaBee](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MegaBee)\
**Post date:** [November 9, 2012, 12:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/remember-remember-the-rants-of-november/639560/189 "2012-11-09T12:46:56Z")

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> [@Diamonds02](#):
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> Fuck alla y’all! Now, I can only post one thread per week. All because of fuckers reporting me.
> 
> So many threads, so little time. The one thread I posted this week has been locked!
> 
> Fuck alla y’all! :mad:

Was it the thread where you were talking about the best ways to run scams?

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**Author:** ![Cinnamon\_Imp](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/58956e/32.png) [@Cinnamon\_Imp](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cinnamon_Imp)\
**Post date:** [November 9, 2012, 1:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/remember-remember-the-rants-of-november/639560/190 "2012-11-09T13:33:31Z")

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Damn you facebook.

One of my RL friends is pissing me off online, but is usually okay in real life. I don’t want to risk the friendship by putting her on “restricted”, but it looked like “acquaintances” was subtler, and she might not notice if I put her on that list.

(yes, I know people shouldn’t be able to tell if they’re Restricted either, but I once got a furious text from a different pissed off former friend, who could obviously see the difference!)

So a lot of my posts are now for “friends only, except acquaintances” and that’s fine, I can post mundane things about my life without worrying that she’s going to do a snarky, one-upping reply.

But, I’ve got a custom friends list for local mums, and I would like her to still see when I post PSAs for upcoming events and local offers in it. It looks like although it says “custom list, except restricted” it actually means “custom list, except for restricted \*\*and \*\*acquaintances” as she didn’t seem to see yesterdays update.

TLDR - I’m a bitchy friend and want to hide only \*\*some \*\*shit from a so-called friend on facebook!

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**Author:** ![Lynn\_Bodoni](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/e47c2d/32.png) [@Lynn\_Bodoni](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lynn_Bodoni)\
**Post date:** [November 9, 2012, 2:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/remember-remember-the-rants-of-november/639560/191 "2012-11-09T14:36:40Z")

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> [@MegaBee](#):
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> Was it the thread where you were talking about the best ways to run scams?

Yeah, she started a thread about, among other things, how to break the law.

Of course there are OTHER message boards which might allow such threads, but we do tend to take a dim view of those threads on the SDMB.

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**Author:** ![Spice\_Weasel](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/spice_weasel/32/5435_2.png) [@Spice\_Weasel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spice_Weasel)\
**Post date:** [November 9, 2012, 3:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/remember-remember-the-rants-of-november/639560/192 "2012-11-09T15:15:28Z")

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What in the blue hairy fuck? Apparently my life will stop at nothing to prevent me from getting work done. Yesterday I broke the office printer and this morning I blew a fuse. Resetting it didn’t work and my boss is out sick. The only functioning computers are down.

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**Author:** ![EmilyG](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/emilyg/32/364_2.png) [@EmilyG](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/EmilyG)\
**Post date:** [November 9, 2012, 11:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/remember-remember-the-rants-of-november/639560/193 "2012-11-09T23:04:57Z")

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> [@Missy2U](#):
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> You are aware, are you not, that in this circumstance, shoving the iPod up their nose sideways is a completely acceptable solution, right? And one I would pay to see?

Ride the bus with me sometime, and I’ll try it. 🆒

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**Author:** ![Chimera](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/8e8cbc/32.png) [@Chimera](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chimera)\
**Post date:** [November 9, 2012, 11:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/remember-remember-the-rants-of-november/639560/194 "2012-11-09T23:24:33Z")

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> [@Diamonds02](#):
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> Fuck alla y’all! Now, I can only post one thread per week. All because of fuckers reporting me.

Dial back the stupid.

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**Author:** ![flatlined](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/eb9ed0/32.png) [@flatlined](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/flatlined)\
**Post date:** [November 10, 2012, 1:43am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/remember-remember-the-rants-of-november/639560/195 "2012-11-10T01:43:34Z")

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I have kittens. Cute, cuddly, healthy-looking, playful kittens. I also have the mama. What I don’t have is a good phone number for the mama’s owner.

I stopped at a grocery store on the way home tonight and someone was giving away kittens. She had the mama as well, so I offered to take them all, put the kittens up for adoption and have the mama fixed and returned to her.

The lady seemed to think that was great, took my card and wrote her phone number down for me while I was putting the kittehs into my carrier. (Of course I have a carrier in my trunk, doesn’t everyone?)

When I got my new guests settled in, mama used the litterbox and her output was disturbing. I tried to call the lady to ask what mama had been eating and it wasn’t a working number.

The lady has my contact info, but I don’t expect to hear from her. I shouldn’t be this cynical, but I’ve come to realize that when it comes to irresponsible pet owners, they will lie when the truth will do.

Its better this way…mama will get a home with someone who wants her, and what a sweet lil girl she is too.

They will all go to the vet on Tuesday. The lady said the kittens were 8 weeks old, but I think they are younger than that. Our awesome vet will make the decision if they are all ready to be fixed now or if they should wait a week or 2.

I never know if I should put the rescue stuff in the mini rant threads or the workplace griping thread because rescue really is my second job, even if I don’t get paid for it. I typed this here, so I’ll leave it here. If you guys want to make a choice for me, I will happily abide by your wishes.

tl/dr: I tried to do a favor for a stranger and she lied to me. I’m not shocked that it happened, but I am grumbly.

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**Author:** ![Faruiza](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/ecd19e/32.png) [@Faruiza](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Faruiza)\
**Post date:** [November 10, 2012, 1:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/remember-remember-the-rants-of-november/639560/196 "2012-11-10T01:57:40Z")

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What was disturbing about the output?

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**Author:** ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)\
**Post date:** [November 10, 2012, 2:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/remember-remember-the-rants-of-november/639560/197 "2012-11-10T02:29:47Z")

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It probably is for the best, **flatlined**. As you say, the mama and babies will go to other people who will do (hopefully) better by the kitties.

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**Author:** ![flatlined](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/eb9ed0/32.png) [@flatlined](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/flatlined)\
**Post date:** [November 10, 2012, 2:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/remember-remember-the-rants-of-november/639560/198 "2012-11-10T02:32:12Z")

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> [@Faruiza](#):
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> What was disturbing about the output?

How do I make a spoiler?

For those who wonder but won’t click the spoiler thingy…mama appeared to have been eating out of garbage cans. She doesn’t seem to be in any distress, so I’m not very worried.

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**Author:** ![Ferret\_Herder](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/e47774/32.png) [@Ferret\_Herder](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ferret_Herder)\
**Post date:** [November 10, 2012, 2:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/remember-remember-the-rants-of-november/639560/199 "2012-11-10T02:52:36Z")

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> [@flatlined](#):
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> How do I make a spoiler?
> 
> For those who wonder but won’t click the spoiler thingy…mama appeared to have been eating out of garbage cans. She doesn’t seem to be in any distress, so I’m not very worried.

To make a spoiler, type [spoiler] [/ spoiler] around what you want to spoil - remove the extra spaces between the brackets and the word “spoiler”.

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**Author:** ![Miller](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/miller/32/481_2.png) [@Miller](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Miller)\
**Post date:** [November 10, 2012, 4:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/remember-remember-the-rants-of-november/639560/200 "2012-11-10T04:19:07Z")

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> [@Diamonds02](#):
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> So many threads, so little time.

And so little value.

[Moderating]  
**Diamonds** , saying “fuck you” to other posters is a violation of the Pit’s language rules. Don’t do this again.

No warning issued.  
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