Retirement: fantasy vs reality

Same for me, but I fear it too. It’s too easy to slip into the lazy habit when there’s always tomorrow. Then the days slip away and your time is gone. Active people seem both to live longer and to be happier, so I feel like I have to make an effort to be more active. The saving grace is there’s so little on TV that I want to watch. On the other hand, there are thousands of books published every year. Not to mention online time vacuums, like this place.

The analysis my financial planner did for us had inflation figured in, or course. It was a Monte Carlo simulation, and so covered lots of inflation and investment return possibilities. That is the only kind of analysis I’d even come close to trusting. And it gives probabilities that you will have a certain amount of money at a certain year in the future.
I don’t know if the retirement needs calculators take inflation into account or not - I suspect they do, because their purpose is to scare you so you’ll invest more with them.

By near the bottom you mean most people, right? At age 56 - 61 the median retirement savings was $17,000.
Worrying about expenses growing or shrinking over time is a luxury for those of us with a lot more than that.
The overall implication is that if I was to plot inflation-corrected costs over the span of a retirement I’d have the curve sloping upwards ever more steeply for working class retirees and sloping level to downwards for doctor/lawyer class retirees. With maybe a hockey stick upwards at the end for both. Followed shortly by a funeral.

The way Medicare is structured now, the government might be forced to do something reasonable about health care when the disaster you describe happens. For those under 65 they can pretend that people can find reasonable insurance, but with Medicare they are stuck with a lot of the bill.
But I may be overoptimistic.