# Removing "reply to" from a post

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**Created:** [December 31, 2024, 4:54am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/removing-reply-to-from-a-post/1012368 "2024-12-31T04:54:12Z")\
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**Author:** ![Peter\_Morris](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/peter_morris/32/359_2.png) [@Peter\_Morris](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Peter_Morris)\
**Post date:** [December 31, 2024, 4:54am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/removing-reply-to-from-a-post/1012368/1 "2024-12-31T04:54:12Z")

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Sometimes when I post in a thread I accidentally reply to a particular poster, rather than to the thread itself. The person gets a note of a reply, even though my post doesn’t address them directly.

I’ve tried editing, but I can’t find a way to remove the reference. Is there a way?

Not an enormous problem, but it is somewhat annoying.

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**Author:** ![Joey\_P](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/919ad9/32.png) [@Joey\_P](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Joey_P)\
**Post date:** [December 31, 2024, 5:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/removing-reply-to-from-a-post/1012368/2 "2024-12-31T05:13:25Z")

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At the top left of the reply box is an arrow. Click it, then click “Reply To Topic”.

Alternatively, copy the post, close/discard the reply, then reply to the thread and paste what you were about to post.  
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here’s the arrow  
[![](https://i.imgur.com/OuNTFZT.png) ](https://i.imgur.com/OuNTFZT.png)

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**Author:** ![Joey\_P](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/919ad9/32.png) [@Joey\_P](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Joey_P)\
**Post date:** [December 31, 2024, 5:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/removing-reply-to-from-a-post/1012368/3 "2024-12-31T05:20:15Z")

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> [@Peter\_Morris](#):
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> Sometimes when I post in a thread I accidentally reply to a particular poster, rather than to the thread itself.

FWIW, you can also do this in reverse. You can, even after you’ve started typing a reply, click the reply button in someone’s post and it’ll now be a reply to them instead of to the topic itself. If it’s already a reply to a person, you can do this to change which post/poster it’s directed at.

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**Author:** ![LSLGuy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lslguy/32/5813_2.png) [@LSLGuy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LSLGuy)\
**Post date:** [December 31, 2024, 11:35am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/removing-reply-to-from-a-post/1012368/4 "2024-12-31T11:35:50Z")

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This is a test of replying directly to **Joey\_P** ’s post #2, saving my post, then later editing it to reply to the thread overall.

Here’s the reply to him.

And now on edit his cited [change where the post is going] feature doesn’t exist.

My conclusion FWIW:  
Once you begin a post you can always change who it replies to by simply copying your entire text onto the clipboard, discarding your not-yet-posted post, then opening a new one replying to the correct target. Be that the whole thread or the same or a different post or poster in it.

Likewise you can switch back from [reply to poster] to [reply to thread] or via **Joey\_P** ’s technique. There’s even a feature where if you start out with [reply to thread] you can change that to [reply to last post] which isn’t quite the same thing.

Once posted though, your post is permanently attached to whatever it replied to. That target can’t be changed in a subsequent edit. Which I believe was the OP’s goal: editing the target after posting

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**Author:** ![Joey\_P](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/919ad9/32.png) [@Joey\_P](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Joey_P)\
**Post date:** [December 31, 2024, 12:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/removing-reply-to-from-a-post/1012368/5 "2024-12-31T12:55:20Z")

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> [@LSLGuy](#):
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> Once posted though, your post is permanently attached to whatever it replied to. That target can’t be changed in a subsequent edit. Which I believe was the OP’s goal: editing the target after posting

That I don’t think I was aware of, but when I make that mistake, I think I usually either explain the mistake or leave it alone and assume the other person will figure out that it wasn’t meant as a reply to them. Sometimes it seems like discourse went out of it’s way to make replies more confusing than they need to be.

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**Author:** ![Joey\_P](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/919ad9/32.png) [@Joey\_P](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Joey_P)\
**Post date:** [December 31, 2024, 12:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/removing-reply-to-from-a-post/1012368/6 "2024-12-31T12:57:00Z")

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testing

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**Author:** ![Peter\_Morris](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/peter_morris/32/359_2.png) [@Peter\_Morris](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Peter_Morris)\
**Post date:** [December 31, 2024, 2:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/removing-reply-to-from-a-post/1012368/7 "2024-12-31T14:19:34Z")

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> [@LSLGuy](#):
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> Which I believe was the OP’s goal: editing the target after posting

That is correct.

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**Author:** ![TriPolar](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tripolar/32/3008_2.png) [@TriPolar](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TriPolar)\
**Post date:** [December 31, 2024, 2:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/removing-reply-to-from-a-post/1012368/8 "2024-12-31T14:56:59Z")

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If I realize I responded to the wrong person, and already hit reply, and can’t discard the post, at a minimum I’ll add an @Dopername to the message, or quote something from the right post.

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**Author:** ![LSLGuy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lslguy/32/5813_2.png) [@LSLGuy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LSLGuy)\
**Post date:** [December 31, 2024, 3:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/removing-reply-to-from-a-post/1012368/9 "2024-12-31T15:25:37Z")

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This.

Often I’ll be replying to the last post of the thread by clicking the thread reply, then blabbering away verbosely for minutes while 2 or 3 other posts sneak in. Then I submit my post which now makes no sense in the context below those intervenors.

Time to edit in a  
ETA: @SoandSo two posts up.  
at the top.

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**Author:** ![Atamasama](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/atamasama/32/12961_2.png) [@Atamasama](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Atamasama)\
**Post date:** [December 31, 2024, 10:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/removing-reply-to-from-a-post/1012368/10 "2024-12-31T22:43:07Z")

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> [@Joey\_P](#):
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> Sometimes it seems like discourse went out of it’s way to make replies more confusing than they need to be.

I think it’s trying to “help” in a lot of cases, but ends up doing the opposite.
