# Responses to a Post

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/responses-to-a-post/636723>\
**Category:** About This Message Board\
**Created:** [October 4, 2012, 6:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/responses-to-a-post/636723 "2012-10-04T18:05:13Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Jake](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/f475e1/32.png) [@Jake](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jake)\
**Post date:** [October 4, 2012, 6:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/responses-to-a-post/636723/1 "2012-10-04T18:05:13Z")

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If a post of mine has been answered to my satisfaction, and is way down on the page, how do I thank the people who have responded without bumping my post back up to the top?

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**Author:** ![Munch](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/munch/32/5281_2.png) [@Munch](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Munch)\
**Post date:** [October 4, 2012, 6:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/responses-to-a-post/636723/2 "2012-10-04T18:06:26Z")

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Uh, just post a thank you. People appreciate that far more than a bump annoys them. (WAY more, in fact.)

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**Author:** ![Smeghead](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f1d935/32.png) [@Smeghead](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Smeghead)\
**Post date:** [October 4, 2012, 6:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/responses-to-a-post/636723/3 "2012-10-04T18:48:09Z")

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You can either bump the thread or PM everyone you wish to thank.

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**Author:** ![lieu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/c2a13f/32.png) [@lieu](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lieu)\
**Post date:** [October 4, 2012, 7:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/responses-to-a-post/636723/4 "2012-10-04T19:02:47Z")

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You could start with a 6 pack.

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**Author:** ![Jake](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/f475e1/32.png) [@Jake](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jake)\
**Post date:** [October 4, 2012, 7:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/responses-to-a-post/636723/5 "2012-10-04T19:03:25Z")

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> [@Munch](#):
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> Uh, just post a thank you. People appreciate that far more than a bump annoys them. (WAY more, in fact.)

And a Thank You post will bump the post anyway. 😕

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**Author:** ![Czarcasm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/czarcasm/32/4050_2.png) [@Czarcasm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Czarcasm)\
**Post date:** [October 4, 2012, 7:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/responses-to-a-post/636723/6 "2012-10-04T19:06:19Z")

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> [@Jake](#):
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> And a Thank You post will bump the post anyway. 😕

I guess that if you don’t want the thread to be bumped you could always send private messages.

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**Author:** ![Noone\_Special](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/noone_special/32/2863_2.png) [@Noone\_Special](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Noone_Special)\
**Post date:** [October 4, 2012, 7:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/responses-to-a-post/636723/7 "2012-10-04T19:10:07Z")

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Most of the forums here are fast moving. If nobody posts after your bump, rest assured your thread will fall off the main page in a timely manner.  
If someone else **does** post, although your question has been answered – well, maybe there’s something more to be learned there!

And people always appreciate a thank-you.

Win-win-win.

Just post your “thank you” post 🙂

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**Author:** ![Thudlow\_Boink](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/thudlow_boink/32/320_2.png) [@Thudlow\_Boink](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Thudlow_Boink)\
**Post date:** [October 4, 2012, 7:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/responses-to-a-post/636723/8 "2012-10-04T19:34:26Z")

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[QUOTE=C K Dexter Haven]  
**Bumping your own thread**  
If you start a thread, and after a while think you would like more comments on it, you may be tempted to “bump” the thread by adding a post to make the thread reappear back at the top of the forum list. We strongly discourage this practice, but since the boards are so busy sometimes a single “bump” will bring about good results.

Our guidelines:  
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[li]Wait until a suitable time has elapsed (at least, until your thread is no longer visible on the first page of the forum) [/li][li]Bump your thread only once [/li][li]Do not make a habit of always bumping each of your threads [/li][li]When you bump your own thread, it is preferrable to include additional information relevant to the original post, which may encourage others to respond [/li][li] **Posting a thank you to those who responded to your question is not considered a “bump”** [/ul][/li][/QUOTE]  
(from the [“Guidelines and Etiquette” FAQ](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=384745))

Note especially the last bullet point (bolding mine). Go ahead and post your “thank you.”

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**Author:** ![Smeghead](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f1d935/32.png) [@Smeghead](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Smeghead)\
**Post date:** [October 4, 2012, 7:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/responses-to-a-post/636723/9 "2012-10-04T19:35:21Z")

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> [@Jake](#):
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> And a Thank You post will bump the post anyway. 😕

Yes, that’s kind of the point everyone is making. You cannot post in a thread - even if you say “thank you” - without bumping it. So your options are to bump it with a thank you, or send everyone private messages, or do neither. You cannot post a thank you without bumping it.

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**Author:** ![Munch](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/munch/32/5281_2.png) [@Munch](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Munch)\
**Post date:** [October 4, 2012, 8:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/responses-to-a-post/636723/10 "2012-10-04T20:14:10Z")

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> [@Jake](#):
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> And a Thank You post will bump the post anyway. 😕

Uh, yeah? I’m saying that a thank you is worth far more than the mere annoyance of a thread being bumped - because no one cares about threads being bumped. i.e. I’m willing to go through the trouble of putting on pants if it means I can open the door so that Ed McMahon can hand me a giant check.

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**Author:** ![Thudlow\_Boink](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/thudlow_boink/32/320_2.png) [@Thudlow\_Boink](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Thudlow_Boink)\
**Post date:** [October 4, 2012, 8:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/responses-to-a-post/636723/11 "2012-10-04T20:34:08Z")

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I’d be really leery of opening the door for Ed McMahon, seeing as how he’s dead and all.

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**Author:** ![Czarcasm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/czarcasm/32/4050_2.png) [@Czarcasm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Czarcasm)\
**Post date:** [October 4, 2012, 8:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/responses-to-a-post/636723/12 "2012-10-04T20:36:07Z")

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> [@Thudlow\_Boink](#):
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> I’d be really leery of opening the door for Ed McMahon, seeing as how he’s dead and all.

On the other hand, being dead he really isn’t going to care if you are wearing pants.

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**Author:** ![Munch](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/munch/32/5281_2.png) [@Munch](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Munch)\
**Post date:** [October 4, 2012, 8:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/responses-to-a-post/636723/13 "2012-10-04T20:42:11Z")

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I think even zombie Ed McMahon wants me to wear pants. It’s how I get myself out of bed every day, at least.

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**Author:** ![Czarcasm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/czarcasm/32/4050_2.png) [@Czarcasm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Czarcasm)\
**Post date:** [October 4, 2012, 8:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/responses-to-a-post/636723/14 "2012-10-04T20:43:51Z")

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> [@Munch](#):
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> I think even zombie Ed McMahon wants me to wear pants. It’s how I get myself out of bed every day, at least.

Have you ever thought of becoming a motivational speaker? 😃

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**Author:** ![lieu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/c2a13f/32.png) [@lieu](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lieu)\
**Post date:** [October 4, 2012, 9:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/responses-to-a-post/636723/15 "2012-10-04T21:17:16Z")

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I understand good motivational speakers picture everyone in the audience without, you know, pants.

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**Author:** ![Czarcasm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/czarcasm/32/4050_2.png) [@Czarcasm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Czarcasm)\
**Post date:** [October 4, 2012, 9:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/responses-to-a-post/636723/16 "2012-10-04T21:19:14Z")

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> [@lieu](#):
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> I understand good motivational speakers picture everyone in the audience without, you know, pants.

And in return, most audiences view motivational speakers as braindead zombies.

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**Author:** ![Freakenstein](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/b782af/32.png) [@Freakenstein](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Freakenstein)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2012, 8:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/responses-to-a-post/636723/17 "2012-10-05T08:56:48Z")

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If the thread is way down on the page, no-one is going to see Your thanks if You could post it without a bump.  
And who it would annoy. If it’s still visible it won’t even push another thread out. And if it pushes, that’s an old thread anyway.

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**Author:** ![Jake](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/f475e1/32.png) [@Jake](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jake)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2012, 4:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/responses-to-a-post/636723/18 "2012-10-05T16:28:54Z")

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Thanks, all, for your replies!

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**Author:** ![Czarcasm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/czarcasm/32/4050_2.png) [@Czarcasm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Czarcasm)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2012, 4:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/responses-to-a-post/636723/19 "2012-10-05T16:43:44Z")

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> [@Jake](#):
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> Thanks, all, for your replies!

Not just yet, dude-I’ve come up with _another_ solution.  
You start a brand new thread thanking others for their help in the original thread, providing a link to the original thread! 😃

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**Author:** ![Colibri](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/colibri/32/1841_2.png) [@Colibri](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Colibri)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2012, 4:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/responses-to-a-post/636723/20 "2012-10-05T16:55:23Z")

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As the FAQ says, there’s no problem with posting a “thanks” even if it happens to bump the thread.

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